Op she might not help you, even if she does, u don join her fuvck mate be that, hope u have it big and long.

greatcrown:
I think you have pride issue. You better call her afterall she was not ashamed of you when she saw you. Call her talk to her about what you do if she could recommend you for job. God will not come down to come and answer your prayer but He will use your network.

key words: Ashamed......network.

Some people will see you and pretend they didn't see you. That she stopped to say hello shows she's a nice fellow. If you decide against strengthen contact tho na your headache be dat

Can you imagine.....na how we human dey use stubborness, pride/shame, chase away our helper.....don't call her now and continue carrying your Nylon bag.....she is ur friend for Christ Sake and I don't see anything bad in u calling her and explain to her the situation of things and telling her how far u av strived to become someone in life....who knows she might be dat person God sent to help u...but ur Agidi (Stubborness) will let u use ur hand to chase away ur helper....I feel like slapping u sev .... u no get money, u still get strong head join.....mtcheeew

ashybabs:


thanks... its too late now
i will not bother calling her

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

I kinda know why you are in the position you find yourself. How can you call yourself a loser?! I'm not a typical nairalander, I would have insulted you further and said amen to your statement.

But listen, I know people that ran into people like this and their lives changed. What if the connection was orchestrated by God? Why not initiate a rapport? Why not present yourself to be helped if it didn't look like she despised you? Guy, if you need help and you feel she is in the position to help, don't let it slip. Stop listening to people here that don't even have a plan for their future. Follow your instinct!!

MrNipplesLover:
I just hope this OP won't go overboard.
If u go do any illegal stuff just because u felt useless, u go regret am.

Dem dey advise am on the 1st page, him dey do strong head.

U better be legit and hustle more, focus on ur own life and forget about others.

Someone don tell u say she fit be ur luck plug.

Just calm down and run ur own race.

U dey compare urself with a woman?


SMH.

lol...he no even compare e self to man ,na woman the op funny sha

Why are you ashamed, it's not as if you knew she saw you and acted like she never did, but she did call you and also shared her number with you, you are low already and you should fear no fall, call her, yes it might be awkward talking to her, but start with a greeting and things will go from there, found myself in same situation but she was a colleague in a former place of work, though did not meet her but I have her number, just have to message her after a long time and when we chatted and asked about work, told her I was out of work and she has been trying to help out, got a space recently to start a small business and I informed her, only for her to ask what about the job and I told her I am still very much interested if it clicks, someone can always handle the business if all factors are favorable..
Ashybabs, make that call you never can tell, she could be the answer to all your prayer requests...

Volkswagen90:
Op she might not help you, even if she does, u don join her fuvck mate be that, hope u have it big and long.

see as your thinking be ,

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

It's a pity you don't believe in yourself

davit:
After 10 years of leaving school, you still sound immature! Obviously you have pride issue. That won't help you go far. You better drop that your pride and call her.. DMH

op is seems to be the first born , Bec many of them are always like that

franklingud:

You must be a very stupid somebody!

I don't usually waste my data trading insults on Nairaland cos It doesn't make any sense to me. It stays here on the website. But for you, I will make an exception.

For you to feel inferior after seeing your classmate in a mob makes me imagine how mentally degraded you've allowed yourself to become.

Why don't you become Mad?
Why don't you just pass on?

Are you actually in competition with anyone on this earth that we're on ?
Were you born together with that mate of yours on the same day, same time?

Do you know their story?
What do you understand by time and chance?

My friend just get out...and stop unnecessary competitions in life. If you don't have any useful thing to post...stay shut. Stay freaking shut.

ashybabs:


legit done tire me o, come be like say i dey waste my time.

I am very worried about you and the people that liked this. It shows nothing but decay of the heart and the brain. It means you are ready for blood money if that is what it takes.

Bro, run you own race, enjoy your life.it is better to eat bread and water and sleep peacefully than to eat Chinese rice and lobster with one part of your mind judging you.

This lady may even be your road to success. Call her,talk with her, she may be the help God wants to give to you. And if not, continue digging,you will hit gold one day.Man dey quick forget him hustling days as soon as pepper rest o.

alllivesmatter:


I don't usually waste my data trading insults on Nairaland cos It doesn't make any sense to me. It stays here on the website. But for you, I will make an exception.

For you to feel inferior after seeing your classmate in a mob makes me imagine how mentally degraded you've allowed yourself to become.

Why don't you become Mad?
Why don't you just pass on?

Are you actually in competition with anyone on this earth that we're on ?
Where you born together with that mate of yours on the same day, same time?

Do you know their story?
What do you understand by time and chance?

My friend just get out...and stop unnecessary competitions in life. If you don't have any useful thing to post...stay shut. Stay freaking shut.

bruh is that meant for me

bastardmod:


Harsh. Don't hit a guy already down

My brother...I'm sorry I said that but I had to. Given the state of affairs of the godforsaken country that we have found ourselves in.

It's a miracle to even stay alive. It's a miracle to even see the next day...and yet someone with access to a website as Nairaland is coming up to share how He felt after seeing a classmate in a mob Can a sane person fathom that?

Can anyone quantify what worse events and occurrences that befall people on a daily in this country? We cannot...

Yet a human being with the knowledge of how to share a post on Nairaland comes up online to share how inferior He felt after seeing a classmate in a mob?

And so freaking what Are we in competition with anyone on earth?

Are we in anyway better off than those who have passed away right inside their homes with no underlying health issues or whatsoever...

Yet someone is coming up to share rubbish. Sheer rubbish. The guy should take several seats abeggg.

I'm ashamed on his behalf. Jakes!!!

ashybabs:
bruh is that meant for me

It's meant for the poster who shared this topic.

Your your destiny helper has just appear so, shine your eyes.

lekki1444:
bros abeg calm down no kee yasef. i have mates who have bought 5 million pound house in london. me i am just kukuma managing my 300 million naira yeye house in lekki

make i come manage with u

NoToPile:


Bagco is even fancy its that 50naira dangote cement bag I buy and I still don't see anything wrong with it.

Maybe there's something else both of us are missing sha.

We must both be missing something ,lol

alllivesmatter:


It's meant for the poster who shared this topic.

i neva traded words, and u quote someone diffrent.. are u new here

NoToPile:


I thought I was the only one but it seems it means a car.

I am officially old school

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

sad....
don't give up hope

ashybabs:
i neva traded words, and u quote someone diffrent.. are u new here

Oga. The reply I made wasnt for you. If I quoted you, then I'm sorry.


I'm sure the guy I referred that to has seen it.

You are not the poster, are you ?

you can know the situation of man through his singlets, boxers, shoes, and hair cut. You can know the situation of a woman through conditions of her bra, nails, hair, lips and bag.

ashybabs:


legit done tire me o, come be like say i dey waste my time.

why you wan kee urself with pressure.Just be sure on the right direction, you'll get to your destination.Ring her, and also ensure you surround urself with destiny helpers.Avoid d company of distractors and Yahoo friends.

You've just said what you want people to see in you. God forbid me calling myself a loser. Tufiakwa

generationz:

Hunger never wire you. Poverty and shyness can't sit in the same room.

It's up to you. If she wasn't ashamed to come down from her car to talk to you, I don't understand why you are shy to call her.

Lol

Male or Female none of them can level Up

That is why is say thank you Lord everyday

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

Really? A loser? Ah may God purnish poverty.

Op u are too envious.

ashybabs:
thats what i am ashamed off

Dey dere, na so you go shame wey ur helper go pass you. Some doors no go open if you de breed shame. Better call her, tell her ur happy to see her doing well, start up convo, you never know wetin fit come out of am

majamajic:


Explain ,
He for say he didn't dress well , not about holding black nylon, someone can hold a black nylon full of cash

Bro you are funny,
imagine a hommy walking on the way maybe around his area casually with black nylon containing bread...

Jerryherd:




You better don't use a woman's clock to run your own race. Your female class mate can marry your father tomorrow and become your step mum, she might marry your boss and become your MD...

Just run your race on your own time


.

True!

ashybabs:


nothing avaerage about the outfit...
the black nylon is a sure sign of poverty fou your info

this guy