Good evening everyone.. I am from a very humble background.. My parents did their best raising us up.. My mum used to be a petty trader.. But due to financial constraints, she stopped.. My dad is not doing badly at the moment.. Because I made sure I settled him according in his line of business.. But the problem now is that my Mom has suddenly changed since I established a business for her.. She's a different person entirely now.. Since she started earning.. I don't want to take sides in quarrels between them.. But ever since she started this business.. She's now the boss of the house.. Please what can I do..

My brother, there is little you can do in such matters. But what I would advise that you do is you quietly admonish in a God-fearing way when both of you are alone. Just apply wisdom

Ammishaddai:
My brother, there is little you can do in such matters. But what I would advise that you do is you quietly admonish in a God-fearing way when both of you are alone. Just apply wisdom

Thanks bro.. I don't want to take sides.. I have talked to my mom on several occasions..we were all living fine together when things were rough.. Now that God has remembered us.. She's exhibiting this character

ewaski:


Thanks bro.. I don't want to take sides.. I have talked to my mom on several occasions..we were all living fine together when things were rough.. Now that God has remembered us.. She's exhibiting this character

I know, but such is life. Just remember she is your mother, and telling her the truth in a God-fearing manner will help than a direct confrontation of verbal exchanges

ewaski:


Thanks bro.. I don't want to take sides.. I have talked to my mom on several occasions..we were all living fine together when things were rough.. Now that God has remembered us.. She's exhibiting this character

Well retrieve the shop keys from her and give it to ur GF. thank me later

heendrix:


Well retrieve the shop keys from her and give it to ur GF. thank me later

Habba bro

Ammishaddai:
I know, but such is life. Just remember she is your mother, and telling her the truth in a God-fearing manner will help than a direct confrontation of verbal exchanges

Thanks so much.. I appreciate

ewaski:
Good evening everyone.. I am from a very humble background.. My parents did their best raising us up.. My mum used to be a petty trader.. But due to financial constraints, she stopped.. My dad is not doing badly at the moment.. Because I made sure I settled him according in his line of business.. But the problem now is that my Mom has suddenly changed since I established a business for her.. She's a different person entirely now.. Since she started earning.. I don't want to take sides in quarrels between them.. But ever since she started this business.. She's now the boss of the house.. Please what can I do..

she will soon run short of money with that attitude. Don't make her think you are supporting your Dad but you have to keep him afloat so that he will regain his place. It's a matter of time

ewaski:
Good evening everyone.. I am from a very humble background.. My parents did their best raising us up.. My mum used to be a petty trader.. But due to financial constraints, she stopped.. My dad is not doing badly at the moment.. Because I made sure I settled him according in his line of business.. But the problem now is that my Mom has suddenly changed since I established a business for her.. She's a different person entirely now.. Since she started earning.. I don't want to take sides in quarrels between them.. But ever since she started this business.. She's now the boss of the house.. Please what can I do..

Probably she is earning more than dad and has taking up most of the family expenses

That am sure will brew problems between your parents

Seat her down and ask her why the sudden
change

She alone has the answer

She's earning more. Harsh truth? Except your dad regains the higher Financial mantle, the quarrels will continue until one gets sent to the grave prematurely. It's nothing new.

You know your parents better. If they won't settle, seperate them. That's always the best option.

Let them handle their ish.

No of your biz.

Only that if money you have her runs out( it sure will), don't give her again.

Be neutral.

ewaski:
Good evening everyone.. I am from a very humble background.. My parents did their best raising us up.. My mum used to be a petty trader.. But due to financial constraints, she stopped.. My dad is not doing badly at the moment.. Because I made sure I settled him according in his line of business.. But the problem now is that my Mom has suddenly changed since I established a business for her.. She's a different person entirely now.. Since she started earning.. I don't want to take sides in quarrels between them.. But ever since she started this business.. She's now the boss of the house.. Please what can I do..

Is she being disrespectful to your dad?

descarado:
Let them handle their ish.

No of your biz.

Only that if money you have her runs out( it sure will), don't give her again.

Be neutral.

People always say that, but I don't think it's right to standby and watch your parents disagree/fight and not do anything about it. Especially when you all are adults.

Even children in that situation would say "Daddy/mummy, it's ok."

mariahAngel:


People always say that, but I don't think it's right to standby and watch your parents disagree/fight and not do anything about it. Especially when you all are adults.

Even children in that situation would say "Daddy/mummy, it's ok."

It isn't his biz actually. Cos they will never tell him the origin of that quarrel.

Rather, he can suggest his dad meet the mum for intense communication and sort out their problems.

They will leave the matter on ground and focus on his body language and anything that comes out from his mouth.

Don't be surprised, oga no dey function for the other room or madam no gree again.
How will he start.
Let them sort themselves out jare

descarado:

It isn't his biz actually. Cos they will never tell him the origin of that quarrel.

Rather, he can suggest his dad meet the mum for intense communication and sort out their problems.

They will leave the matter on ground and focus on his body language and anything that comes out from his mouth.

Don't be surprised, oga no dey function for the other room or madam no gree again.
How will he start.
Let them sort themselves out jare

Oh...OK

Them never too old for that kind rough play?

mariahAngel:


Oh...OK

Them never too old for that kind rough play?

Never too old I tell you

They still need it

Though they may not be as agile and full of hormones like during their youth but body no be firewood na.

Find a girl for your dad. A girl who will do his laundry, prepare his meals, run errand for him and most importantly satisfy him in the other room. Do this and watch your mum humbled.

Luak:
she will soon run short of money with that attitude. Don't make her think you are supporting your Dad but you have to keep him afloat so that he will regain his place. It's a matter of time

Thanks so much.. I hope everything returns backs to normal soon

Exmilitant:
Find a girl for your dad. A girl who will do his laundry, prepare his meals, run errand for him and most importantly satisfy him in the other room. Do this and watch your mum humbled.

LOL.. Thanks

frozen70:


Probably she is earning more than dad and has taking up most of the family expenses

That am sure will brew problems between your parents

Seat her down and ask her why the sudden
change

She alone has the answer

I have done that.. She keeps saying nothing

Exmilitant:
Find a girl for your dad. A girl who will do his laundry, prepare his meals, run errand for him and most importantly satisfy him in the other room. Do this and watch your mum humbled.

LOL. Bro

ewaski:


I have done that.. She keeps saying nothing

That word nothing means danger
It's for a woman to say something than saying nothing

frozen70:



That word nothing means danger
It's for a woman to say something than saying nothing

I really don't know what to do.. Because I don't want to involve third parties

ewaski:


I really don't know what to do.. Because I don't want to involve third parties

Leave them, they tsort themselves out

Probably your dad once dealt with her before now, so she may be taking her turn

So far they are not fighting, just watch them and don't let what they are doing set you back

If your dad is not complaining, leave them alone.

For them to still be together this long, they will still survive this.