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I personally find it awkward especially when the man is way older than the woman.
As an African man, I do not subscribe to that, it's a western invation of our culture.

If you yab me, na you Sabi.

Is a borrow custom

Nonsense to the core.


It's western culture and it's very wrong for we Africans to allowed such stupid, useless culture to influence us.

How can i possibly kneel down and beg a girl to be my liability? I don't even want to imagine it.

If i want to propose to my girlfriend , I'll kneel down , if she reject my proposal ,na upper cut go follow ...I hate nonsense

Only a foolish, senseless and SIMP. le guy will kneel and beg a woman to be his responsibility!

seyi360:
I personally find it awkward especially when the man is way older than the woman.
As an African man, I do not subscribe to that, it's a western invation of our culture.

If you yab me, na you Sabi.

This was exactly what my pastor was condemning today, why would a man kneel to reference God and also kneel to propose to a Lady??

That's how we sin against God unknowningly putting a mere chicken called 9ja girls in the position of God to the extent of referencing her. if she wants you to kneel bfr proposing she's definitely a daughter of Baal

No, there are many ways to do that.

Olunmercy56:
No, there are many ways to do that.

Kindly share some of the many ways you will appreciate as a lady

I remember those days wey we dey collect strokes of the cane just to marry..

The father go lash you, him brothers go lash you and then him sons..

After you collect am finish.. you go still wan knee down propose?? the pain for your nyash no go let you sef.. nobody go tell the lady to knee down accept your proposal..

seyi360:
Kindly share some of the many ways you will appreciate as a lady

It might be on phone, inside the car or dinning while sitting, video call, etc

Olunmercy56:
It might be on phone, inside the car or dinning while sitting, video call, etc

Ok, thanks. What do you think about a public proposal, say for instance in the church or mall?

seyi360:
Ok, thanks. What do you think about a public proposal, say for instance in the church or mall?

As for me ooo, I hate it, I love my privacy. it's not necessary everybody knows what is going on, continue in silence and surprise them with your actions. They will know when we give birth or wedding anniversary. Not all proposal lead to wedding

seyi360:
Kindly share some of the many ways you will appreciate as a lady

While sitting on the same chair, while walking on the street, it might not require a ring, the sincerity must be from the both hearts. It's not necessary to kneel down, it will attract crowd

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no b only kneel....mine would b over d phone or via a text n dts if i go even marry..

seyi360:
Ok, thanks. What do you think about a public proposal, say for instance in the church or mall?

It's depends on the both sides, it's good to go on low key. Not all these proposals lead to yes, some turned to no and fight. So it's better you are disgraced in private

Olunmercy56:
It's depends on the both sides, it's good to go on low key. Not all these proposals lead to yes, some turned to no and fight. So it's better you are disgraced in private

Lol, I will not be disgraced whether public or private o. But you have a point though

seyi360:
I personally find it awkward especially when the man is way older than the woman.
As an African man, I do not subscribe to that, it's a western invation of our culture.

If you yab me, na you Sabi.

I feel same

No i can't knee even king I will also not knee kneeing down for who are they God?

Duplexxx:
No i can't knee even king I will also not knee kneeing down for who are they God?

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