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Are you still there asking what to do instead of discussing with Usian Bolts on how to increase your running skills? My dear dont reverse your God gven role.
Yours is to help that means the man must first carry the load before you lend support. But sometimes occasion warrants that you go beyond helping but in this case the man is not even looking at the load not to talk of carrying but instead he brings more load for you to carry. Take it from me that this man would have another woman that he is giving money to cos every man wants to be respected and to get this respect they have to play their role. Since he is not playing that role with you he is definitely playing it else where and you my friend is Bring Bring.
If you continue with this guy let me tell you what you will definitely experience. When a collegue in your office sends you Hundred naira recharge card, tears will run down your eyes or when someone else volunteers to buy you lunch, you will almost kiss their 'royal feet' not becos you cant afford it but becos you would have forgotten what if feels like to receive gifts from your loved one and them HATRED for this man will set in that is if he ends up marrying you at all. But he will still keep the other woman where he gains respect to feed his ego. My dear contact Bolts and run for your life now that it is not late. A failed courtship is better than an unhappy marriage. I am talking from experiences of my close friends. Dont come and say had I known!!!!!!!!

T@meD0:

it never ceases to amaze me how our people always fail to pay attention to little detail.

last time i checked, the list the OP posted clearly shows the awards were based on the music VIDEOS not the actual music itself!

i don't know why some of you are calling your favorite artists that did not win because you think they are the best.

maybe they didn't win jack cause their VIDEOS sucked, period!

the awards were given out based on the VIDEOS and not the songs the artists sang regardless of how popular or good it was!

**smh** which way naija?

Much as i want to agree with you, I dont think the awards are based on the videos alone becos na good music naim dem dey first look before dem talk of the video. If the music no make sense no matter the kind video you shoot it will still not sell. I personally dont ve any favourite amongst the winners or those who did not win but I still feel something is just not right with the list. Lets call a spade a spade and not a farming impliment.

My PH people, long time. Its good to be back here. Whats up?

Ujujoan:

Be careful, people are gonna start calling you names

My dear, people will always talk. Its to be expected but I must express my opinion cos I am entitled to it as they are to theirs. Thanks anyway.

Over time, history has shown that we must all pass through different stages in life and when forced to miss some either by chance or choice, it creates a loop hole in the circle of life. Nature being what it is cannot be cheated and like truth always finds a way to fill up the gaps. What I am saying in essence is that, by courting or dating that girl from 16 and pushing her {not by force but choice} into courtship at that early stage, you have created a gap in her life that must be filled and it is called 'teen years'. This is the time when she is supposed to explore her sexuality and begin to discover herself as a woman and she does this by flirting and dating her peers. But with you in the picture, she probably missed all this and as such you suppressed her teen years forcing her into adulthood before her time. Right now, she knows that she can defy both you and her mother in order to gain what she terms her freedom but what is actually wrong is that something is missing in her and she is trying to find it.
My friend, the best thing for you now is to move on becos even if you manage to convince her to come back to you she will continue to recent you for making her miss out in life when really she has missed nothing but an experiment.
Get a lady of your own age whom two of you will be at pals not one who will be trying all her life to keep up with you or one that will drag you back becos you are trying to pull her along. Trust me, its easier when you date your age mate or someone within your age bracket not minors. The only way you can do that is to build your self confidence. Regards in your quest.

What for, {friendship, marriage, fling, coach,} be specific.

shirt wey don dirty finish come turn to rag.

My PH people, wetin dey?