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Cj4charles:
A friend i was with two days before this tragic Incident...... if i had known i would have tell him to end the call he was making while we were eating and listen that death is knocking on his door... (RIP KULIO)

His to be wife was saved from what would be'a hellish marriage via cheating'.You his friends should learn ffom his story.

Zetty177x:
Where u see the fiancee? ...the tall lady is probably the ex...

the lady is the fiancee

DaddyRochie1642:
A Clear case of "Obsession",... It usually starts with "if I can't have you, nobody will have you" and the man when he hears words like this from a Lady, he always thinks it's a joke till it happens.

First time i heard this (if i can't have you, nobody else will bullshit) from a girlfriend back then in school, i thought nothing of it until the day she pulled a kitchen knife on me after a brief misunderstanding.
Right there and then i ended the relationship in my mind but them no born me well to no calm down pacify her and reassure her of my unwavering love.

Who wan make nairaland headline??

[quote author=ehay post=101038485][/quote]how true is that your post?

Not surprised.
The future will be full of agony and regrets if the future is female

And the gal fine sef.the will now marry in spirit.the look nice together.

If you want to Know whether someone can
control Negative Emotions Look at the way
they behave when they feel Positive.

If that Person allows themselves to be carried away by a Positive Emotion, It is more
likely that they will be carried away by a
negative emotion.

My point is not that people should not feel
emotion, but that they should Maintain their
Poise and Balance, and should not swing to
any extreme Emotion, either Positive or
Negative.

Someone who cannot Control Positive Emotions cannot Control Negative Emotions
and Someone who Cannot Control Negative
Emotions Cannot Control Positive Emotions.

stasius:
You see in this world, you need to be spiritually alert.

Always ask God to improve your spiritual intuition! With that you will be alerted of so many impending calamities.

Who told you people that you can commit sin all you like and then look for spiritual intuition to protect you as you go about the devil's work?

This case is a sure one of premarital sex gone wrong. Nothing else could make her as vengeful as that. Why not preach against sex outside marriage rather than trying to tell people to be spiritual in sin?

ehay:
You think he went with his clear head and eyes. Just pray your ex doesn,t feel scorned, na dibia (chief priest) go make you run to her location of choice.

Bros make I clear u.. no b everything b JuJu oo
na so I think when one bastard babe move my phone for my cabal..
Her name na Lovette
Phone number: 08121828607, 08160817065.

OdefaGirl:
Akuma.... your news has gotten here already . Rest in peace peaceful gentleman.

Is he a nairalander?

pocohantas:
Sad one. The mental trauma must have been too much for her. Reading it sef, I don’t think I can survive it.

That is the problem I have with my Naija brothers. They are too brazen in their wickedness. The things they get away with here, they no born them well to try it with foreign ladies that are the main jealous lovers. That is why after ranting, they come back.

They will be leading ladies on and dumping them, claiming they know who to fck and who to wife. You will think there is one special thing they’ll give the one they wifed. Next stage is to start cheating on that one- men are polygamous and “I paid your bride price”. Yet, they expect to live long while ransacking the vagina and eating the food of a woman they have scarred mentally and emotionally. It is foolhardy to think most women GENUINELY FORGIVE them.

People must learn tact. You shouldn’t be friends, but you mustn’t be enemies either.

Looool ransacking indeed



The best solution is to avoid premarital sex. That's the origin of jealous men and women.

LadySarah:
His to be wife was saved from what would be'a hellish marriage via cheating'.You his friends should learn ffom his story.

he was on call that day with this his wife to ľ

woman wey you no go marry no promise am marriage abg.E get why.!

larryjonze:
Saw you onces and i don't find you attractive not even 10%, but i don't expect you not to be another man's food. thats just life.

never seen you before. Who are you again? ....

How short are you?

LordKO:
Most of the people who will glow and justify this alleged heinous act of an ex-girlfriend, regardless of who caused the problem that caused the breakup, are the same people who had cast aspersion on another woman who chose to celebrate loud her divorce from an alleged toxic union the other day; talk about posturing.

[color=dodgerblue]What's your point? What's the correlation? [/color]

BRATISLAVA:
Looool ransacking indeed



The best solution is to avoid premarital sex. That's the origin of jealous men and women.

You feel say na sex dey cause all these wahala? I think it is just madness o. “I can’t have him, so nobody will”. Everything done in a relationship should be mutual and done from a good place. If it doesn’t work out, just remember that at some point the he/she meant a lot to you. Move on.

fuckingAyaya:
those ones na no go area, them no dey stay for husband house

Chai

pocohantas:
You feel say na sex dey cause all these wahala? I think it is just madness o. “I can’t have him, so nobody will”. Everything done in a relationship should be mutual and done from a good place. If it doesn’t work out, just remember that at some point the he/she meant a lot to you. Move on.

It's usually sexual attachment. The same thing that made him think he could have some fun sex before the wedding, now his cheating is exposed. The wife to be dodged a bullet.

Methinks he promised the ex marriage and babies then decided to find a "good girl". It didn't happen( M & B), and as a red pill guy, he needed to stroke her one last time so that he could come and brag. Well...

LadySarah:
the lady is the fiancee

People don't really read nowadays. You can't blame them. Some came here to blame the ex, and assuming she's not the ugly lady they expected, they are a bit confused.

deltateam:
No, the tall lady pictured with him is the fiancee according to write-up.

Infact op should have blurred her picture to avoid this mixup.

This is so wrong. They shouldn't have used her picture. I thought she is the ex. Thanks for letting me know

franchasng:
Most of my exes lol are not even aware that I am married. There is one that's so obsessed with me till today, she still thinks I am single and she calls once in a while and I pick and tell her how my village people don't want me to ever stay with any woman. She will just be pitying me that I need deliverance, but she no know say I don get bomboy self

How she never know? You no deh post your picture for Facebook? Or she no deh use Facebook?

DaddyRochie1642:
A Clear case of "Obsession",... It usually starts with "if I can't have you, nobody will have you" and the man when he hears words like this from a Lady, he always thinks it's a joke till it happens.

My ex once said ' You day mumu because I love you, one day I go just poison you. From that day na so I avoid her.

Regex:
How she never know? You no deh post your picture for Facebook? Or she no deh use Facebook?

My picture is not on any online platform.


My wifey get facebook but last update she made was when she joined in 2015



Me I have been on Facebook since 2010 but my I have no single picture unless some friends tagged me.....



My wedding picture can never be found anywhere online or offline except in my house

franchasng:
My picture is not on any online platform.


My wifey get facebook but last update she made was when she joined in 2015



Me I have been on Facebook since 2010 but my I have no single picture unless some friends tagged me.....



My wedding picture can never be found anywhere online or offline except in my house

Omo, I get Facebook, I last posted on the platform 4yrs ago. I will go and tear down my pictures. Except Twitter and LinkedIn which I use to search for jobs but have never made any post on it.

pocohantas:
Friend indeed. The man just like his fellow men thinks he can eat his cake and have it. The main reason men remain “friends” with their EXes is because they have deluded themselves into thinking they can keep fucking her. Not because they have any good in store for her. Friends indeed.

This doesn't really make sense, particularly the bolded part.
A lot of the time the fucking is mutual, and for the girl to still continue sex with the guy even as exes, it means she is deriving some benefits from the guy, usually in form of financial support when she has financial issues, needs to get some things or pay for some things,....or even just plain cure for "aggro" for the girl when she needs it. (Yes, a lot of girls do fall back on their exes for sex when they need it, cos they're already familiar and it doesn't feel like increasing their body count).

So don't come and make it seem like the guy is the only one benefiting from the relationship and doesn't have anything good in store for the girl when exes continue having sex.
The girl gets her own benefits too (mostly financial support in school or after school, and sex when she feels hot), if not, the mutual "nacking as exes" thingy wouldn't continue.
In fact, she may even be enjoying more benefits from the arrangement than the guy, cos there's nothing new for the guy, it's the same ol' same ol' puzzy he's nacked for many years....so nothing new.

I know this talking from experience (maybe not necessarily personal experience- as a disclaimer. ).

maasoap:
What difference would that make?

The difference is the guy could have died from any other thing but what the op was insinuating

DonX001:
This doesn't really make sense, particularly the bolded part.

New around here? You'll get used to this with time.

Regex:
Omo, I get Facebook, I last posted on the platform 4yrs ago. I will go and tear down my pictures. Except Twitter and LinkedIn which I use to search for jobs but have never made any post on it.

Mine is just that I was born a loner.....I was an extreme introvert growing up....I hated taking pictures right from childhood.....so I didn't have any interesting picture to share, and with time it became a habit that I rarely snap even when I visit a new country that many people will be busy snapping up and down.....I lack picture memory.....so it wasn't as if I planned it, but with present situation of Nigeria and the world at large, my former lifestyle of not taking pictures became a blessing to me which I upheld till date with joy.



My wife own is, she is also like me......born loner and introvert.....bookworm type that only read novels and textbooks, doesn't like what most ladies love. She doesn't like social media.....there was a time I bought her a new phone, she didn't even download facebook on it till I told her to do so for easy communication with her family members at times.....her whatsapp, I doubt she knows what status update is though she enjoy watching other people's status update.....sometimes she goes out and forget her phone with me if I am around or something.



So dont delete your pictures, just dont turn it to a habit of uploading pix online every now and then, its not a sign of success like many think.


I have a friend who is almost a billionaire and he has just a single picture of when he graduated from uni on his facebook. I also have a very successful friend who is so obsessed with facebook that he updates new pictures every week cos he travels around the world a lot before covid. So its all about our upbringing and personality

Arsenate:
New around here? You'll get used to this with time.

franchasng:
Mine is just that I was born a loner.....I was an extreme introvert growing up....I hated taking pictures right from childhood.....so I didn't have any interesting picture to share, and with time it became a habit that I rarely snap even when I visit a new country that many people will be busy snapping up and down.....I lack picture memory.....so it wasn't as if I planned it, but with present situation of Nigeria and the world at large, my former lifestyle of not taking pictures became a blessing to me which I now upheld till date with joy.



My wife own is, she is also like me......born loner and introvert.....bookworm type that only read novels and textbooks, doesn't like what most ladies love. She doesn't like social media.....there was a time I bought her a new phone, she didn't even download facebook on it till I told her to do so for easy communication with her family members at times.....her whatsapp, I doubt she knows what status update is though she enjoy watching other people's status update.....sometimes she goes out and forget her phone with me if I am around or something.



So dont delete your pictures, just dont turn it to a habit of uploading pix online every now and then, its not a sign of success like many think.


I have a friend who is almost a billionaire and he has just a single picture of when he graduated from uni on his facebook. I also have a very successful friend who is so obsessed with facebook that he updates new pictures every week cos he travels around the world a lot before covid. So its all about our upbringing and personality

OK I am not gonna tear down any pictures. It has been really long since i last updated any picture.

It's been over a month getting to two sef I left Nigeria and not one single picture on FB. I did snap pictures but it was just for my mum.

Regex:
OK I am not gonna tear down any pictures. It has been really long since i last updated any picture.

It's been over a month getting to two sef I left Nigeria and not one single picture on FB. I did snap pictures but it was just for my mum.

Yeah don't touch it, leave it as it is.