doggedfighter:
Who built the house they're coming to throw her away from ?




They rented the house for you or built it for you ?



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doggedfighter:
Who built the house they're coming to throw her away from ?




They rented the house for you or built it for you ?

I rented it my self !with my money

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doggedfighter:
Who built the house they're coming to throw her away from ?




They rented the house for you or built it for you ?



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Justaskofficial:



Rented it my self

richeeyo:
Distance
Far from them
Don't even bring in friends from work home
No be figth na distance
Stop wasting start saving

sisisioge:
Stop talking to them and block their numbers if it gets to that
Stop your wife from talking to them and she should block their numbers too
Get your gateman or whoever not to allow them into your house
Get the police involved if it comes to that.

Your extended family obviously has no boundaries...it is your responsibility to create one. I find it surprising that there are families like this sha.

Justaskofficial:


Thanks!have been looking forward to know if it’s right to get the police or human right involve but with this I know I have thought it well too

doggedfighter:


The tone of your write up shows you are a weakling and your family knows that .


They know this and have been playing games with your resources and your person .


They want to take away the only person that has your best interest at heart then finish you.

Before you Allow them throw your wife away, write your will because they will continue dealing with you until you die.

And it won't be long.


This is a fight for your life !!


Stand up to them for once , o oh yeah weakling !!

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Urheadmaster:


I like your question.

As far as your family members didn't build the house you are staying.

Not paying your bills.

Man up and warn them to leave your wife and if they born them well make them come close to your house

Justaskofficial:


Tried distance but they know where I live and I don’t have plans to relocate now !but is it right to serve them a letter from a lawyer?

sisisioge:


Easy sister, dont be so explicit

doggedfighter:


The tone of your write up shows you are a weakling and your family knows that .


They know this and have been playing games with your resources and your person .


They want to take away the only person that has your best interest at heart then finish you.

Before you Allow them throw your wife away, write your will because they will continue dealing with you until you die.

And it won't be long.


This is a fight for your life !!


Stand up to them for once , o oh yeah weakling !!

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doggedfighter:


I am sorry but if you don't he won't know the extent of the damage they're doing and the psychological trauma they're inflicting on that woman.


He needs a re awakening.

Justaskofficial:


That tone is a thinking text ..Lolz!weakling? The least, this case is sensitive..they reported me to my pastor and many people around me ,yet I stood my ground ..ignored them now and they couldn’t get to me so they just recently want to start trampling on my wife’s integrity and I won’t allow that ..

Justaskofficial:


No abuse please !I brought it here because it’s sensitive !i know u are feeling for her too which I know!i still stand my ground ,You don’t know for how long have been battling this

doggedfighter:



That woman must've suffered so much in the hands of those family of parasites.

For them to have the audacity to say they're coming to throw her away.


It's good to marry a man not just anyone that has something in between his legs.

A man that protects his household not a pawn.

Sorry if this is very harsh !

Justaskofficial:


Thanks!have been looking forward to know if it’s right to get the police or human right involve but with this I know I have thought it well too

Justaskofficial:
I will try to be very brief ,Had to create a new account for this because at this junction I am confused but trying to stay strong!

My family is my problem..I came from a family that they like problems, if they notice you are having peace they would make sure you are not settled ..they believe if a couple are focused and agreed !they believe the wife is controlling the husband (Spiritual fallacy).

.!for everything have done for them has been used against me !2015 i got a land through my parent and ended up been scammed and lost so many money!recovered about 100k from 280!

The 100k was sent by my parent to her account to keep.This money was spent by my own sister till date no permission ?no accountability for the money !


I gave money about 400k to my father to start up a business and till date no accountability,no business!money gone...

I squatted my younger sister when she and her husband had housing problem for a year but she ended up telling me I sold one of her husband’s laptop ..I had to confront them and they started apologizing ..
There are more but I can’t be typing it all

Now i don’t have savings anymore and I am tired ,then decided to focus on my life and stop telling them things !immediately I started doing this ,they started giving me trouble saying my wife is controlling me,that she has lock me (this spiritual stuff)..someone who is innocent of all this have started been blamed for my decision of keeping them away!i actually was doing that to protect her because I know who they are ..

They sent my wife text to leave the house ,that they have reported her to her family and if she refuse they would come !

How do I handle this situation because I am pissed already !and they keep pushing me away the more ,it’s not easy to relocate ,I stay a bit far away from them .I have been living alone since 2015,I was actually chased out by my father..there is lot to say

Have also called and made this clear to them that this is my decision but they insisted that she is using jazz for me !

Why are they petty? Why are they not organized?

I am so angry but can’t say too much because they are getting out of hands

Please how do I stop them from constituting nuisance ?

No insults please

doggedfighter:


Where's the abuse in this post.

Point it out .

You don't call a vulnerable man a weakling because he was looking for advice... That is the abuse in my opinion...

There are subtle ways to say things to people who are down..

phemmyfour:
It's complicated

Learn to say NO sometimes especially when it's not convenient for you. The poor will always be in your family. Some family members are just impossible

Richy4:

You don't call a vulnerable man a weakling because he was looking for advice... That is the abuse in my opinion...

There are subtle ways to say things to people who are down..