When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? - Family (4) - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? (25389 Views)
Married Woman Disrupts Husband Secret Wedding, Brings Their Child To The Altar / When Is The Best Age To Give Sex Education To Your Child / Nigerian Man Drops Bundles Of 100 Dollar Bills For His Child To Play With.Photos (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Auraby(f): 10:14pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
Tchalz: |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Rickylambert: 10:36pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
JudgeKronos:Bro,I was just discussing this thing with someone last week.Sex education seems to be a gateway or bodily awareness on parts of there body and it’s functions.The marmot number of underaged ppl freely engaging in sexual activities is alarming and it’s a total mess to the so called sex education. I think it’s only necessary to teach them wholistically morality and hope for the best. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Nobody: 1:13am On Apr 23, 2021 |
unamamatoto:You need to check the meaning of catfishing |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Reex12(m): 1:31am On Apr 23, 2021 |
ayenale1:lol but honestly eh girls dey hard to train oh |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Reex12(m): 1:39am On Apr 23, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:You must be very slow..imagine your parents showing u such scene at an early age, do you know how awkward that will be? you just took away the kids innocence and exposed him to a world of pornography or you think it will end there ..some of you just open mouth waaaah with no sense 1 Like 1 Share
|
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by chival(f): 1:50am On Apr 23, 2021 |
The age at which children, especially girls, go through puberty is becoming lower and lower. Most girls start menstruation around 10/11 these days. For this reason, it is necessary to have that talk with them as early as possible. Anywhere around 8-11 years old is fine, for girls. As for approach, be blunt and straightforward. Explain- 1. What menstruation means and the implications. Ovulation etc. 2. Explain what sexual intercourse is, and the consequences. 3. Educate your children on the antics used by paedophiles - scare tactics, threats, promises etc In addition to these, be vigilant and develop a relationship with your children that will make it easy for them to confide in you. 1 Like |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Vinnie2000(m): 5:34am On Apr 23, 2021 |
Reex12: Lol, I get where you are coming from.. But Really, Just like sex itself, children will still come across Pornography one way or d other.. Dats y I said, you eject and most importantly Tell d child about it in DETAILS..D Good and Bad and consequences..Do not think Children of 6, 7 and 8 years are innocent..They have Bad friends at Skul, Tv stations(Mtv base, Soundcity,etc) n movies corrupts Dem.. Dats y you should be open and professional in teaching Dem d sex education.. Wen u do dat, d child will respect you n take your Advice.. But I see, Most of u (Parents n Upcoming Parents) have Fear in you(to speak to ur own child oo).. While some have Ulterior motives or hidden agenda on d child..Dats y u guys don't want d sex education.. |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Tundex911: 6:35am On Apr 23, 2021 |
Alaye gba gbe, igboro ti daru... Smh |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by magiki(m): 9:30am On Apr 23, 2021 |
Leave children to grow and know things by themselves. Sex education may spoil them the more, Remember, anything that have advantages must have disadvantages 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Reex12(m): 9:44am On Apr 23, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:..girls that were given the talk how many of them have respected and taken the advice.. opunu Do you know the reason african parents dont give the talk to kids?bcus one way or another it will create curiosity to explor early and that will be very dangerous to the child's physche, of course bad friends and media will influence the child thats normal but the conscience of right and wrong will trouble that child for someone to talk to about whats going on with them and how to handle it hence a safespace with parents is necessary before giving the talk honestly if my parents showed me porn at an early age in order to teach me sexeducation, i would have impregnated a girl at age 12 why? bcus it will make me feel like an adult but I held restraint despite pressure's from opposite sex bcus of guilt is what am about to do right or wrong? Allow them to discover their sexuality you cant control it 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by BRATISLAVA: 10:04am On Apr 23, 2021 |
fati2001: 8 is much too early. I was forced to learn it in class, and as a 9 year old it made no sense. It is simply parents looking out that works better for their children. It is not sex education that will stop a rapist raping a small child. It is simply teaching your children not to touch or be touched. It is controlling what they watch — only ineffectual parents claim they will learn it elsewhere. I never did. It is how you train children they will grow. Not sex education. They should learn about it at 13 years, when puberty begins. Sex education at younger age simply increases sexual activity in minors due to curiosity to test what they now know. |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by donmik: 10:29am On Apr 23, 2021 |
JudgeKronos: 1 Like |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by donmik: 10:32am On Apr 23, 2021 |
TRUE, it lies uncertain if a child will be immoral or not whether told or not about sex. Teach him with preceding maturity and age. Don't expose him or her to what the maturity cannot manage. Be firm about the type of friend. Better train him or her from day school. Pray and fast for him or her. Use the cane When he or she is yet to differentiate his or her senses properly. Counsel and advise him or her on the need for everything being done or achieved at its time and in Proper order. Wish y'all the best of child's right |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Sicilyjoe: 10:36am On Apr 23, 2021 |
Immediately he/she sabi bad thing |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by DedeNkem: 10:56am On Apr 23, 2021 |
JudgeKronos: Bullshit! How can you expect parents do their best if you don't want them to sex educate their kids? Ignorant isn't an excuse. |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by mrkings84(m): 11:54am On Apr 23, 2021 |
JudgeKronos: I go with you on this. I add one more cent to u!! 1 Like |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by ayenale1(m): 4:32pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:Lol bro i did mommy and daddy wella, from your example sir, the bbnaija babe don mature enough but she still carry the fear up to that level before she now think otherwise that its now her life...that my point...my point is simple if a child has not know anything called penis vagina breast and their functions etc don't introduce it to them let them know it themselves then inputing the fear of knowing such things will guide them up to a level...but educating/exposing them early as 6, 7 is very bad...look at what happened to baba ijesha that have been molesting a girl from 7 and caught at age 14 and he's being doing it for good 7 years please my brother will you say the mother or father didn't gave her sex education?but she has been exposed to it if not for cctv it would have continued that my point...only God can help raise a child not sex education and the best thing we can do as parents is to be the best friend of our children so that they can share anything with us as per whats going on in their lives. |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by ibrocool(m): 8:06pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
As much as sex education is important and you don't want your children to indulge in sex at a very age. Sex education shouldn't be taken too serious. Children of nowadays are always curious. When you emphasis something too much, they get obsess with it and eventually try to explore. Most children start indulging in sex gradually when they are taught REPRODUCTION in INTEGRATED SCIENCE. My best advice is train your children with the word of God and teach sex education indirectly and don't lay too much emphasis. |
| Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Sirauss(m): 1:04pm On May 06, 2021 |
Jestin:This is very important. Before, they will start labeling you names as a Father. |
if the mother is dead, should he hire a maid to bathe only his daughtersMy Husband And I Tested Hiv Positive Please Help / Mother Drowns Her 9-year-old Son For Having A Small Joystick / HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends?
(Go Up)
| Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 83 |