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Tropper abi ki lon je? You talk too much. Your I too know too much.

@Poster. If you need babe. You no need come Internet come post. Come my area for Ilupeju. Joint dey. The babes there na N200 for shortime. Easther Monday na bonanza day for their regular customer.

If you dey patrol there wella self, them fit give you jara/fisi.

Good Luck

This guy na. Ole Ponbele. Ole aji bole. ohhhhhhhbiiiiiiiiiiiii

Water plenty for your eyes, lol.

hmmm

opokonwa:
The first question that came into my mind was "how old you and your girl 'friend' were?"
But realising that you had posted it somewhere up (she's 21 and 2 years older than you)
At 19, you fit the impression I had, 'naive'.
Both of you are naive.
Hence, kissing her, touching her or even hugging her passionately was 'an assignment'.

I enjoyed your write-up though.
Nice writing style . . . evoked memories of Mills & Boon.

Enjoy the fantasy while it lasts.

Yes I was 19 years then. I never loved a babe that way in my life. She was too sweet, and I hope to see her again, I love her soo much. Days without her is like a book without pages.

[b][b]It started while I was on a cruise to the Badagry with my family. At first, I wasn't too excited because no one of my age came with us and I was afraid I wouldn't have much fun. My parents suggested I go to the meeting for people in my age group to meet some people. Most of the kids were younger than me and I didn't find any that I would like to hang out with.

About 15 minute into the meeting, a girl came in and sat at a table about 20 feet from me. I glanced at her and then looked back again. She was really beautiful and I thought to myself, if I could only find a girl that was that pretty and liked me,

For the rest of the meeting, most of my attention was on her. It was the end of the meeting and I decided I had to talk to her and I did. I introduced myself and said, "You must be Joke." She had a nametag on from the group that she was with.

Smiling she said, "Yes, I wonder how you figured that out." Right away I noticed her smile and wanted to talk to her even more.

The whole group from the meeting went to a comedy show for something to do. We sat down and she ended up next to me, which made me very happy! We began talking about little things and then the comedian began to do a parody of a song I liked.

She said that he shouldn't be making fun of that song because it was really good. I told her I agreed and that's where we really started to talk casually about other things. It was evening and I had been waiting to see the view of the outside at night on the ocean, so I suggested we all go out and walk around on the deck. We all went out and ended up on the back of the boat.

One by one people began to leave and finally everyone left except her and I. I was so happy that we would finally get to talk alone. I asked if she would like to go to the lower deck to talk and get out of the wind and she said ok. We immediately clicked; it was the greatest time I've ever had.

Later, she told me if I wasn't younger than her (oh yeah she was 21, 2 yrs. older than me at the time but, my birthday was in a couple days) and if she didn't have a boyfriend she would go out with me if we lived near each other. I thought that was great and I wasn't too discouraged by her having a boyfriend because she told me about how they were having problems.

That night went very well and we finally decided to go in at about 4:20 am and also decided to meet up again the next day.

The next day I woke up and went to breakfast. I went back to my room and sat there for a while and the phone rang. It was her, and she asked me to come to her room and get her. So I did and we went out around the boat. I don't really know what we did that whole day to pass the time but it was great. We mostly sat on the deck and enjoyed the view.

That night, we decided to go out to the front of the boat on the very top deck. There were a few other people there. The view was beautiful. The moon was on the other side of the boat that night but there were storms in the distance that made it amazing added to the already beautiful girl that was spending time with me.

I would look over to her and she would look me in the eyes and she would turn her head and take a deep breath. "Don't do that," She would say, "It gives me butterflies." I could sit and look at her eyes forever, I didn't tell her, but her eyes gave me the same feeling.

We talked again for a while and I had the greatest urge just to put my arm around her. It was eating at me so I told her what I felt. She told me if I wanted, I could put my arm around her. I told her I thought it would be wrong even though I would only be holding her. I told her I respected her relationship and that I wouldn't want it to lead to other things that would ruin a relationship. The rest of that night all I could think about was holding her.

The next day was pretty much the same except that night I gave in and put my arm around her, but that is as far as it went. I really felt like I was in heaven during that night. I wished it would never end. We again enjoyed the view together and I was very open to her about my feelings and thoughts. I had never been that comfortable with anyone else in my life and it seemed so right. We again stayed out until early morning.

The last day was different. I was naive and didn't realize that time was moving fast and tonight would be our last together. I couldn't believe it was going to be over so I kind of pushed that thought aside and had another day with her. We were getting so close I felt as if I knew her so well and I did. We told each other so many personal things. We completely opened up to each other over this trip. It was getting late and we got some people to take some pictures for us. We talked about keeping in touch and agreed we would write and mail and maybe an occasional call. This evening no one was out. We took some lawn chairs to the back deck and enjoyed the view of the bright moon reflecting on the calm ocean. The view itself was breathtaking.

The butterflies I felt every time I looked at her this evening were very intense. We ended up not using the other chair; she sat in front of me on mine and laid back on me. I knew eventually on this night I was going to have to give in and kiss her, but I felt it was both wrong and right at the same time. I asked her what she was thinking about and she told me to look at her and I did.

She said "ok, I'm waiting for you to kiss me now." Holding back I told her it wouldn't be right. She told me that she really wanted me to. I wanted to so much and couldn't hold back any longer. I looked at her and said this is quite an awkward position to kiss.

Then I kissed her. It was a great kiss, I think, under the moon and looking over the ocean. I took a deep breath and realized that this was a really great choice to kiss her. This was the perfect most romantic first kiss I have ever imagined and it involved me.

We tried to stay out as long as we could consider it was the last night. She began to get cold and tired so we decided to go in. I walked her to her room and stood there and hugged her for a while. For some stupid reason we thought we would see each other the next morning so we didn't really hug long.

I told her I didn't want to go and she said "I know, but I will see you tomorrow." I told her goodnight and turned away, immediately when I turned from her my eyes began to fill with tears. I was upset but I thought I would see her the next day.

It turned out I wouldn't see her the next day after all. I was very upset and all I could think about was her! I was very quiet that whole day and listened to a song over and over again that we both liked during the cruise. I didn't realize she was really gone until that night. I lay in bed in the hotel room and cried for a long time thinking about her and how I would probably never see her again. This was absolutely depressing to me and was having a really hard time.

Three days later I was home and I got a call from her at the park before she left for home. Then I realized that she liked me as much as I liked her considering she called me even before she got home. She said she was having more problems with her boyfriend and eventually ended up breaking up with him.

We ended up talking every day on the phone quite a bit. It's been 2-3 months and there's only been one day that we haven't talked. She will visit me soon and I will come to her graduation.

I have known for a while now that I love her. I didn't know what love was until I met her. All the times I said I love you to others meant nothing compared to the feeling behind the words when I say them to her. I will never stop loving her, and I hope she never stops loving me. We both agree we will eventually get married. I know I'm young, but my love for her won't allow me to do anything else. I believe she has the same feelings for me and I now know that life is so much more beautiful when you have found real love. My feelings are deeper than love. She is more than my love she is my life.[/b][/b]

Lol, Skeleton, Egun-gun, lol,

[b]The Old Testament law commanded the Israelites, “Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD” (Leviticus 19:28). So, even though believers today are not under the Old Testament law (Romans 10:4; Galatians 3:23-25; Ephesians 2:15), the fact that there was a command against tattoos should cause us to question. The New Testament does not say anything about whether a believer should or should not get a tattoo.

In relation to tattoos and body piercing, a good test is to determine whether we can honestly, in good conscience, ask God to bless and use the particular activity for His own good purposes. "Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31). The Bible does not command against tattoos or body piercing, but it also does not give us any reason to believe God would have us get tattoos or body piercing.

Another issue to consider is modesty. The Bible instructs us to dress modestly (1 Timothy 2:9). One aspect of dressing modestly is making sure everything that should be covered by clothing is adequately covered. However, the essential meaning of modesty is not drawing attention to yourself. People who dress modestly dress in such a way that they do not draw attention to themselves. Tattoos and body piercing most definitely draw attention. In this sense, tattoos and body piercing are not modest.

An important Scriptural principle on issues that the Bible does not specifically address is that if there is room for doubt as to whether it pleases God, then it is best to not engage in that activity. "For whatsoever is not of faith is sin" (Romans 14:23). We need to remember that our bodies, as well as our souls, have been redeemed and belong to God. Although 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 does not directly apply to tattoos or body piercing, it does give us a principle, "What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price; therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's." This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do and where we go with our bodies. If our bodies belong to God, we should make sure we have His clear "permission" before we "mark it up" with tattoos or body piercing.
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vinshyne:
Can i get a possible link as to where/web add,that i can download
toni braxton's libra album from[color=#990000][/color]

Yes Brother you can, http://www.filevolution.com/ares-lite/ go to this web. Download the P2P and install it. Go to search then search for any music of your dreams, and download,

efuah:
@poke pope,
yeah, kind of

gimmie da source please

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Ok.

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Check it out.

efuah:
AJ, u're very right!

Pope. . . did u really type all this or u copied and. . .

pope pope

Lol, Efuah, Its not a Copy and Pasted Jab. Or does it look one?

In all practicability, there is nothing wrong falling in love online. After all, God is God of all creations and He works in various ways. People has falling in love and got married on Disco party, in the Bus, taxi, train, plane, school, wedding/birthday party, market place, social gathering. The list is endless including the church and mosque.

Love is blind as they would say but is love truly blind? There is difference between love (AGAPE) and infatuation and lust. It is important to know the difference between marriage and friendship. Even marriage has different concepts and meaning between individuals, between secularity and Christianity. To the secular world, marriage is a contract and those of us who have knowledge of commercial law knows that FRUSTRATION as a breach of contract voids a contract. That is why somebody who tells you that he/she loves you will wake up the next morning and tells you that he/she is no longer in love and that bring the contract of marriage to an ugly end.

I live in a country (NG) where we watch divorce court on DSTV and it will amaze you to know the rate of divorce and the flimsy reason/s why people divorce their marriages in (US). A marriage and divorce statistic in US published by the Bureau of Census for the year 1990-2004 shows the marriage rate of 7.5 per 1000 population and divorce rate of 3.6 per 1000 of population. That is alarming. But the question you ask is, where are most of those marriages are contracted? Online, of course.

To Christianity, marriage is a covenant. Know the difference between a contract and a covenant, marriage is violable, covenant is everlasting (separated by death). Marriage is a relationship that only death separates. The secular world has popularized online dating and marriages even among the so-called Christians.

The problem with the present Christianity is that the world is converting them instead of them converting the world. On Sundays, we are holier – church workers, Sunday school teachers, we labour in the church but outside the church gate, there is no difference between us and the world and infact, the world even behaves better than us because some of them have morals and values.

We have failed to realize that they are two standards – the standard of the world and the standard of God (Romans 12:2; 1 John 2:15-17). We as a Christian have failed to know that friendship with the world is enmity with God

We as Africans are too quick to forget our values. We think because the PRINCE of this world (SATAN) is using the western world to destroy family values, that all they do is good. Let me give you a little background. We have two opposing values, in the western world, there is no family relationship but we have a solid family values where moral and dignity are prized. In the western world, girls at 14 years of age has already started having babies and by the time they turn 21, they already have 1- 2 -3 from 3 different men. Big money! Yes, she collects child support every month basically about 10% of what the man earns and if the man fails to pay he goes to jail and still work from jail to pay. Back home, your extended family both from your maternal and paternal families train you and guide you to a better and respectful relationship. On the opposite side, the story is different, you train yourself, if you live with your parent, you share the rent and bills on 50-50 basis. Because you are the master of yourself you meet a guy in the taxi or online and fell in love (infatuation), because you have no family to turn to, you proceed straight to the court and the next minute you are husband and wife, some days latter you are back again to the court to divorce. Does it sound funny?

Online dating/marriage, not only for man – woman but woman-woman (lesbianism), man –man (homosexuals), man – animal(bestiality) are the order of the today. Cats and dogs are adopted online (I call it animal marriage), people prefer to live with animal rather than human in the name of PET but all this are not surprising because Romans 1: 26-28 says, “For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.
Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator--who is forever praised. Amen. Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion”

The problem we have as human being is that when it is time for us to stick closer to God for direction, we seems to do it on our own way and come back blaming God when it looks difficult for us to bring our life together.

Marriage is an institution ordained by God and somewhere is a man or woman God has kept for you as a wife or husband. Get this straight; INTERNET is not a place to look for love. No right thinking African in general and Nigerian in particular will pick a wife online. We have values. Most men telling you about love and marriage online are not real. I heard a recent story about a guy in Hi5 that lives in Europe and promised 39 single girls in hi5 marriage. When he came home recently, hmmmmmmmmmm, you know what happened, it was testing and sampling but of a truth, he is married with kids in Europe. To those who are crazy for those living abroad, in the case of the guy above, I do not blame him but those who have cheapened themselves and have lost dignity. Those who have fallen prey to this type of people will testify this. Nobody who makes money the way they do there (US) outside the shore of Nigeria will lavish a cent or penny on you except he is into drug or some kind of fraud. Even if he calls you and speaks nice and lovely words to you every second, they are 99.9% chances that he is married genuinely or are into some kind of contract marriage to get his resident papers and he will be a fool to tell you. Because he knows the implication of having indiscriminate sex and having to pay child support until the child turns 18 years old, he prepares to come home to have cheap sex and as they would say, “to show Nigerian girls” and when he comes home sometime on credit card debts, his hotel room turns into an international market by desperate girls. If of a truth, he wants to marry, after sampling with as many as his strength can afford, he goes down to the village to pick a local girl on the recommendation of his aunty or parent. But let me ask, don’t we fear HIV/AIDS, since we do not fear God?

That is what you get online, Internet is full of scammers, people who exploit you sexually but don’t get me wrong, Internet has become a powerful tool for networking and that is what Nairaland has provided for Nigerians. I commend those wonderful guys behind the birth of Nairaland everyday. They are wonderful people online and one can make a long-term relationship that can blossom into something serious but when it comes to marriage, it can start anywhere though; God works in many ways and can give you your heart throb anywhere but it is important for you know that they are two ways of going about getting married. You can do it by:

1. Seeking the perfect will of God
2. Going for the permissive will of God

The one you seek online, the one you choose considering materiality, physical attractiveness, personality attractiveness and the likes are the one you do outside God direction. God cannot stop you because He respects our will; man is a free moral agent. Because you are consumed with your selfish desires and He can’t stop you but allows it to happen, it has His permissive will over it but you get the result of what comes out of it – good or bad. Your decision may be the beginning of a life long life of misery and agony or it may work well for you but you can’t come back blaming God because He never has His hand when you started it.

But if you follow the path of righteousness, God will sure lead you, where you will meet him/her I can’t tell because God works in a miraculous ways but one thing is sure, he must belong to the household of God. A Christian looking for a marriage partner in a secular environment can’t be said to be led by God. The first test for the will of God is what I will call the “household test” for 2 Corinthians 6: 14-16 said, “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people."

If you say you are a Christian and are in a relationship with somebody who is not a Christian, it is not the WILL OF GOD. Some would say, I will change him/her after marriage, forget it, that is the preaching from the pit of hell for when cold water and hot water mixes together, it becomes COLD water and the world have more powerful tools of converting you than you does.
Happy wedlock!

Wrap him/her like a N200 suya, and throw it outta the house. But not around you.