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Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 8:06am On Apr 03, 2021
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by fati2001(m): 8:08am On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.

mtcheeee

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by samwash(m): 8:23am On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.

@op, how old are you?
If you are the one that is in that DP I reverse my comment.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by donstan18: 8:28am On Apr 03, 2021
Stop dating Bandits

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nazgul: 8:42am On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.
You failed to stamp your authority in that relationship that's why she's doing what she's doing. Women naturally take advantage of weak men cos they'll be like, what can he do, and to be honest she's right...weak men are powerless against manipulative women. Such is what you get when you go into relationships thinking your partner is after love not realizing that most girls out there are just husslers and lack respect. If you fail to draw the line in that relationship, they'll treat you with disdain despite being the one contributing 99.9% of the total financial commitment in that relationship.

The secret of any successful relationship isn't love, but respect...once a girl you claim to love doesn't respect you, you're finished cos she'll open your wallet In your presence, remove whatever amount she feels she needs and drop it back for you, some will even go as far as telling you how your salary will be spent. And you'll be there smiling like an ape.

Finally, if you dislike any attitude your partner is displaying, caution her about it. If she fails to change, let her be. Any girl who respects you will listen and do whatever you tell her to do cos your happiness will be her priority.

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 9:04am On Apr 03, 2021
@Nazgul

Its not like I don't know what to do. Just that I have a very bad temper so I don't want to seem like I'm overreacting because then she can't stand the heat.

I see her as a little sister and I try to tolerate her love for the finer things.. you know how women love aesthetics.

But you're right she could take that for granted and that'll be really bad because I'll have to end it even though I still find her very interesting.

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 9:24am On Apr 03, 2021
samwash:


@op, how old are you?
If you are the one that is in that DP I reverse my comment.

I have something for you.. Quote me.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 9:53am On Apr 03, 2021
in a wierd way I see this as both a sign of love and hunger grin

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nazgul: 10:19am On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:
@Nazgul

Its not like I don't know what to do. Just that I have a very bad temper so I don't want to seem like I'm overreacting because then she can't stand the heat.

I see her as a little sister and I try to tolerate her love for the finer things.. you know how women love aesthetics.

But you're right she could take that for granted and that'll be really bad because I'll have to end it even though I still find her very interesting.
Never discomfort yourself to make any woman who isn't your mum, sister, daughter or wife comfortable. They're not worth it.

Women are opportunity grabbers, never turn a blind eye on any attitude about them you dislike, cos they won't change, their maturity level hasn't gotten to that stage, you have to caution her about it and sound it clearly to her that you can't tolerate it. Only then will she change.

Let me shock you...do you know that girls find harsh, abrasive, and confident guys more romantic than the calm ones? They feel the calm ones are weak and aren't man enough for them so if they see a more confident and bolder guy, she'll happily cheat on you with him.

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Limassol(m): 11:08am On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession. [

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.

A classic example of a weak man - aka weakling - aka simp.

If it were a guy you would have unleash hell on him, but a bitch? You will go extra lengths just to smash the pussy.

You may think being this a pathetic doormat would make you attractive to her, if so you are greatly mistaken.

You better man up and start being assertive , she may resent you openly but deep down it attract her cool

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by oluwatoyosi8755: 11:50am On Apr 03, 2021
:@op, how old are you?If you are the one that is in that DP I reverse my comment.I have something for you.. Quote me.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by bigcee(m): 12:19pm On Apr 03, 2021
Nazgul:

You failed to stamp your authority in that relationship that's why she's doing what she's doing. Women naturally take advantage of weak men cos they'll be like, what can he do, and to be honest she's right...weak men are powerless against manipulative women. Such is what you get when you go into relationships thinking your partner is after love not realizing that most girls out there are just husslers and lack respect. If you fail to draw the line in that relationship, they'll treat you with disdain despite being the one contributing 99.9% of the total financial commitment in that relationship.

The secret of any successful relationship isn't love, but respect...once a girl you claim to love doesn't respect you, you're finished cos she'll open your wallet In your presence, remove whatever amount she feels she needs and drop it back for you, some will even go as far as telling you how your salary will be spent. And you'll be there smiling like an ape.

Finally, if you dislike any attitude your partner is displaying, caution her about it. If she fails to change, let her be. Any girl who respects you will listen and do whatever you tell her to do cos your happiness will be her priority.
Perfect reply.

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by SavageResponse(m): 3:06pm On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.

You need to put a stop to it, just give her a stern warning
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by paulolee(m): 4:20pm On Apr 03, 2021
guy jus clear her d matter jhare....na stealing b dt naa..
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Justnice11: 7:47pm On Apr 03, 2021
lol
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Apr 03, 2021
perkyB:
in a wierd way I see this as both a sign of love and hunger grin

I swear, me too. Wait, do you mean hunger as in normal day to day hunger or what?
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Apr 03, 2021
Nazgul:

Never discomfort yourself to make any woman who isn't your mum, sister, daughter or wife comfortable. They're not worth it.

Women are opportunity grabbers, never turn a blind eye on any attitude about them you dislike, cos they won't change, their maturity level hasn't gotten to that stage, you have to caution her about it and sound it clearly to her that you can't tolerate it. Only then will she change.

Let me shock you...do you know that girls find harsh, abrasive, and confident guys more romantic than the calm ones? They feel the calm ones are weak and aren't man enough for them so if they see a more confident and bolder guy, she'll happily cheat on you with him.

What do you call discomfort? I really don't dislike women's attitude.. To be honest. I find them amusingly satisfying.. They're really cute.
See, I do stuff for my guys all the time .. and only those who've crossed my path have seen my bad side so goes for any woman, too.

If she takes my stuff to like borrow it, I'm cool if I can afford to give it out to her or anyone for that matter at that particular time. But when she takes it without my knowledge in what later amounts to stealing, then its something different that will happen, like when its a guy that bleeps up like that.

I'm not a very nice person, except when I'm being very serious. I'm 6ft+ and most girls I've met look up to talk to me... So believe when I say my respect is intact.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Apr 03, 2021
Limassol:


A classic example of a weak man - aka weakling - aka simp.

If it were a guy you would have unleash hell on him, but a bitch? You will go extra lengths just to smash the pussy.

You may think being this a pathetic doormat would make you attractive to her, if so you are greatly mistaken.

You better man up and start being assertive , she may resent you openly but deep down it attract her cool

You're a crazy mad man. I can't even unleash any useless hell on my friend if he admires my watch, collects it and wears it... not to talk of a girl I'm interested in. You're foolish.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Limassol(m): 10:01pm On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:


You're a crazy mad man. I can't even unleash any useless hell on my friend if he admires my watch, collects it and wears it... not to talk of a girl I'm interested in. You're foolish.

You're a 5 star fool. Unrepentant simps like you need to be whipped thoroughly to serve as a deterrent to young men out there.

Still on the topic, you fool "here is what you post There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.


If it was a guy taking your things unwarrantedly you already would have caution him like an angry lion, but since na Toto, you've automatically become a doormat and the cunning girl is screwing you to full advantage.

If you like man up and get sense, na you sabi, but desist from coming to my mentions to say rubbish.

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by SEGLIZ: 10:12pm On Apr 03, 2021
fati2001:


mtcheeee

fati you are back with this you face!
where have thou being?
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by luminouz(m): 10:52pm On Apr 03, 2021
Pernotti:


You're a crazy mad man. I can't even unleash any useless hell on my friend if he admires my watch, collects it and wears it... not to talk of a girl I'm interested in. You're foolish.

You are beyond help at this stage.

The worst simp is that who refuses to change despite suffering the aftereffects of simphood.

Nazgul already advised you and you think because you are 6ft plus,your respect is intact? You think women respect you cuz you are tall? Lmaoooo. You are one Easter egg clown.

No wonder you came here to ask for help on how to stop hungry leeches from sucking you dry. You absolutely lack the spine to tell them yourself and that, my friend is a simp.


Have a lovely Easter

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 1:33am On Apr 04, 2021
Limassol:


You're a 5 star fool. Unrepentant simps like you need to be whipped thoroughly to serve as a deterrent to young men out there.

Still on the topic, you fool "here is what you post There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.


If it was a guy taking your things unwarrantedly you already would have caution him like an angry lion, but since na Toto, you've automatically become a doormat and the cunning girl is screwing you to full advantage.

If you like man up and get sense, na you sabi, but desist from coming to my mentions to say rubbish.

Just hear yourself rant. Someone jokingly takes a fancy pen you bought for instance and then you proceed to slap the person or shut them down to show you're alpha.. You are very foolish.

I have better things to vent my anger on. I fathom she does those things to get a reaction from me whenever I ignore her (for a reason) and they're really menial things actually.. Bracelets, rings, pouches, flip ons, etc... Am I seriously supposed to get angry for petty things I'm not really attached to?

This is just a topic for light discussion so don't go haywire here.
And you can stick your mentions up your ass for all I care.
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 1:39am On Apr 04, 2021
luminouz:


You are beyond help at this stage.

The worst simp is that who refuses to change despite suffering the aftereffects of simphood.

Nazgul already advised you and you think because you are 6ft plus,your respect is intact? You think women respect you cuz you are tall? Lmaoooo. You are one Easter egg clown.

No wonder you came here to ask for help on how to stop hungry leeches from sucking you dry. You absolutely lack the spine to tell them yourself and that, my friend is a simp.


Have a lovely Easter

Lol! You're an unfortunate fellow. What's your definition of a simp? I'll take your girlfriend right in front of you. Now I'm trying to understand her motive is why this topic is here.. Not that I'm seeking for help from leeching of any kind... Lol.. Those things are so irrelevant what are you saying bruh... I can give to my male friends without them even asking so WTF!
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by luminouz(m): 2:31am On Apr 04, 2021
Pernotti:


Lol! You're an unfortunate fellow. What's your definition of a simp? I'll take your girlfriend right in front of you. Now I'm trying to understand her motive is why this topic is here.. Not that I'm seeking for help from leeching of any kind... Lol.. Those things are so irrelevant what are you saying bruh... I can give to my male friends without them even asking so WTF!
K

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Nobody: 3:47am On Apr 04, 2021
Pernotti:


I swear, me too. Wait, do you mean hunger as in normal day to day hunger or what?
hunger=broke
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Mrscarter(f): 3:55am On Apr 04, 2021
fati2001:


mtcheeee

Lol

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Mrscarter(f): 3:56am On Apr 04, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.

Just tell her u dont like anyone touching ur stuff let alone taking it. I hate wen someone touches my stuff
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by 444crop: 5:55am On Apr 04, 2021
fati2001:


mtcheeee
w

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by kense88: 6:18am On Apr 04, 2021
donstan18:
Stop dating Bandits
lol
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by fati2001(m): 6:42am On Apr 04, 2021
SEGLIZ:
fati you are back with this you face! where have thou being?

don't mind those nylonland gods. just gave me ban for defending myself.

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Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Duplexxx: 7:45am On Apr 04, 2021
She share your pants too

Just tell her you are sick

that you've infections of many types ask her if she want to get infected


I think that is the best idea to stop her





Take me later
Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by VicM6: 7:47am On Apr 04, 2021
Pernotti:
There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.

I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.
na so e dey start until she rip u off.

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