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My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 5:50pm On Apr 12, 2021
....so I broke up with my now girlfriend, early last year when I was almost done for service, because I met her during Nysc P.S she was also a corp member....we kind of had a little misunderstanding and broke up due to distance and other issues because I'm based at Lagos and she's based at ilorin.
I didn't really keep in touch with her because I felt she was gone out of my life, so fast forward to sept. I planned to relocate back to delta state, because my house rent wasn't expired, and I planned on repaying for an extra year( I really wanted to concentrate and face hustle over here cus it was more quite and less stressful unlike Lagos ).
......I texted her and got her response, I started checking up on her,and I realized I totally forgot about her for more than 6months ...we talked and and I apologize for leaving her that way, I also asked her if she was still in delta she said no, but that she was coming back cus she wasn't through with her service. She said she wasn't interested in seeing me, I said okay!! Let me see if you would be able to " so I came back, after a month a friend I met during service invited my to a bar close to her place, I went to see him and while we were there , he asked me about 3 other corp member (girls) who were still around. I had the number of one so I called her and she came out with her friends....that was were I knew my girlfriend (then ex ) was back...I decided to check, so while going home I knock at her door and saw she was around, she opened and she started crying while telling me all the wrong thing I did to her.
.....It was then i felt really guilty and I apologize and begged her back, she didn't accept as she really gave me a tough time for about 3weeks She also told me she has a boyfriend now ....Omo that really broke my heart cause I thought, he probably would have disvirgined her ( I met her a virgin but I didn't do it )...she also tortured me by telling me she was having sex with the guy already. She calls him in my presence and I must tell you the truth....it was really a painful experience, but all that didn't make me give up because I knew I could still get her back cus she's a very good girl and I know she loves me!....
.......after about 3 weeks she came over to my end and while I was begging her she broke into tears and told me she has finally forgiven me cus she really loved me , that day was really emotional, we kissed and shared some moment. After a few days I asked her was she was going to do about her boyfriend cus we had started dating already , she said she was going to break up with him I said okay that I will give her time.
........the next week after her passing out she told me her mom called her to come home and she was going to come back and stay with me , probably get a job here(P.S her house rent wasn't expired she has about 3 months left) . I was really scared that there was no how she wasn't going to go back to that guy..she reassured me that everything was going to be alright, she went back home and late November she calm back to delta. I found out she didn't break up with the guy , but she didn't keep any company with him,( she was giving him excuses) she later told me she didn't know how she would cus the guy didn't offend her.....
....one faithful day I think she was talking to him and It really caused issue between us so we called the guy and the guy was talking and talking about her ,that she was a slut , she slept with him at him place many times that I should drive her away ....that he has been sleeping with her , the phone was on loud speaker and she was hearing everything and crying, he said a lot of bad things....that day she broke up with him and she told me she didn't know he was like that.......( This is a girl that has already told me she was still a virgin and didn't give him, and also during romance with her I found out she was still tight and she was how I left her.....so I knew he was just talking!!!
Since then he kept on disturbing her so much, with different numbers , she stayed with me for 3month and went back to ilorin with promise that she was for me, she's still there at the moment and I know she's not seeing him ...cus she blocked his contacts, she was supposed to come back yesterday but she has some issues at home she wants to settle before coming.....
The guy suddenly messaged me and was saying a lot of things , we talked a little , until this morning where he said I was using spell on the girl and I should leave her alone that she never loved me , she was going to leave me ...lol he was really sounding funny
I changed my whatsapp to another phone but I didnt back up the message, so the first rubbish he sent deleted ...I had to beg him back to resend, the guy nor gree!!....
To cut the long story short!!..... I had to school him , never to simp around a girl...that I was never going to text another guy because my girlfriend left me for him.!!....he really bleeped up!!...He blocked me after everything I said to him
All conversations are below!!...kindly say your thoughts about this, with no insults, MATURED MIND pls

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Kriss216: 5:53pm On Apr 12, 2021
To cut the long story short!!..... I had to school him , never to simp around a girl...that I was never going to text another guy because my girlfriend left me for him.!

Unfortunately, you're the simp here.


The guy don already know say that girl na street. You're the real Dundee Utd here!

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 5:55pm On Apr 12, 2021
I've been hearing about simps a very long time, but I never thought I would come across one....to the extent of this guy telling me I used JuJu on my girlfriend to hold her, that she was going to leave me finially .....
I really wished I screenshoted the first conversations, where he told me all those rubbish!!.....

Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Nobody: 5:58pm On Apr 12, 2021
Time wasted can never be recovered.




Please, if you haven't read this post then you are part of the lucky ones. Utilise your time for something else. Please!

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by leksite120(m): 6:00pm On Apr 12, 2021
In all honesty, the reason you're telling us this now, I don't understand. What do u want?

It seems guys are more foolish when in love than girls

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Draslo(m): 6:01pm On Apr 12, 2021
Your write up is making my head pain me and to think you're a graduate. Our educational system in this country is a failure. Ah-ahn!


Back to the story. Both of you are simps and I can promise you that in a year or two, she'll be f***ing neither of you grin

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Nobody: 6:02pm On Apr 12, 2021
Someone should help with summary, pls.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 6:03pm On Apr 12, 2021
The fact is that I was really lucky meeting her the way I left her the other time, she a very good girl from a good background and she kept her virginity till youth services after schooling in this country where 12 years ain't virgins anymore.......
I can't say here if she has giving it to me her not....because it's personal!!.....but for her to be coming back again to spend come stay with me so we hustle together says it all!!..
She sells wears online and I'm into social media management, and in a comfortable apartment tho a room and a palour, very comfortable, so we believe we could stay and hustle together ( p.s she also stays at her place , and I sometimes stay at her end also....she's also looking for job and I also, tho I'm comfortable with my online job!!!...
For guys out there , the last thing you should ever do is texting the bf of your girlfriend that left you for him!!!....and asking him to leave her for you!!....it's a big disgrace to your ego as a man!!...just let go!!..what will be yours will be!!

Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by ABANGWABOI(m): 6:08pm On Apr 12, 2021
Baba you may not be a confirm Simp buy you are not a Red piller..
From your comments, you never even Bleep the girl.. and yet you are confident she is still a virgin.. smh
Make I no just yab you based on your jonsing.. but you never get strong mind frame in handling girls..

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Kriss216: 6:08pm On Apr 12, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
Baba you may not be a confirm Simp buy you are not a Red piller..
From your comments, you never even Bleep the girl.. and yet you are confident she is still a virgin.. smh
Make I no just yab you based on your jonsing.. but you never get strong mind frame in handling girls..
The OP is naturally a SIMP.le guy with no shame!

He's personalizing a community kpekus he's yet to taste. The other guy is wiser than the OP, obviously.

If this guy is my brother, I'll exchange him for a satchet of weed with Chelsea dry gin!

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Beckysexy(f): 6:13pm On Apr 12, 2021
The Future Is Female.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 6:13pm On Apr 12, 2021
Draslo:
Your write up is making my head pain me and to think you're a graduate. Our educational system in this country is a failure. Ah-ahn!


Back to the story. Both of you are simps and I can promise you that in a year or two, she'll be f***ing neither of you grin


Lol forget the write up first and get the message, that how I write when under stress, I'm busy and just took out time to write this , tho it's long.......
I'm a graduate with 2.1 from Lagos State University, you know how hard it is to get such results in a Nigeria University......e fit be say I better pass you self!!!!....

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 6:15pm On Apr 12, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
Baba you may not be a confirm Simp buy you are not a Red piller..
From your comments, you never even Bleep the girl.. and yet you are confident she is still a virgin.. smh
Make I no just yab you based on your jonsing.. but you never get strong mind frame in handling girls..

Bro I've beeped her .....that was before she went back, didn't want to say so but your comments made me......I found out she actually kept it that long, and that's why I'm ain't leaving her ...cus she's actually a wife material
Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by GerraMeh74(m): 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2021
Thinee:
The fact is that I was really lucky meeting her the way I left her the other time, she a very good girl from a good background and she kept her virginity till youth services after schooling in this country where 12 years ain't virgins anymore.......
I can't say here if she has giving it to me her not....because it's personal!!.....but for her to be coming back again to spend come stay with me so we hustle together says it all!!..
She sells wears online and I'm into social media management, and in a comfortable apartment tho a room and a palour, very comfortable, so we believe we could stay and hustle together ( p.s she also stays at her place , and I sometimes stay at her end also....she's also looking for job and I also, tho I'm comfortable with my online job!!!...
For guys out there , the last thing you should ever do is texting the bf of your girlfriend that left you for him!!!....and asking him to leave her for you!!....it's a big disgrace to your ego as a man!!...just let go!!..what will be yours will be!!
Lol Virginity doesn't guarantee anything MF, work on your English but most especially you need to grow up, there is more to life than fighting over a girl with another guy.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 6:18pm On Apr 12, 2021
Kriss216:

The OP is naturally a SIMP.le guy with no shame!

He's personalizing a community kpekus he's yet to taste. The other guy is wiser than the OP, obviously.

If this guy is my brother, I'll exchange him for a satchet of weed with Chelsea dry gin!


Gee....read and understand!!!... The other guy didn't do shit, he was just saying all that so I could drive her away......so she would come back to him, that's why she burst into tears when she was heart him say all that( someone she said hasn't even seen her fully naked) I be street guy and no girl can ever play with me by saying she's a Virgin when she's not.......
We tried a couple of times for long until we finally did it before she left!!....she lived with me!!.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Xenry: 6:18pm On Apr 12, 2021
Maybe he wants a threesóme with you guys. Lol. wink
I won't call you a simp, but honestly you didn't tried at all. Going back to your ex is like a Dog going back to his vomits, it's toxic and should be Avoided.

And as for me and my niggars, women's wahala no go enter our minds until we start to dey make 8-digits per annum. They ain't worth the effort, bro.
Your matter too much, shaa. sad

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Goldbw122(m): 6:20pm On Apr 12, 2021
If you love her go for her, and make sure she does not have 1% love for that other guy ooo, infact stop communicating with the other guy and build your relationship from the fresh.. Good luck
Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 6:20pm On Apr 12, 2021
GerraMeh74:
Lol Virginity doesn't guarantee anything MF, work on your English but most especially you need to grow up, there is more to life than fighting over a girl with another guy.


Lol.....I was on my own hustling when he messaged , check the whatsapp convo, he started it!!!.....if only you know what dreams and kinda person I am, you'll know I know there's more to life than you
I never fought him , even through throughout our conversations
For my written English... you'll know I just wrote the way I did, you can check my other topics..
If it's something more serious and I've got the time , I take my time to write, and my spoken English is way better!!...thanks for your advice tho
Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Kriss216: 6:24pm On Apr 12, 2021
Thinee:



Gee....read and understand!!!... The other guy didn't do shit, he was just saying all that so I could drive her away......so she would come back to him, that's why she burst into tears when she was heart him say all that( someone she said hasn't even seen her fully naked) I be street guy and no girl can ever play with me by saying she's a Virgin when she's not.......
We tried a couple of times for long until we finally did it before she left!!....she lived with me!!.
E go soon clear for your eyes.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Draslo(m): 6:25pm On Apr 12, 2021
Thinee:



Lol forget the write up first and get the message, that how I write when under stress, I'm busy and just took out time to write this , tho it's long.......
I'm a graduate with 2.1 from Lagos State University, you know how hard it is to get such results in a Nigeria University......e fit be say I better pass you self!!!!....
Not in any sense of the word.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Thinee(m): 6:28pm On Apr 12, 2021
Kriss216:

E go soon clear for your eyes.

Lol e don clear for my eyes before self, but not anymore!!.... I don't think I can be played by any girl anymore , at least not in this life maybe the next ( P.S I've been heartbroken before , don't think it can happen to me again)
Always a step ahead!!!
Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by bigcee(m): 6:35pm On Apr 12, 2021
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Time wasted can never be recovered.




Please, if you haven't read this post then you are part of the lucky ones. Utilise your time for something else. Please!
U done high grin grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Theboy21: 6:37pm On Apr 12, 2021
This guy is too emotional and so intense forming hardcore, if you be street as you claim then no one needs to tell you not to get too emotional over a girl cos it always end up in premium tears cheesy cheesy cheesy

The nigga below me is an OG in the game, better pay attention

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Dreyton36: 6:42pm On Apr 12, 2021
Bunch of kids with no brains
Controlled by their scrotums lol

Nw listen , illorin girls are very good at promiscuity not all though but them get degree
Their kpekus are always tight no matter how you dig it , they'll tell you that you're the only guy they've had sex deeply with just to keep you
They're always calm and cool and understanding too but you need to be schooled as well

Delta guys lack understanding, they think they're smarter than anyone else that's why then they enter Lagos it's small oshodi boys that lusguard their items and render them stranded , they full under bridge stranded

You were tryna strike a peaceful conversation I understand but it's not worth it at all
As long I'm aware that I'm not the only guy fuckinggg my girl trust me I'm out
It's either I'm out or I turn her my bitchhh

Chatting up someone who lacks understanding is where you bleeped up plus hey bruh , work on your spellings and grammar

Let that girl go , you got a long way to go
Have you ever imagined hustling hard to travel abroad?
Do just that bruh and get a life cuz naija girls will frustrate you

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Philipmighty(m): 6:48pm On Apr 12, 2021
Na who get time dey read all this thing wey op write, pls guy's utilize your time instead of reading this post, i nearly got blind and confused why reading this, besides op is a simp

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by OB7Foreva(m): 6:56pm On Apr 12, 2021
All I see is 2 irresponsible adults having a conversation about who the girl loves the most, I can bet my balls that this same girl is in another niqqas DM telling him she's single, I don't even play like this why would I wrestle with my fellow man over a b*tch? u can have the hoe man wink
Where's mosdii come and give me ur punchline..

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:04pm On Apr 12, 2021
Kriss216:

The OP is naturally a SIMP.le guy with no shame!

He's personalizing a community kpekus he's yet to taste. The other guy is wiser than the OP, obviously.

If this guy is my brother, I'll exchange him for a satchet of weed with Chelsea dry gin!


Lol...
My guy Kriss dey vex pass me sef grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:06pm On Apr 12, 2021
Thinee:


Bro I've beeped her .....that was before she went back, didn't want to say so but your comments made me......I found out she actually kept it that long, and that's why I'm ain't leaving her ...cus she's actually a wife material

If you en Bleep her and confirmed it then you are on track... But if na mere words that she said to you and you believed then you are been decieved..
All the same, maintain frame and I would advice you to visit that Thread on Reality every guy should know..

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Themainboy22: 7:09pm On Apr 12, 2021
Lol, this guy dey funny. You dey write long note ontop girl wey fit don engage in different sexual practices except "vaginal" just to deceive you that she really kept to her promise. Now wey you don disvirgin am, hope say you go spare us another long note when you discovered that the kpekus does not belong to only you grin.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Oppy2k2: 8:22pm On Apr 12, 2021
This guy get problems
Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 12, 2021
I had to stop reading at "...she said she ain't interested in seeing me"

I just know the rest of the story will be filled with stupid things.

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Re: My Girlfriend EX Is Texting Me by Kenturkey048(m): 8:41pm On Apr 12, 2021
Both of you are bunch of eeedioots....

Both of you are modafucking simps...Make una no go find work...Brake up with him, break up with me.. a Bunch of rubbish people.....

See as I waste my time read nonsense...Bunch of rubbish people....

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