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I bet this is not the full story! There is more to this than meets the eye. Fred should be able to lovingly and amicably ask for the reason behind her actions and both should resolve the issue and come to a consensus on the way forward.

Aww so touching! will henceforth bear dis in mind an making purchases. Tanx op. God help us be one another's helper

This is so so so true! Being tops in the class doesnt guarantee tops in life! Determinantion, handiwork, etc--- and of course, God has a lot to play thereafter

It is well! God will take care of you and the kids? Anyway, endeavour to use a proper family planning method next time!

Sex life? What sex life, you ask?

With kids, work, and life in the way, how do you make time for each other?

So how do you get down to enjoying a romp with your spouse after all the hustle and bustle of the day?

Check out these 8 tips to ‘getting busy’ when you are busy.

1) Prioritise Sex
Yes, make it a priority and it will happen.
Feeding the children quickly becomes a priority when you have nagging children at your feet. Make your desires like that and don’t let up until you have got what you need.
You can find a way to make it happen. Know that your needs are important and you will function better when they have been met.

2) Schedule Sex
Very few things in an adult’s life happen spontaneously, so why leave your sex life up to chance?

To make scheduled romps slightly more spontaneous, think of unusual times, like meeting at home in the middle of the day when kids are in day care or school. Just find a time that works.

Want suggestions?
- a quickie in the shower before work is a great start to anyone's day.
- early in the morning before the kids wake up
- immediately after they have gone to bed
- during the day while the kids are watching a video.

3) Un-schedule Sex
Contradictory tips? Well, no, but you sure heard me right, and I repeat, UNSCHEDULE SEX.

By this, I simply mean, make room for impromptu sex, sex as the spirit(or will I say, emotions?) leads.

You know, those times during normal activities when you just get stirred up and all Hot? When you just, out of the blues, desire to snuggle? Then please, do go for it and let out the steam. Even if just for a quickie.
Don’t wait until you get into bed to initiate sex. Sex can happen anywhere so make use of the spaces you have.

It’s always da bomb, you know, unplanned sex.

4) Stir Up Sex
Occasionally do things that make you think about sex.

It can be hard to switch your brain from job, domestic chores etc to sex, so a little help to focus your mind on Eros is necessary.
You can write your partner a sexy note or text, or think back to a time when you had great sex, or give your partner a randy call, or ------, whatever rocks your boat.

5) Shower power
Endeavour to take a shower together. There is something about getting naked and wet together that can be very erotic.
This does not take extra time as such; you need to shower anyway, with or without sex, so why not do it together?

When there is sufficient time, hop into a steamy shower and talk about whatever's on your minds. Slow down, relax, and enjoy each other while sharing some intimacy — from shower sex to just talking and hugging.
The important thing is to stay connected.

6) Try Home - Dating
Your most romantic dates can be indoors, so avoid putting off your dates due to lack of time to go outing.
Waiting around for 'free outing evenings' can provide too few dates for you and can hurt your marriage.

So, who says you cannot home-date?
You can spend romantic evenings cooking together, having candlelight dinners, watching a movie together, having in-depth heart-to-heart conversations together etc
Make out lovely ways to spend the evening together. Think of romantic music, wine, candle, etc.

And, of course, take an 'intermission' to make out!

7) Cut Down On pre-intimacy Time
Yea, I know, we all want loooong pre-intimacy (particularly the ladies), but when there’s little or no time available, lets once in a while, cut down on pre-intimacy and go straight to the real deal.

You know, those steamy times in the bathroom, or kitchen or wherever, when all we can do is just kiss a while and then penetrate and
bang!

Let’s make room for that, else waiting always till a long pre-intimacy can be embarked on may prove futile.
Yes, why always wait to have the appetiser before the main meal when hungry, when you can have the main meal straightaway and still be satisfied!

Adjust Rather Than Complain
Be realistic about the type of sex you are going to have. Accept the changes parenthood brings into your sex life and graciously adapt.

This too shall pass – adapt your sex life a bit for a few years and you will later have your space and time to yourselves once again.
Expect interruptions (crying babies, barging in of kids into the room atimes etc.) and don’t be put off.

If your life is like mine it is likely that long romantic sessions may not always fit in, so relax and enjoy the available quickies!

http://pleasuretryst.com/8-creative-sex-tips-busy-parents/

spot on. And for married folks, MAKE YOUR SPOUSE YOUR BEST FRIEND! Dis will help reduce the spate of infidelity to the bearest minimum. Here are tips to do so http://pleasuretryst.com/35-loving-and-inexpensive-romantic-ways-to-keep-your-love-aglow/