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Respect sir and.....

What a sad news R. I. P to d dead.

It’s funny how often “forever” seems to never last.

We all make promises, of course. We tell people we love them, we care for them, we could never live without them, but most of the time it turns out to be nothing more than empty, wishful thinking.

Yet, we need to make these sorts of promises. People need to feel a level of security in their relationship in order to be happy – it’s human nature. But are we ever really secure?

There are a hundred ways to lose the one you love, to get your heart broken; however, none are worse than getting cheated on. Cheating is something I never condoned nor, to be honest, understood.

If you don’t care enough for the person you claim to love to keep it in your pants, then you may need to rethink how much you actually care about him or her.

Don’t give me any of that “I have needs” crap; we all have needs. The person you’re with has needs – he or she needs you to be loyal.

Being cheated on is arguably the worst feeling in the world, emotionally speaking of course. It can be detrimental. I was cheated on once in my life – that I know of – and it’s not an experience I’m eager to repeat.

If the person you’re in love with cheats on you… words can barely do the pain justice. But I’m going to do my best and try anyway.

At first, you don’t want to believe what you’re hearing.

Most people find out their partner cheated or has been cheating on them from a third-party source. Rarely do people have the courage to own up to their actions and be the ones to tell their partners what they did.

Most often, you’re never actually meant to find out. Most cheaters are chronic cheaters – this is why we have the saying, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

While this is a bit too broad to be true in every case, the fact is many of those who cheat do so because they believe it’s OK to do so. So they do it regularly.

Chronic cheaters will never be the ones to own up to what they did, so hearing it from your friends can be… difficult. You’re likely to not even believe them in the first place, trying to rationalize with yourself, thinking that they must – for whatever reason – be trying to sabotage your relationship.

When I was cheated on, I didn’t find out from friends. I heard it directly from the source. And you know what? It was still hard for me to believe.

I just didn’t want to accept what had happened because as soon as you accept it, it becomes real. And once it becomes real, so does the pain.

Your world, as you knew it, crumbles.

The ground beneath your feet begins to fall away into the abyss, and you’re left with nothing to hold on to.

It’s one thing if someone you’re casually or semi-formally dating cheats on you, and it’s another when the man or woman you love decides you are no longer good enough for him or her.

Because that’s what it means, doesn’t it? You loved this person with all your heart, and it turns out that you were only being delusional. The reality that you created for yourself has vanished in an instant, and you feel completely and utterly lost.

Your entire future has just been rewritten – and you now have no idea how the book is going to end. That’s the worst part of being cheated on.

It’s not necessarily that your ego gets hurt and bruised that rocks your world; It’s that the entire future you planned for yourself disappears, and you don’t know where to go from here.

Your ego gets hurt, and you begin to question yourself.

You begin to wonder if you are as great of a catch as you thought you were. You thought you were smart, good looking, caring, loving, a great pick for a life partner.

But then the person you loved, the person you decided to dedicate yourself to, throws you to the side of the road as if you were garbage.

Having someone dump you is one thing. Sometimes things just don’t work out, and you have no choice but to accept the situation as it is. But getting cheated on is different. Getting cheated on is a clear message saying you are the problem – that you just

Hmmm recession reach bear too?

Here to learn doc in da houz over to u guy's.

Why Lagos?

Amen with many likes abeg na ds kind thunder go fire all naija enemies

Boneless

By the time u unveil those clothes and the bra hanging the breast all u will be left with is....

Averagely everything about ladies is fake. Fake hair, fake nails, fake eye lashes and eye contact, fake skin, fake breast, fake yansh, fake sex, just name it u will realise its fake later.

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See the last pics show hunger in the land many the lord deliver us. May we not wait for others before we av our daily meal and may God bless those who remembers the needy.

So this is epic?

EniHolar:
Toor... Where d thing nao?

Let's see d 'before' and 'after' pix so that we can compare.

Kai sis Eni you don spoil finish.

ItsQuinn:
The photos aren't complete

So what do u wan to see?

bro4u:
Mumu man... Him for come naija make we give am correct agbo for 5k sef... Afta one week the weight for tire am

Lol bros u kill me with laugh.

My real face.

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God bless these men of different tribes and tongues, different colors and background, different religions and ethnicity yet dey fight as one to kp this country safe.

Omudia11:
Just recently there was bombing in a catholic church (obviously by Islamic extremists). Several lives were lost. And tho the suicide bomber died, about two people were arrested in connection with the bombing and guess what? The catholic church released a statement saying that they (the accomplices), have been forgiven by them.

Note: These are people who lost wives/husbands/sons,daughters/priests etc.

The Muslims should be happy that this christian was nice enough not to have bombed the mosque like the Muslims bomb churches.

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Hmmmmm.

How come?

Most men are guilty of this though you can also blame the lady. This is the generation we are born. In this day hardly you see any relationship 100% without this.. .

....mega party loading.

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On this mountain will I build my church and the gate of hell shall not prevail..


Am for Christ, for to live is Christ and to die is gain. Can I have a witness in the house with likes for the Son of God.

Christ my hope of glory.

He believes in a religion of peace. All hail Islam.

What you wanted to said is well saided..dont worry.

Silentscreamer:
See how beautiful they were when they were still young. Old age no good at all.

I tell u...i fear old age and death seriously. Yet we all must get old or die one day.

In anoda view.. .

All I c is. ....

EniHolar:
Pls what are all these used for?

Question....hmmmm

Op come back here.. .

This is life that we hate to lie and love to hate. No one wan to die cos we savor both the sweetness and the sour pat of life.