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I have no idea whether he lost my contact, but i lost his. That's why i am a bit skeptical. Maybe he did not lose my contact, but just decided to stop talking to me or probably got too busy with life. If you were the guy, and you probably did not lose my contact, how would you feel/think of me when you see a request from me on SM?

Obakashdee:
Hmm the question is how did you lose contact with him? Does he not have your contact again? Did you lose your number?

If you lost contact by drifting away from each other then it’s a lost cause sha.

As a guy I value when a lady reaches out to me sha, if we lost contact. So you know the type of guy he is, if he won’t value it, don’t go o.

AnonH:
I have no idea whether he lost my contact, but i lost his. That's why i am a bit skeptical. Maybe he did not lose my contact, but just decided to stop talking to me or probably got too busy with life. If you were the guy, and you probably did not lose my contact, how would you feel/think of me when you see a request from me on SM?

Ok honest answer as a guy if I use to like you so much and I wanted a real relationship with you when I see your request on SM first thing on my mind is happiness of course and I will not waste time to shoot my shot but if you were someone I just wanted to lash, still happiness but with ulterior motive, chop and go , will be what’s on my mind. That’s for me but I don’t know the kind of guy he is. So it boils down to the kind of guy he was and also know that people change.

But all in all, you won’t know if you don’t try baby girl, give it a try but with sense
Love and light with a little bit of fire �

shot your short.. when talking to him don't be to soft..

I don't really have any specific advice for you, but I'll tell you this... If you're not willing to risk hurting your ego for something that might prove worthwhile, then you don't deserve it. Don't be fooled, not everyone has good things come to them. You just have to take the risk sometimes.