pro01:

^^^

Na WA 4 women and their (mostly) scanty brain. Maybe I should rename this thread: "illogic, thy name is woman".

Despite what guys spend on you, they dont turn you gurls to slaves - the way you described (roles reversed), unless your own boyfriends have been terrible jack-asses! Haba. At least me and the guys i know treat(ed) girls with tenderness and consideration, despite being HE who pays the piper (and therefore should dictate the tune). And no guy i know whines about the money he spends DURING a relationship. But at least, when the relationship comes to an END, the girl should be gracefully grateful while exiting, haba! How hard is this for your soft, wigged heads to understand

Godslover:

Yes i know because i know the story very well, i said her husband is here in nigeria, they live amuwo odofin close to festac, she is lying and to prove that, see if she comes to this forum again, the man is not cheating on her, she said he was talking to a lady he has not introduced to her and that this lady is friends with foes at the bank where she works, [i][/i]then on sat the man saw her with his own eyes necking in a bus at moro campus of ife mba, then the man threatened her with divorce and she has bin begging since then. she simply wants to gather courage for the worst case since she claims to be a born again, the man lost his job on the 19th of july 2009 and she has been paying for the car loan from fcmb, thats all she bin doing, both relations have sued for caution and after all even if she is crazy to go to nairaland the husband introduced her to and discuss her family issues.see i have got data as in facts and figures

Enockia:

made love till there was no skin left on my d*****k

Godslover:

Yes i know because i know the story very well, i said her husband is here in nigeria, they live amuwo odofin close to festac, she is lying and to prove that, see if she comes to this forum again, the man is not cheating on her, she said he was talking to a lady he has not introduced to her and that this lady is friends with foes at the bank where she works, then on sat the man saw her with his own eyes necking in a bus at moro campus of ife mba, [s][/s]then the man threatened her with divorce and she has bin begging since then. she simply wants to gather courage for the worst case since she claims to be a born again, the man lost his job on the 19th of july 2009 and she has been paying for the car loan from fcmb, thats all she bin doing, both relations have sued for caution and after all even if she is crazy to go to nairaland the husband introduced her to and discuss her family issues.see i have got data as in facts and figures

Godslover:

I SAID I KNOW THIS PERSON VERY WELL AND SOON I WILL TELL EVERY ONE THE TRUTH.
WHY DONT SHE GO TO HER CHURCH MEMBERS AND COMPLAIN

pro01:

Rubbish. What do i gain other than intimacy (which i can always get OUTSIDE a relationship far cheaper)? Why don't women do the spending let us see; i'd surely change my opinion then. All these clever by half (il)logic sickens me.


Really, if i were a woman to spend money on you, then you would have to play my role as well. First I will stretch on the bed with newspaper or the remote control while you do the cooking, washing, cleanup and put water for me to take my bath. After that you will serve me my meals no matter how tired you are after the days work. Oh dont forget I will be needing Intimacy before I go to bed. Will you really do all that? Besides I get to say what goes on around and dictate the tune of the relationship. I dont really see you picking up after me no matter the amount of money I spend do you know why? Cos thats not your God given role.
Might i add, Havent you ever taken, borrowed, stolen or recieved anything from a woman before?  Do you say thank you to them after you break up?
Besides would you proudly come out to your guys and say, Oh i just had cheaper intimacy[i][/i] from outside?[joint] the same way you would proudly show off your woman to your friends?

temsas:

in my view there is no mistake sleeping with. as we know cheating is sweeter than any thing in the world.

whitelexi:

Sorry folks but i have to agree with the OPs school of thought, not cos he's talking of women but cos i've seen the same trend and it only spikes into one direction with naija girls.
The OP mentioned all these happening when a relationship ends, but dude, it happens even when the wooing starts and runs a smooth curve throughout the lifecycle of the relationship.

Funny enough, it seems prevalent with those girls who constantly ask themselves what always goes wrong with their relationships. . . Those ones that want to rule their men. . . They usually end up single for long spells for the same reason, and little wonder why

Experience has taught me not to spend on silly stuff anymore. . . Just do the necessary, those ones that wont even dent your cashflow, maintenance funding, small gifts, nothing more! cos if u go beyond that u become a cash cow.
They will milk u to the extent that your mum or family wont even come into the picture anymore. . . Its all a learning curve, mine was very straight and fast!

_{Call Credit, Perfumes, wrist watches, Mobile phones, Digital Cameras, Laptops, Gold jewelery, house rent, cars, house. . . The list is endless!}

kemisuga:

I didnt see any big deal in kneeling down. I will if He deserves it.

d bigrod:

[size=16pt]some guys sef dey fall ma hand.who dey trust babes these days?i stopped trusting them a long time ago.when it comes to ladies,i live an `i dont care` life.i dont give myself headache cos of a woman if not i `ll die b4 my granny.if u snd women,u die young.[/size]
[goes back into hiding]

chipmunkey:

Got loads of experience with this girls. , Okay, here is another one. Met this girl online and we started chatting. She told me she had a bf and i told her i have a gf too. Now she's started flirting with me just because i said i like her, which of course is true and i meant nothing more than that.

_{just can't help it cos i'm a loyal type and my gf is also a very honest person, but still i find it hard to trust someone hundred percent.}  

d bigrod:

[size=16pt]guy,i wish u gud luck in dis battle u want to go into.sure they will tear your sorry life apart.take care.[/size]