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Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 1:17am On Apr 02, 2021
Is that Nigerian women or is it black women have this narcissistic compulsion disorder to intimidate men and compel them to show affection for them or is it a general thing they do to al men. Is it true some women just crave attention and the consciousness that comes with men's adoration ,both inferior and superior craving their attention, it elates their aura and gives them an edge of power, some women are even ready to do anything to break a happy relationship because they want someone fantasizing about them. They do not necessarily want to get involved with the person, they just want that adoration while they settle for what their status can relate with. In some societies some women can even go as far as associating with someone using a commercial or poster or thought projection and still want nothing to do with one until they meet their social status expectation. Do you notice why when a man gets financially buoyant, lots of thoughts, visible messages start coming in and the conspiracy of invisible lovers start getting wisdom and start communicating normally.

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Soolmus: 3:19am On Apr 02, 2021
I really don't like to get involved in discussion around redpill blue pill, or gender bashing thread..

But some women are extremely self centred and narcist

Foolish men who are not disciplined resort to rape and sexual assaults because they don't fully understand flirtatious attention seeking nature of some women

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 02, 2021
ayo84:
Is that Nigerian women or is it black women have this narcissistic compulsion disorder to intimidate men and compel them to show affection for them or is it a general thing they do to al men. Is it true some women just crave attention and the consciousness that comes with men's adoration ,both inferior and superior craving their attention, it elates their aura and gives them an edge of power, some women are even ready to do anything to break a happy relationship because they want someone fantasizing about them. They do not necessarily want to get involved with the person, they just want that adoration while they settle for what their status can relate with. In some societies some women can even go as far as associating with someone using a commercial or poster or thought projection and still want nothing to do with one until they meet their social status expectation. Do you notice why when a man gets financially buoyant, lots of thoughts, visible messages start coming in and the conspiracy of invisible lovers start getting wisdom and start communicating normally.

Yes you’re right. Read “ The manipulated man” by Esther Villar.

Your question was answered in 1971.

The only way to win the game is not to play it

I pity for those who want to get rich to be able to afford women. A woman who will only give you audience when you’re rich is not the one for you
(that’s if you believe in such a thing as “the one”)

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Tedpgrass: 11:35am On Apr 02, 2021
Agree with guy above

Don't play the game
Ignore the attention seeker, or set your contract or terms and condition down

She will run or drift off, in search of a 'weaker' man!!!


.

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 1:23am On Apr 03, 2021
exactly we should not play games with them , what's your experience with foreign women
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Nobody: 7:36am On Apr 03, 2021
ayo84:
exactly we should not play games with them , what's your experience with foreign women

All girls are thesame

It’s just that in less developed societies, women weaponize sex and relationships as a survival tool due to poverty as against developed societies where this is not soo much the case but it still happens

However, that’s not to say that all girls donot retain their gold digging instinct everywhere you go

When she say she loves you, what she really means is that she loves what you provide for her. Stop playing the providers role and you would quickly come to realize that you were being used the whole time

Even better for her when she has kids. When you die off due to stress that comes with providing, your children will take over from where you stopped till her dying day

Compare the stats of men who turn to women versus women who turn to men and you would see a pattern. One gender has it easier but yet clamor for equality ( a narcissistic movement of equal rights but unequal responsibilities)

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 9:30am On Apr 03, 2021
Amazingguy55:


All girls are thesame

It’s just that in less developed societies, women weaponize sex and relationships as a survival tool due to poverty as against developed societies where this is not soo much the case but it still happens

However, that’s not to say that all girls donot retain their gold digging instinct everywhere you go

When she say she loves you, what she really means is that she loves what you provide for her. Stop playing the providers role and you would quickly come to realize that you were being used the whole time

Even better when she has kids. When you die off due to stress that comes with providing, your children will take over from where you stopped till her dying day

Compare the stats of men who turn to women versus women who turn to men and you would see a pattern. One gender has it easier but yet clamor for equality ( a narcissistic movement of equal rights but unequal responsibilities)

so you advise one should be normal when dealing with them
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Nobody: 11:18am On Apr 03, 2021
ayo84:


so you advise one should be normal when dealing with them

Im not advising. I’m just saying.

We all should be aware that it’s always games with them. Woe betide thee that do not put their game face on when dealing with them.

Game comes to women naturally while men have to learn after being played. Blessed is the one who learns game before being played.

When you become aware of the subtle games going on behind all the dates, the romance, the lovey dovey messages, you will still loose because of the blinding effect of libido but the losses will be minimal.

Here’s a short list of the things she will take from you and in some cases, even more;

1. Your time
2. Your money
3. Your emotional stability
4. Your focus
5. Your sperm ( causing you to age quickly and loose spiritual rewards)
6. In some cases, your sanity
7. In many cases, your friends
8. In some cases, your family
9. Your space

Etc etc

The best of relationships is always a bad deal for men not to mention the effects of a dysfunctional one.

Sad news is the society has been soo brainwashed by the handlers to the point where the few who dare to go against the grain and live free are made outcasts

If you force me to give advise, my first choice would be to not deal with women atall. ( if you’re Christian you would notice the apostles highly recommend this)

Second choice would be to only deal with females on a temporary basis only and avoid anything long term

Delete the word loneliness from your dictionary, master the art of rebuking the need for female validation or human validation atall as only God who made you can validate you, embrace the pain/gift of being hornyy and not doing anything about it ( the rewards are limitless and far surpasses any momentary endeavor of pleasure which is fleeting anyway)

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 12:16am On Apr 04, 2021
Amazingguy55:


Im not advising. I’m just saying.

We all should be aware that it’s always games with them. Woe betide thee that do not put their game face on when dealing with them.

Game comes to women naturally while men have to learn after being played. Blessed is the one who learns game before being played.

When you become aware of the subtle games going on behind all the dates, the romance, the lovey dovey messages, you will still loose because of the blinding effect of libido but the losses will be minimal.

Here’s a short list of the things she will take from you and in some cases, even more;

1. Your time
2. Your money
3. Your emotional stability
4. Your focus
5. Your sperm ( causing you to age quickly and loose spiritual rewards)
6. In some cases, your sanity
7. In many cases, your friends
8. In some cases, your family
9. Your space

Etc etc

The best of relationships is always a bad deal for men not to mention the effects of a dysfunctional one.

Sad news is the society has been soo brainwashed by the handlers to the point where the few who dare to go against the grain and live free are made outcasts

If you force me to give advise, my first choice would be to not deal with women atall. ( if you’re Christian you would notice the apostles highly recommend this)

Second choice would be to only deal with females on a temporary basis only and avoid anything long term

Delete the word loneliness from your dictionary, master the art of rebuking the need for female validation or human validation atall as only God who made you can validate you, embrace the pain/gift of being hornyy and not doing anything about it ( the rewards are limitless and far surpasses any momentary endeavor of pleasure which is fleeting anyway)

this assertions of yours are on point , what do you think of watching pornography , i think they are trying to take advantage of it .
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by AfroKnight: 12:35am On Apr 04, 2021
E be like say you just dey wake up. grin

If you intend to date or get married to a beautiful Nigerian young woman, you must factor that narcissism into the equation as an unknown. If you’re lucky, the value will be low, if not, you will have to focus mainly on her appealing attributes.

The worst are those who don’t even have money or a successful career to back up their narcissism.
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 12:44am On Apr 04, 2021
Amazingguy55:


Im not advising. I’m just saying.

We all should be aware that it’s always games with them. Woe betide thee that do not put their game face on when dealing with them.

Game comes to women naturally while men have to learn after being played. Blessed is the one who learns game before being played.

When you become aware of the subtle games going on behind all the dates, the romance, the lovey dovey messages, you will still loose because of the blinding effect of libido but the losses will be minimal.

Here’s a short list of the things she will take from you and in some cases, even more;

1. Your time
2. Your money
3. Your emotional stability
4. Your focus
5. Your sperm ( causing you to age quickly and loose spiritual rewards)
6. In some cases, your sanity
7. In many cases, your friends
8. In some cases, your family
9. Your space

Etc etc

The best of relationships is always a bad deal for men not to mention the effects of a dysfunctional one.

Sad news is the society has been soo brainwashed by the handlers to the point where the few who dare to go against the grain and live free are made outcasts

If you force me to give advise, my first choice would be to not deal with women atall. ( if you’re Christian you would notice the apostles highly recommend this)

Second choice would be to only deal with females on a temporary basis only and avoid anything long term

Delete the word loneliness from your dictionary, master the art of rebuking the need for female validation or human validation atall as only God who made you can validate you, embrace the pain/gift of being hornyy and not doing anything about it ( the rewards are limitless and far surpasses any momentary endeavor of pleasure which is fleeting anyway)

we could write a book on this , what do you think

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Hintona(f): 12:47am On Apr 04, 2021
Nigerian men when una go ever tire for woman matter

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Originalsly: 1:25am On Apr 04, 2021
With this kind anti women topic popping up so often I want to believe it is part of a hidden gay agenda .... to ostracize women by pushing all this negative stuff. In your bid to condemn women... Black women.... Nigerian women... women period you don't realize you're exposing how weak some men are. No woman by her exhibitionist actions or whatever can compel a man to do anything. Even if she stands butt naked on her porch.... is it her fault that a man will hand her his entire salary with the hope of sleeping with her? ... or is it such a man is a weak man? Women do what they do because the men are weak.... the reason in Nigeria sooo many women are entitled.... too many weak men.

Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by EbenezerTriumph: 12:57pm On Apr 04, 2021
Amazingguy55:


Im not advising. I’m just saying.

We all should be aware that it’s always games with them. Woe betide thee that do not put their game face on when dealing with them.

Game comes to women naturally while men have to learn after being played. Blessed is the one who learns game before being played.

When you become aware of the subtle games going on behind all the dates, the romance, the lovey dovey messages, you will still loose because of the blinding effect of libido but the losses will be minimal.

Here’s a short list of the things she will take from you and in some cases, even more;

1. Your time
2. Your money
3. Your emotional stability
4. Your focus
5. Your sperm ( causing you to age quickly and loose spiritual rewards)
6. In some cases, your sanity
7. In many cases, your friends
8. In some cases, your family
9. Your space

Etc etc

The best of relationships is always a bad deal for men not to mention the effects of a dysfunctional one.

Sad news is the society has been soo brainwashed by the handlers to the point where the few who dare to go against the grain and live free are made outcasts

If you force me to give advise, my first choice would be to not deal with women atall. ( if you’re Christian you would notice the apostles highly recommend this)

Second choice would be to only deal with females on a temporary basis only and avoid anything long term

Delete the word loneliness from your dictionary, master the art of rebuking the need for female validation or human validation atall as only God who made you can validate you, embrace the pain/gift of being hornyy and not doing anything about it ( the rewards are limitless and far surpasses any momentary endeavor of pleasure which is fleeting anyway)
I'm suspecting the person operating this moniker is the same as GoFuckYourself. so many words of wisdom in his posts.
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Nobody: 1:52pm On Apr 04, 2021
ayo84:


this assertions of yours are on point , what do you think of watching pornography , i think they are trying to take advantage of it .

Yea there are times I’m forced to believe women are behind the porn industry because of how much it weakens men.

If you notice, the rise of feminism and the pornification of society is positively correlated.

It’s a rabbit hole that runs deep but lemme try to scratch the surface on what I think the role of porn is and how I believe it is a government tool to weaken men

1. Porn leads to excessive ejaculation through masturbation and compulsive sex. It’s a fact that ejaculation weakens a man and makes him less of himself. A weakened man is easier to control

2. When you are constantly bombarded with sex and nudity through music, movies, fashion etc, it’s really hard to think of much else (eg how majority of people are being exploited by a handful of people in power)

3. I am still researching on this but I 100% believe there is a link between material consumerism and compulsive sex ( constant ejaculation). Material consumerism here refers to the culture of buying stuff you don’t need for survival.

What are fast moving consumer goods and do you really need them for survival? Do you really have to buy the latest brand of products? Who owns these corporations?

I said that because when I abstain from sex for a long time, my need for material things decline greatly. I feel more content with just basic stuff. A lot of people attest to this as well. Eg look at the lifestyle of monks

Is sex being thrown at us constantly to exploit our consumption patterns and by extension keep these corporations that I believe are owned by same people wealthy, thus giving them control over the world?

If all corporations are not connected in some form, why are they always aligned in purpose? Eg what’s the business of Gillette with promoting homosexuality?

4. Porn turns men to vagina worshippers and it’s no surprise we have been reduced to women pleasers in real life. The women have sensed this power they now wield and they want more of it (Feminism)

5. Ancient cultures have always promoted semen retention and sexual abstinence but why is this knowledge being obscured in modern times? It has become a crime to be a virgin. If you dare uphold a lifestyle of sexual purity, the society will make an outcast out of you. Who socially engineered the society into thinking this way and is this obsession with sex benefitting a handful of people who are directly connected to satan?
(Think Illuminati)

6. I firmly believe that the people that invented porn donot even use it. I believe that the people who have sat in a room and came up with the idea to sexualise modern day society donot even indulge in sex because they know it’s power

Etc etc
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by OGWILLS123: 1:55pm On Apr 04, 2021
ayo84:
exactly we should not play games with them , what's your experience with foreign women
They can nag in bed and in real life too undecided
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 2:17am On Apr 06, 2021
Amazingguy55:


Yea there are times I’m forced to believe women are behind the porn industry because of how much it weakens men.

If you notice, the rise of feminism and the pornification of society is positively correlated.

It’s a rabbit hole that runs deep but lemme try to scratch the surface on what I think the role of porn is and how I believe it is a government tool to weaken men

1. Porn leads to excessive ejaculation through masturbation and compulsive sex. It’s a fact that ejaculation weakens a man and makes him less of himself. A weakened man is easier to control

2. When you are constantly bombarded with sex and nudity through music, movies, fashion etc, it’s really hard to think of much else (eg how majority of people are being exploited by a handful of people in power)

3. I am still researching on this but I 100% believe there is a link between material consumerism and compulsive sex ( constant ejaculation). Material consumerism here refers to the culture of buying stuff you don’t need for survival.

What are fast moving consumer goods and do you really need them for survival? Do you really have to buy the latest brand of products? Who owns these corporations?

I said that because when I abstain from sex for a long time, my need for material things decline greatly. I feel more content with just basic stuff. A lot of people attest to this as well. Eg look at the lifestyle of monks

Is sex being thrown at us constantly to exploit our consumption patterns and by extension keep these corporations that I believe are owned by same people wealthy, thus giving them control over the world?

If all corporations are not connected in some form, why are they always aligned in purpose? Eg what’s the business of Gillette with promoting homosexuality?

4. Porn turns men to vagina worshippers and it’s no surprise we have been reduced to women pleasers in real life. The women have sensed this power they now wield and they want more of it (Feminism)

5. Ancient cultures have always promoted semen retention and sexual abstinence but why is this knowledge being obscured in modern times? It has become a crime to be a virgin. If you dare uphold a lifestyle of sexual purity, the society will make an outcast out of you. Who socially engineered the society into thinking this way and is this obsession with sex benefitting a handful of people who are directly connected to satan?
(Think Illuminati)

6. I firmly believe that the people that invented porn donot even use it. I believe that the people who have sat in a room and came up with the idea to sexualise modern day society donot even indulge in sex because they know it’s power

Etc etc

spot on
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Mrscarter(f): 2:51am On Apr 06, 2021
Amazingguy55:


Im not advising. I’m just saying.

We all should be aware that it’s always games with them. Woe betide thee that do not put their game face on when dealing with them.

Game comes to women naturally while men have to learn after being played. Blessed is the one who learns game before being played.

When you become aware of the subtle games going on behind all the dates, the romance, the lovey dovey messages, you will still loose because of the blinding effect of libido but the losses will be minimal.

Here’s a short list of the things she will take from you and in some cases, even more;

1. Your time
2. Your money
3. Your emotional stability
4. Your focus
5. Your sperm ( causing you to age quickly and loose spiritual rewards)
6. In some cases, your sanity
7. In many cases, your friends
8. In some cases, your family
9. Your space

Etc etc

The best of relationships is always a bad deal for men not to mention the effects of a dysfunctional one.

Sad news is the society has been soo brainwashed by the handlers to the point where the few who dare to go against the grain and live free are made outcasts

If you force me to give advise, my first choice would be to not deal with women atall. ( if you’re Christian you would notice the apostles highly recommend this)

Second choice would be to only deal with females on a temporary basis only and avoid anything long term

Delete the word loneliness from your dictionary, master the art of rebuking the need for female validation or human validation atall as only God who made you can validate you, embrace the pain/gift of being hornyy and not doing anything about it ( the rewards are limitless and far surpasses any momentary endeavor of pleasure which is fleeting anyway)

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 3:11am On Apr 06, 2021
What do you do when you keep getting 6th sense or subliminal messages from supposed lovers who might be out there spreading lies that they are in love with you and both of you are in a relationship and yet they have never made any visible effort to connect with you using social media. You seem to hear projections in your mind of them whispering and you get intuitions of them acting like your girlfriend, and guess what you have never hugged or kissed them before, there was this girl that is like some kind of devilish nag , i have never hugged or kissed her in my life, i called her one day and she said she has my mumu button and said she will deal with me, is this what you call coerced form of spiritual wife disturbance or what, i don't really get the concept though, i think we are now having spiritual narcissistic women. i guess its when i become super rich , they would start attempting to make effort to connect with one
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 3:15am On Apr 06, 2021
Another scenario is when an infatuation with someone was that’s person usual routine, some mind manipulation to get you infatuated and your neuro senses overtly stimulated into some love heist , and what makes matters worst is that your craving for such a person is just a statistical data of that persons list of conquered hearts. Has someone ever professed a desire to be with you and the person has relationships with you in their head and fantasizes about it but that person has not made any logical sane physical effort to call, email or contact you, even in this age of modern technology , the person makes use of some primitive estoreic means to gain your attention and in a proliferation of such from so many others, doesn't it make it more absurd and ridiculous. But wait a minute, maybe when you are about to get rich and famous, thoughts of them start flooding ones mind, it’s crazy , i would abhor, hate and disrespect and continue to hold forever a resentment towards that person for eternity. When someone is not empathic to relate with someone else on their level of consciousness and use basic tools to do so, let me give you a scenario, let’s say i meet a lady who cannot speak english and i refuse to communicate with the person and take advantage of the persons inability to my advantage or alternatively i make use of modern communication technology like google translate and i convey messages to the person in cryptic form which could be used to pass messages that are secret. The assumingly assumptions and over expectations of some people who want you to adopt to their high expectations which are parasitic and overtly ridiculous can make one forever hate and express dissent for someone, even if it was someone you loved, what was even the love in the first place, a mind manipulation trick. like you said earlier women are trying to turn men into some worshippers of their vagina and sex power. But you can also see things from another perspective , do women worship men who have huge pp's and know how to use it
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by Robertgreene1(m): 8:33am On Apr 06, 2021
Tedpgrass:
Agree with guy above

Don't play the game
Ignore the attention seeker, or set your contract or terms and condition down

She will run or drift off, in search of a 'weaker' man!!!


.
nice one...
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by blinking001(m): 9:58am On Apr 06, 2021
Robertgreene1:
the best post I've ever seen here..
women enjoy the game...
the attention..the dramas..the playing of classic blues like sacrifice nd celine Dion's hits nd crying themselves 2 sleep when u hurt them..then the mindblowing make up sex...that's all they live for...
so don't give them that satisfaction by playing the game wit them..
just ignore nd ghost the attention seeking drama queen like u've 4goten she evn exists
with ur ignoring her.u re indirectly telling her
"Run along dear...you bore me"
Then see how she will just run along in search of a weaker man for her games....

Gbamsolutely

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Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 1:29am On Apr 07, 2021
blinking001:

Gbamsolutely

sent you a message, please reply
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by blinking001(m): 7:22am On Apr 07, 2021
ayo84:


sent you a message, please reply
I just did. Good morning to you.
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 5:14pm On Apr 09, 2021
i wrote an article on this , what do you think maybe we could write a book or something : https://www.explificit.com/2021/04/why-men-should-ignore-feminism-and.html
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 4:55pm On Apr 14, 2021
Any new comments on this
Re: Are Black Women Or Is It Nigerian Women Who Are Narcissists by ayo84(m): 8:07pm On Apr 16, 2021
i think all women, both black and white are in a conspiracy of some sort

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