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God, pls help, hw did I get this involved?

Bheey:
The truth is that the 2nd guy really loves the lady and very caring too.
The most amazing thing here that I discovered is that if u don't really love some1 , its hard 2 force yourself loving dt same person.


No1 is painted black here , dts just how it is. The 1st guy has his behaviour too , dts just it. Infact, when d 1st guy came back, d lady was d one telling the 2nd guy about it dt she can never go back 2 him etc. Its just dt d response of d 2nd guy 2 d issue really scared her that she had 2 withdraw. To d extent that he lied and came 2 collect the spare of his house key from her sayg he misplaced his. Meanwhile, b4 then, if there is any little disagreement between them, he changes d house key so d lady is not allowed 2 come in, this he will revert if d issue dies down.

Yet, d lady still sticked 2 him , thinkg maybe with time, he can change and mayb she will love him 2 ,

But, wat I just noticed is dt d 2nd guy is an excessively jealous guy , cannot just stand 2 c any guy near d lady , 2 d extent dt he asked her 2 remove all male pictures on her phone , and wen she did not, all hell broke loose (dt was b4 now) , and she had 2 do dt , I don't just know , its a complicated issue ,

This the lady sef! The 2nd guy is exceedingly jealous, goes off at the slightest provocation, changes door locks when issues can't be resolved.

My prediction: marry that dude and you'll soon be back to NL crying to us, how your hubby has changed after marriage!

You best stick with 1st guy and be open to him in all things from now onwards.

@OP: Different strokes for diff folks, we've the good and the bad. I must point out however that brazen attitude is now the order of the day @ orientation camp now-a-dayz. My orientation camp was such. . . 3 weeks of what I can't even start to post here, now imagine what transpired for the rest of the service year.

Like I said earlier diff strokes for diff folks, still I wouldn't get too close to student/corper, most of them comes across like they still experimenting and not too sure of what they want.

@ OP: Lmfao. . . NL land is killin me, so much kolo peeps on NL particularly Romance section!

VPersie:
I have come to realize that what I went through under my parents and in my secondary school was EMOTIONAL ABUSE. Now that I realize it, I am trying to rebuild myself so I can be a functioning member of the society, something I have never been.

The bolded tells me u've already gotten over ur so-called issues, why would u still want to waste time on trifles like suing the world Concentrate ur new found drive towards bringing the bolded bit to fruition and u'd be better for it.

PS: Ain' nothing new under the sun, what u've been through is paradise compared to what kids in war ravaged areas have had to endure, believe it or not most of them are upsatnding member of the society 2day.

http://journalism.nyu.edu/pubzone/livewire/archived/the_lost_children_of_sudan/

Kalela:
What do you do, if people don't treat you right in life?

Quite vague! Be more explicit, what kinda relationship? Friends, relatives or lovers? Different scenario might require different approach, but it all boils down to one basic principle. . . seek to understand and then be understood, suffice it to say. . . what is the root cause of the issue?

I'm alive, inspired, rejuvenated, feeling great and roaring to go. . . now, why won't I give him all the glory?

Thank you great Lord, E seun Baba, modupe!

I'm Alive - Celine Dion

was just kidding, come on yim, got something 2 show ya!

U surely took ur tym, didn't u?

Anyone up for a chat 2nite?

. . . hmnnn some dude is in for a treat. . . or not!

Epi:
^^ you are ALWAYS so kool, quiet and positive. It's like nothing bother you.

@ topic: 

Morning After Dark - Timbaland ft. Soshy & Nelly Furtado

God, I thank you for all you've done, still doing and about to do. For protecting and guiding me always, I say thank you good Lord.

Morning After Dark - Timbaland ft. Soshy & Nelly Furtado

Se multi-lingual ni iwo ni, abi talo ko e ni Yoruba?

5 _{I only saw half of ur face!}

Morning After Dark - Timbaland ft. Soshy & Nelly Furtado

Happy New Year y'all!

The New Year's gonna be new in every sense of the word. . . and why's everything happening with such rapid anti-climax?

Food for thought, no?

agina22:
Hello friends,

I am having an issue with my girl friend. She said she loves me, she is in school in the east, I live in Lagos. For sometime now I have noticed changes, she raises her voice at me on phone, she cuts the phone on me sometimes when we talk, she no longer sounds like the sweet girl I used to know. While I visited in school, she only slept in my house once of which I had to force her. I never had sex with her except for smooching because she said she was deflowered twice.

deflowered twice

@ Topic: Thank ur stars she'll be gone with 2k9, all the best in the coming year!

Presently, this (2009) is my best year on earth, its more like I can't take a step in the wrong direction. I find it hard to believe some of the transformation I've undergone. To God be the glory.

Whats good?

Danger - P square _{can't get enough of this song. . . so so funny!}

Searched for an existing topic to no avail and hence decided to come up with this. Whats ur New Year resolution?

@ topic: I've decided to drive like a law abiding citizen come 2010, paid too much legal fine, illegal fine, sorting & egunje to both policemen & traffic wardens/officials this 2009 Heck, still parted with a couple of thousands this past week!

There u have it! Thats my NY resolution, I'll probably come up with more as the year runs to an end. Now, ur turn!

mitchyy:
And if i dont?

U just might be setting urself up for an unpleasant surprise, your call though!

@ topic: She's definitely one stranger I'd luv 2 be family with.

I'm presently a stranger but would really luv 2 be family wiff u!