Dear nairaland Muslims I have some questions to ask,

1. Is it a proper thing for couples to break their fast with sex during iftar? Meaning that before any thing after sunset, sex is the first thing done, whereafter other things like water, fruit and food set in.

2. Can one's fiancee who one is yet to tie the knot with, come to prepare meal both for suhoor or sehri and for the iftar in one's apartment

I'm not sure about number 1

But number 2 is "NO", he/she has no right to cook sahur or iftar for u if you've not tied the knot

premierlead:
Dear nairaland Muslims I have some questions to ask,

1. Is it a proper thing for couples to break their fast with sex during iftar? Meaning that before any thing after sunset, sex is the first thing done, whereafter other things like water, fruit and food set in.

2. Can one's fiancee who one is yet to tie the knot with, come to prepare meal both for suhoor or sehri and for the iftar in one's apartment

Your questions are contradictory. If you are married then you shouldn't ask about 2. And if single you shouldn't ask No 1.

All in all. Someone who has been without food from Fajr till sunset won't have the need for sex at Sunset. Even at sunset when everyone is preparing for Iftar and Magrib, does it make sense to break fast with copulation and then waste time for ghusl missing the time for Magrib entirely. The night proper is for all that.
And it is sinful living with a woman you have not married and same applies being lonely with her company. Go and marry as marriage only requires the express & unambiguous permission of the bride's father in the presence of two Muslim male witnesses. Foods are permissible except whatever is forbidden (eg pork or poison) irrespective of the person cooking.

Rashduct4luv:


Your questions are contradictory. If you are married then you shouldn't ask about 2. And if single you shouldn't ask No 1.

All in all. Someone who has been without food from Fajr till sunset won't have the need for sex at Sunset. Even at sunset when everyone is preparing for Iftar and Magrib, does it make sense to break fast with copulation and then waste time for ghusl missing the time for Magrib entirely. The night proper is for all that.
And it is sinful living with a woman you have not married and same applies being lonely with her company. Go and marry as marriage only requires the express & unambiguous permission of the bride's father in the presence of two Muslim male witnesses. Foods are permissible except whatever is forbidden (eg pork or poison) irrespective of the person cooking.

Just curious to know and they are two different questions and not applicable to me.

I've heard couples fighting, the husband, an Alfa likewise the wife a popular on the radio Alfa woman. The husband exposed her that even in the afternoon of fasting, his wife would made him to break his fast by requesting for sex always.

He said the woman oestrogen/testosterone whichever is applicable to woman, sexual urge and libido are too high. That the woman is fond of sex. She can't do in a day without doing this thing there by making the husband to err.

Some people may not eat in the whole day, yet still possess that strength for sex in the night.

Yes

But muslim terrorists are not among I mean Fulani Herdsmen and bokoharam from the north which the islam breeds

yes I Bleep one hajara yesterday

If the man wants to break fast with sex he then has to break it with all his numerous wives that means na for janah he go end up with his 72

Abeg no dey ask mumu question. If na Bleep hungry you Bleep as you like, e too early for jonzzing abegi.

Rashduct4luv:


Your questions are contradictory. If you are married then you shouldn't ask about 2. And if single you shouldn't ask No 1.

All in all. Someone who has been without food from Fajr till sunset won't have the need for sex at Sunset. Even at sunset when everyone is preparing for Iftar and Magrib, does it make sense to break fast with copulation and then waste time for ghusl missing the time for Magrib entirely. The night proper is for all that.
And it is sinful living with a woman you have not married and same applies being lonely with her company. Go and marry as marriage only requires the express & unambiguous permission of the bride's father in the presence of two Muslim male witnesses. Foods are permissible except whatever is forbidden (eg pork or poison) irrespective of the person cooking.

I'M not a Muslim but that guy question no.1 is rubbish how on Earth will you break fast with sex.
sex nah food

Fvck dey hungry you..
Which one is to break fast with sex

premierlead:
Dear nairaland Muslims I have some questions to ask,

1. Is it a proper thing for couples to break their fast with sex during iftar? Meaning that before any thing after sunset, sex is the first thing done, whereafter other things like water, fruit and food set in.

2. Can one's fiancee who one is yet to tie the knot with, come to prepare meal both for suhoor or sehri and for the iftar in one's apartment

no 1. after breaking your fast, i.e u have eaten and yiu want to enjoy urself more, she is ur wife. go ahead
no 2. y can't she come and help u out and go home provides you abstain from sexual immorality and ofcourse it should not be a daily routine otherwise u will fail into the wiles of the enemies.

above all flee from every appearance of evil

premierlead:



Just curious to know and they are two different questions and not applicable to me.

I've heard couples fighting, the husband, an Alfa likewise the wife a popular on the radio Alfa woman. The husband exposed her that even in the afternoon of fasting, his wife would made him to break his fast by requesting for sex always.

He said the woman oestrogen/testosterone whichever is applicable to woman, sexual urge and libido are too high. That the woman is fond of sex. She can't do in a day without doing this thing there by making the husband to err.

Some people may not eat in the whole day, yet still possess that strength for sex in the night.

This story you have shared is strange. Have the couple sought help?

Iseoluwani:




no 1. after breaking your fast, i.e u have eaten and yiu want to enjoy urself more, she is ur wife. go ahead
no 2. y can't she come and help u out and go home provides you abstain from sexual immorality and ofcourse it should not be a daily routine otherwise you will fail into the wiles of the enemies.

above all flee from every appearance of evil

No.1: But surely not at the expense of a complusory solat

Question 1 is funny
Question 2 isn't funny and so common among the tertiary institution students

going back to question 1, that is totally wrong and how on earth can someone have strength to copulate after fasting without food for 14hrs

marvin906:
Fvck dey hungry you..
Which one is to break fast with sex

Lolzzz, the guy wan bleep even with hunger.

eedriyz:


No. But surely not at the expense of a complusory solat

any which way...

meanwhile ACCEPT JESUS TODAY, TOMORROW MIGHT BE TOO LATE


JESUS DOES NOT GIVE YOU RULES TO FOLLOW. all this do this, do that in a bid to make you holy is called self righteousness. only Jesus can LOVE you unconditionally

newdawnlive:

I'M not a Muslim but that guy question no.1 is rubbish how on Earth will you break fast with sex.
sex nah food

Lolssss, ur comment got me laughing.

danowena:


Lolzzz, the guy wan bleep even with hunger.

Don't mind the guy...na on top woman him won die put

Are you sure you're a Muslim at all. What kind of question is this? After a long hour of fasting the next thing you think of breaking your fast with is sex... Who does that? Where will you have the strength from? Pls I think there should be limit to what one post as a topic so as you don't erroneously give people the wrong impression about your personality.

These people and sex eeh

Rashduct4luv:


Your questions are contradictory. If you are married then you shouldn't ask about 2. And if single you shouldn't ask No 1.

All in all. Someone who has been without food from Fajr till sunset won't have the need for sex at Sunset. Even at sunset when everyone is preparing for Iftar and Magrib, does it make sense to break fast with copulation and then waste time for ghusl missing the time for Magrib entirely. The night proper is for all that.
And it is sinful living with a woman you have not married and same applies being lonely with her company. Go and marry as marriage only requires the express & unambiguous permission of the bride's father in the presence of two Muslim male witnesses. Foods are permissible except whatever is forbidden (eg pork or poison) irrespective of the person cooking.

I like how you simplified Islamic marriages. so I'm wondering where my fiance got this idea that I need to rent and furnish a flat different from the one I am currently living as a prerequisite for wedding.

Pls be guided this your answer is very wrong..

You may as well support your claims with the verse of the Qur'an.

Why are people so fanatically funny with religion??

You cannot eat the a halal food prepared by someone you know but you are allowed to buy food prepared by another (stranger) even when you have no knowledge about validity of the food ingredients.

Please you should only quote me when you come with your verdicts from the Qur'an.

I am a Muslim and a hardened one at that.

May Allah guide us rightly.

aysuprano:
I'm not sure about number 1

But number 2 is "NO", he/she has no right to cook sahur or iftar for u if you've not tied the knot

Iseoluwani:




no 1. after breaking your fast, i.e u have eaten and yiu want to enjoy urself more, she is ur wife. go ahead
no 2. y can't she come and help u out and go home provides you abstain from sexual immorality and ofcourse it should not be a daily routine otherwise u will fail into the wiles of the enemies.

above all flee from every appearance of evil

are you sure abt d no1. sex during Ramadan... can't dey hold themselves for 1mnth

Iseoluwani:



any which way...

meanwhile ACCEPT JESUS TODAY, TOMORROW MIGHT BE TOO LATE


JESUS DOES NOT GIVE YOU RULES TO FOLLOW. all this do this, do that in a bid to make you holy is called self righteousness. only Jesus can LOVE you unconditionally

his Jesus Ur God

Feel FREE to sin.

We muslims are so obsessed with sex. I think we inherited it from prophet muhammed (peace be unto him)

the answer to both is yes. salam alakum

Yes it is possible

It's rewarding to break your fast with date..if that's not available, use water. After that, you can eat or engage in whatever you like so far it is not haram