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How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Unik3078(m): 2:43pm On Apr 15, 2021
Nancy and Nelson love affair was a talk of the town, as everyone thought they will be leading to an alter until trouble began; Nelson stabbed Nancy on the neck. Today Nancy is no more while Nelson is in jail.
How come such a sweet relationship ends so badly?

Here are 3 ways on how to end an affairs without bitterness,

First and foremost, once an affair is over, don't broadcast your relationship with your Ex with anyone be it good or bad experience , as it will not create a good image about the parties involved.

Secondly, don't say NO with your MOUTH and YES with your BODY: Most of us ( especially the male folks) make this kind of mistake, as we tend to be carried away with feelings and the memory of the past. usually, because of this erotic feelings, we find our selves saying YES again whenever situation like - konji appear out of blue from either of the parties, therefore , we tend to forget our initial word and before we knew it , we find our selves in the arms of the same person we rejected or said NO to. So to prevent this from happening, create a reasonable distance with your EX once an affair is over.

Thirdly, call your EX on phone if you can't confront the person physically whenever you feel like you are no longer comfortable but you don't know how to let the cat out of the bag, all you need to do is just to pick up your phone and get the person informed about your decision but mind you, your excuse shouldn't be on the basis of a new relationship you are entering even if that is the reason for the break up because we way normal for this world we no reach 5. Therefore, you have to be careful how to let this cat out of the bag.

conclusively, once an affair is over, the both parties should treat each other with fairness and respect, and please endeavor to stay far from your ex to avoid story that touches.

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Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by adewuyia2014(m): 2:51pm On Apr 15, 2021
Thaink you, Mr experience lover we look forward to hear more from you. Romio

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Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Zorr(f): 2:53pm On Apr 15, 2021
All these stress for some senseless men? especially when it's a Nairaland guy, you never start. Babe just break his heart and move on, no time to explain to him about anything.

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Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Thekanowarrior(f): 3:32pm On Apr 15, 2021
And why would u end our relationship over a phone conversation.

walahi, i go send herdsmen to u. NONSENSE!!!
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Unik3078(m): 3:34pm On Apr 15, 2021
Inside life!
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by bigpicture001: 3:41pm On Apr 15, 2021
Thekanowarrior:
And why would u end our relationship over a phone conversation.

walahi, i go send herdsmen to u. NONSENSE!!!

Mine sent a text ND blocked me, stopped picking calls and stopped replying chats.... On top nothing ooo

No cheating, beating, bad mouthing, insulting......... Only crime, I never hammer.

Well, God dey

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Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Unik3078(m): 3:48pm On Apr 15, 2021
bigpicture001:


Mine sent a text ND blocked me, stopped picking calls and stopped replying chats.... On top nothing ooo

No cheating, beating, bad mouthing, insulting......... Only crime, I never hammer.

Well, God dey

so sorry about the experience you had. keep trying. the write person will come but one thing you should also know is that " not hammering is also a crime" lol

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Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Thekanowarrior(f): 3:51pm On Apr 15, 2021
Unik3078:


so sorry about the experience you had. keep trying. the write person will come but one thing you should also know is that " not hammering is also a crime" lol
Must everybody hammer? people like you push people to crime. na wetin dey make guys do yahoo yahoo and other crimes. just work hard and pray hard, u will make it.
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Unik3078(m): 3:51pm On Apr 15, 2021
Zorr:
All these stress for some senseless men? especially when it's a Nairaland guy, you never start. Babe just break his heart and move on, no time to explain to him about anything.

abeg make we dey calm down small small.

Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by bigpicture001: 3:55pm On Apr 15, 2021
Unik3078:


so sorry about the experience you had. keep trying. the write person will come but one thing you should also know is that " not hammering is also a crime" lol

Haha haha... I don't do yahoo guy. I Dont do rituals. I met her wen I earn like 30k monthly. I wan hungry die.. But I got dreams and plans.. She came in. Encouraged me, I sat up. Sourced for funds to fulfill dreams and sh supported even financially wella. I met bizness risk dat pulled me down. Sh lost believe.. I still believed. Sh wasnt ready for a restart. I continued to find a way.. Cuz it's about my own life.. Sh quitted and said "am working in circles".

I begged and tried to talk sense to her. Sh no gree.. Now d same biz now earns me 150k monthly. And still growing.. I go buy car soonest. Honestly wish she still dey. But I guess sh still no send. Life goes on with another girl
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Unik3078(m): 3:58pm On Apr 15, 2021
Thekanowarrior:


Must everybody hammer? people like you push people to crime. na wetin dey make guys do yahoo yahoo and other crimes. just work hard and pray hard, u will make it.

Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Unik3078(m): 4:04pm On Apr 15, 2021
bigpicture001:


Haha haha... I don't do yahoo guy. I Dont do rituals. I met her wen I earn like 30k monthly. I wan hungry die.. But I got dreams and plans.. So came in. Encourage me, I sat up. Source for funds to fulfill dreams ah supported even financially well. I met bigness risk dat pulled me down. So lost believe.. I still believed. Sh want ready for a restart. I continued to find a way.. Cuz it's about my own life.. So quitted and said "am working in circles".

I beefed and tried to talk sense to her. So no gree.. Now d same biz now earns me 150k monthly. And still growing.. I go buy car soonest. Honestly wish she still dry. But I guess sh still no send. Life goes in with another girl

..... With this kind of English, i understand why she left!

i got ur back dude!
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Thekanowarrior(f): 4:05pm On Apr 15, 2021
bigpicture001:


Haha haha... I don't do yahoo guy. I Dont do rituals. I met her wen I earn like 30k monthly. I wan hungry die.. But I got dreams and plans.. So came in. Encourage me, I sat up. Source for funds to fulfill dreams ah supported even financially well. I met bigness risk dat pulled me down. So lost believe.. I still believed. Sh want ready for a restart. I continued to find a way.. Cuz it's about my own life.. So quitted and said "am working in circles".

I beefed and tried to talk sense to her. So no gree.. Now d same biz now earns me 150k monthly. And still growing.. I go buy car soonest. Honestly wish she still dry. But I guess sh still no send. Life goes in with another girl

Wow!!!! now i know why she left you. Your command of spoken English is so pitiful. you too do u like ur self with this english? haba, fear God Brother!!
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by oxiide22(m): 6:02pm On Apr 15, 2021
Thekanowarrior:
And why would u end our relationship over a phone conversation.

walahi, i go send herdsmen to u. NONSENSE!!!
hhhhh zakiyi barna irin zuciyankin nan. meyafi haquri?

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Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by Thekanowarrior(f): 6:52pm On Apr 15, 2021
oxiide22:
hhhhh zakiyi barna irin zuciyankin nan. meyafi haquri?
Lol. But kasan maza suna da matsala Walahi.
Re: How To End A Love Affair Without Bitterness! by oxiide22(m): 8:22pm On Apr 15, 2021
Thekanowarrior:

Lol. But kasan maza suna da matsala Walahi.
hkne gsky kam se ahnkl maza suna cin amanan soyayya walh
but, are u d1 that actually wrote that epistle about how women should love their men?? it's really interesting nice write up.

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