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The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 5:33pm On Apr 27, 2021
It is an interesting and undeniable factor that as people we're bound to have a nature we exhibit subconsciously or otherwise, and our nature is undeniably who we are and determines what will be attracted to us, good or evil as the case may be and what we shall eventually get (good or evil) based on who we are and what we made ourselves to be.

In this post, I will be sharing the three natures of people in the world to the best of my knowledge and I urge the reader to read with an open mind and a understanding heart to key into the point I'm raising.

The three natures of people without much talk are:

1. The simple (weak) :

Having no specialty or sophistication. Just there for being there.

These people

- Just take life as it comes
- accept anything even when it is bound to be detrimental just to avoid stress and complexities
- often choose to "leave everything to God or a god somewhere"
- are always lamenting about their troubles instead of toughening up to them.
- can't stand trouble when it comes but resort to complaining and casting of blames
- have an ill entitlement mentality
- have a false understanding of "being good and humble" unknowingly to them that they depict idiocy.
- are weak men and women with little understanding to life and it's complexities.
- perpetually follow the multitudes to do what they do and hardly discern for themselves.
- usually make foolish choices and regret afterwards.
- accept mediocre and damaged things and are easily satisfied.
- inherit their foolishness usually from their herd mentality and their turning away from critical discernment and understanding.

These people just exist, have little credible purpose and honour, neither cold nor hot, just want to live without troubles and wish life would be easy for them.

Rebuke them for their simplicity and they will tell you to just let them be and shun your counsel and avoid you eventually.

Yea, this people exist amongst us.

2. The scorner :

One who shuns rebuke and choose to follow his own delight in wickedness.

These people

- take delight in immorality, atrocities and wickedness
- live life carelessly and cause shame to their household
- sleep with people's spouses
- have another definition of smartness
- engage in "fun" at the expense of time, seasons and youthfulness
- always justify their scornful living and don't seek the truth
- subconsciously and consciously give deceitful advise(s) to others.
- carry about an "I don't care attitude"
- abide by the counsel of devils and fellow scorners than the truth
- hardly satisfied with their own and think life is a competition
- consumed by their own scornful living with little to no effective remedy

Do not rebuke scornful people else they will hate you and seek to bring you shame and hurt. Ignore them and leave them to their own scornful living as it easier. Only counsel them when they seek so from you.

Yea, these people live amongst us.

3. The wise :

The aware, the informed.

These people

- hear and increase their learning perpetually
- seek the truth early and walk in it
- bring gladness to their households
- are not froward and speak less
- value their time and use it early
- lay up knowledge and hide them in their hearts
- fear the things the scorner delights in and avoid them
- rule the other two

Rebuke a wise man and he will ponder, adjust and love you, as it is easier for rebuke to enter a wise man than 70 strokes of cane for a scorner. The wise hardly despise nor scorn.

Yea, the wise rule amongst us.

Conclusions

Save the wise, the scorner and the simple are quite similar and attract a lot of sorrows and complications,

- the scorner due to his scornfulness and lack of understanding.
- the simple due to his weakness and lack of understanding.

The gravity of troubles is equal for both. Though the simple feel they're innocent, they also suffer the same level of crises like the scorners.

Just as a weak husband and a scornful husband have similar home crises, a simple son and a scornful son both bring shame to their households. All leads to shame, painful regrets and destruction.

Therefore In all our dealings, let us seek understanding so that we would make wise choices and walk on straight paths. Until people's minds are healed and turned from folly, there will always be endless strife and regrets.

Let us hold unto wisdom and live by understanding. This is my observation which I've shared and is open to discussion, agreement and criticism. Have you anything to add, correct or refute, pls share on.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 6:02pm On Apr 27, 2021
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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Karlifate: 6:39pm On Apr 27, 2021
Nice one, Mikester.

kiss

In this life, the strong rules the weak, while the wise rules the strong.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 6:50pm On Apr 27, 2021
Karlifate:
Nice one, Mikester.

kiss

In this life, the strong rules the weak, while the wise rules the strong.

Very correct.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 6:51pm On Apr 27, 2021
Karlifate:
Nice one, Mikester.

kiss

In this life, the strong rules the weak, while the wise rules the strong.

...and the weak first just like the scornful will fade away and be forgotten more speedily than the wise.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Karlifate: 7:48pm On Apr 27, 2021
Mikester:


...and the weak first just like the scornful will fade away and be forgotten more speedily than the wise.

Gbam!

Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Manq(m): 8:07pm On Apr 27, 2021
I think there are hybrids! Mixed behaviors from 1,2&3.. typing from experience

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 9:05pm On Apr 27, 2021
Manq:
I think there are hybrids! Mixed behaviors from 1,2&3.. typing from experience

Course there might be some people who exibit more than one of those natures but one can only be classified based on the trait he exhibits most.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by AngelicDamsel(f): 11:44pm On Apr 27, 2021
"Life is simple, but men made it complicated". grin grin grin grin grin


Mikester:

Fixed cool

Men as used by me; means humans.
That quote is from the scriptures.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Starz825(m): 12:09am On Apr 28, 2021
Your post and observation is cool but then even if you have the whole wisdom of the Earth...it still doesn't stop trouble from entering into your life as a person...
Some trouble comes into one's life unannounced...not because you exhibited foolishness or you weren't wise but they are just normal affliction of life that comes your way as you journey through life....

One could even gather wisdom and still fall prey...
Check out the life of Solomon in the Bible....funny enough the wisest man on Earth ended up being foolish...
You can't always be your best no matter how wise you are, Nevertheless gather wisdom!!

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 4:23am On Apr 28, 2021
Starz825:
Your post and observation is cool but then even if you have the whole wisdom of the Earth...it still doesn't stop trouble from entering into your life as a person...
Some trouble comes into one's life unannounced...not because you exhibited foolishness or you weren't wise but they are just normal affliction of life that comes your way as you journey through life....

One could even gather wisdom and still fall prey...
Check out the life of Solomon in the Bible....funny enough the wisest man on Earth ended up being foolish...
You can't always be your best no matter how wise you are, Nevertheless gather wisdom!!


That is all to say, nothing more. Thank you.
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by mykealpha(m): 6:33am On Apr 28, 2021
In conclusion, every human being is a mix of the three elements
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 8:05am On Apr 28, 2021
mykealpha:
In conclusion, every human being is a mix of the three elements
Na you know. The post doesn't disagree with your position, It only implored you to lay up knowledge and increase your wisdom and to do it early before the days of trouble.
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 8:09am On Apr 28, 2021
AngelicDamsel:
Life is simple, but men men and women made it complicated. grin grin grin grin grin

Fixed cool
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by dederocs(m): 8:40am On Apr 28, 2021
Apt, so many weak people and scorners in this country.
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 9:49pm On May 26, 2021
This is really a brilliant write-up Mikester. You are a smart person. To be able to observe reality and relay it so smoothly. I stan you. But I will add and expanciate it, I really like this discourse.

1. The simple/weak are the perfect workers, they are usually civil servants, religious, traditional, and there are slightly more women in this category, due to their agreeable personality. Employees, governments, fake visa agents, pastors, politicians, businesses, basically those that need a faithful, non-rebellious, compliant patronizing large population to do their biddings target this group. They are also either miseducated, uneducated, schooled, certificated, indoctrinated, and brainwashed, but not educated. They hardly think for themselves, do not have an independent thought process, and a perfect societal sheep.

Those are the sheeple Daddyfreeze was trying to free, but they suffer from an acute case of Stockholm syndrome, that their masters are assured that they will never wise up. Here, you will find the ideologically possessed idiots, and those that believe in juju, or think because they are white, tall, can speak English, have traveled abroad, etc, they are better. To impress this kind of people are easy, it is always material stuff. These kinds of folks will spend their life savings to buy Gucci shoes to oppress their neighbor, and many yahoo boys are a good example of these folks. To make them do something for you, impress their emotions, they are basically a slave to their feelings. If it feels good, then it is good. Number two loading. cool

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Savagethe21st(m): 10:06pm On May 26, 2021
pansophist:
This is really a brilliant write-up Mikester. You are a smart person. To be able to observe reality and relay it so smoothly. I stan you. But I will add and expanciate it, I really like this discourse.

1. The simple/weak are the perfect workers, they are usually civil servants, religious, traditional, and there are slightly more women in this category, due to their agreeable personality. Employees, governments, fake visa agents, pastors, politicians, businesses, basically those that need a faithful, non-rebellious, compliant patronizing large population to do their biddings target this group. They are also either miseducated, uneducated, schooled, certificated, indoctrinated, and brainwashed, but not educated. They hardly think for themselves, do not have an independent thought process, and a perfect societal sheep.

Those are the sheeple Daddyfreeze was trying to free, but they suffer from an acute case of Stockholm syndrome, that their masters are assured that they will never wise up. Here, you will find the ideologically possessed idiots, and those that believe in juju, or think because they are white, tall, can speak English, have traveled abroad, etc, they are better. To impress this kind of people are easy, it is always material stuff. These kinds of folks will spend their life savings to buy Gucci shoes to oppress their neighbor, and many yahoo boys are a good example of these folks. To make them do something for you, impress their emotions, they are basically a slave to their feelings. If it feels good, then it is good. Number two loading. cool
The allegory of the cave would be a better context to stockholm syndrome

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 10:11pm On May 26, 2021
2. The scorners

If you like your life, please avoid these people. Never correct them, and off completely. They are the kind who deserve a true, permanent, irreversible, irreconcilable ghosting. They are emotional vampires. They thrive on engagement to unleash mayhem. Doesn't matter if you are right and can prove it, they will harm you if you engage with them. They lack empathy, are empty inside, and have a false sense of sense, and ego as huge as olumo rock. They are the kind God saw after creating humanity and regretted it. These kinds of people are envious, a human scavenger, and will stab you in the back just after you turn around serving them a bowl of rice. If you treat this kind of people nice, then in their eyes, you just established yourself as a perfect victim to potentially exploit, because in their book, being good is being stupid and not smart. They are ambush predators, they can spend years waiting for an opportunity to strike, and if they succeed, you may never recover from it, especially if you trust them. These are the kind of folks that brings out the worse in good people. In one word, they are narcissists.

To offend these people, just be better than them. And by being better, I am referring to their own definition of better, not yours or society. For example, you may buy a new shirt, and they will see it as an affront to their esteem, they are an emotional mess, a psychopath, and derive deep joy in causing others pain. They are never introspective and externalizes everything. For example, they will hate you for passing an exam, even if you spent months in preparation, and they party all day. Hard work, consistency, and delaying gratification are unknown to them, they manipulate their way through life and that is the only method they know. Cain (in the biblical story of Cain and Abel) is a scorner. He killed his brother even if the reason why God didn't accept his sacrifice was his fault. He (Cain) gave God sacrifices that he didn't need anyways, unlike his brother who gave God the best of the best.

If you have experience with scorners, you may become a misanthrope. I have experiences with people like this, and unfortunately, there are more men in this category than women. The good thing that saved me from these human devils was because I am wildly read, and was sharp observing as their games unfold, and could counter it and make sure I was not their victim. To win these kinds of idiots, never trust them, and let them know it. They can only hurt you if they know you are ignorant and unaware of their nature. Just like a Tiger, it won't attack you when you are watching, but only when you turn your back, hence I called them a human ambush predator. And if they know that you know them, they will hate you, hate to respect you, but stay away from you. To kill them finally, just keep doing good for yourself, and let them hear it. Your success in their karma.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 10:33pm On May 26, 2021
3. The wise

These are the perfect human, the ideals that everyone should work towards becoming. They are the ones that rule amongst the weak and the scorner. You will find lots of CEOs, entrepreneurs, societal disruptors (eg Elon Musk), scientists, and basically those that move humanity forward in this group. People like this understand the realities of the scorners and the weak, and skillfully use them to achieve their goals. For example, the CEOs of coke, cigarette companies, even founders of Facebook, etc never allow their own children to use it, but of course, milk billions out of the weak and scornful, who are a slave to their emotions and need public likes and following. These kinds own clubs and brothel, for the weak and scornful to have fun and play. They will mark up the price of a bottle of beer to over 2000%, because they know that the weak and scornful equate their ability to pay as being a quality human and being successful.

The wise do not play to win the battle, they play to win the war. For example, if you ask them to borrow you money, they may give you something they can afford to lose, and if you didn't pay back, it will be a perfect reason to cut you off completely. The lender may think he is smart to not payback, but he won the battle, while the borrower won the war of cutting such leech and forever beggar off. These wise are lawyers, they read wildly and understand human nature, and live with a hyper sense of awareness and vigilance. They are not easily impressed, and can hardly be scammed. They see the game for what it is and play like a pro. If these kinds are your partner, you will enjoy life. They are responsible, generally have a higher IQ, and are truly the meek who will inherit the world.

Everyone thinks they are the third, but only a few are. Most are not. A simple test for you. If you routinely blame others for your problem (showing a lack of personal responsibility), if you eat for taste only instead of nutrition and its effect on your body (showing a lack of self-respect), if you have no goal you are always working on, if you haven't read any book since you're born out of your own volition, if you jealous people instead of being wowed and ask yourself the price they paid to be a subject of your admiration, if you can easily be bought with materials, lack self-control and wants to eat a man's money or sleep with anything underskirt, if you are always broke, if you are not harsh on yourself, and tell yourself the harsh truth people are afraid to tell you, if you operate from a position of perfection, and get offended with corrections, then sorry to say, you are not wise.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by SportsHD: 1:50am On May 27, 2021
Karlifate:
Nice one, Mikester.

kiss

In this life, the strong rules the weak, while the wise rules the strong.
Very correct. 99 percent intelligenci and 1 percent rugeddity.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 6:50am On May 27, 2021
pansophist:
3. The wise

These are the perfect human, the ideals that everyone should work towards becoming. They are the ones that rule amongst the weak and the scorner. You will find lots of CEOs, entrepreneurs, societal disruptors (eg Elon Musk), scientists, and basically those that move humanity forward in this group. People like this understand the realities of the scorners and the weak, and skillfully use them to achieve their goals. For example, the CEOs of coke, cigarette companies, even founders of Facebook, etc never allow their own children to use it, but of course, milk billions out of the weak and scornful, who are a slave to their emotions and need public likes and following. These kinds own clubs and brothel, for the weak and scornful to have fun and play. They will mark up the price of a bottle of beer to over 2000%, because they know that the weak and scornful equate their ability to pay as being a quality human and being successful.

The wise do not play to win the battle, they play to win the war. For example, if you ask them to borrow you money, they may give you something they can afford to lose, and if you didn't pay back, it will be a perfect reason to cut you off completely. The lender may think he is smart to not payback, but he won the battle, while the borrower won the war of cutting such leech and forever beggar off. These wise are lawyers, they read wildly and understand human nature, and live with a hyper sense of awareness and vigilance. They are not easily impressed, and can hardly be scammed. They see the game for what it is and play like a pro. If these kinds are your partner, you will enjoy life. They are responsible, generally have a higher IQ, and are truly the meek who will inherit the world.

Everyone thinks they are the third, but only a few are. Most are not. A simple test for you. If you routinely blame others for your problem (showing a lack of personal responsibility), if you eat for taste only instead of nutrition and its effect on your body (showing a lack of self-respect), if you have no goal you are always working on, if you haven't read any book since you're born out of your own volition, if you jealous people instead of being wowed and ask yourself the price they paid to be a subject of your admiration, if you can easily be bought with materials, lack self-control and wants to eat a man's money or sleep with anything underskirt, if you are always broke, if you are not harsh on yourself, and tell yourself the harsh truth people are afraid to tell you, if you operate from a position of perfection, and get offended with corrections, then sorry to say, you are not wise.

You're truly a pansophist. Great add. Pass it on to your children.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 9:06am On May 27, 2021
Mikester:


You're truly a pansophist. Great add. Pass it on to your children.

If they have my blood, them will know automatically, come join am with my mentorship, mehn, na die. Lion no de born goat grin

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 9:09am On May 27, 2021
Karlifate:
Nice one, Mikester.

kiss

In this life, the strong rules the weak, while the wise rules the strong.

Wise men work together, strong men compete amongst themselves, but a weak man pay the price for all. cool

E.g, politicians work together (wise), they use the touts (the strong) to do their dirty job (e.g mc oluomo), but the future of the people (the weak) are sold off. The weak pays the ultimate price for all. Its a pyramid scheme where the lowest bear the whole liability, but the top are immuned from it.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Saviolamemphix(m): 12:32pm On May 27, 2021
pansophist:


Wise men work together, strong men compete amongst themselves, but a weak man pay the price for all. cool

E.g, politicians work together (wise), they use the touts (the strong) to do their dirty job (e.g mc oluomo), but the future of the people (the weak) are sold off. The weak pays the ultimate price for all. Its a pyramid scheme where the lowest pays the whole liability, while the top are immuned from it.
Damn i copy most of ur comments bro. U are a genius bro no cap grin grin cool

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Mikester: 5:05pm On May 27, 2021
pansophist:


If they have my blood, them will know automatically, come join am with my mentorship, mehn, na die. Lion no de born goat grin

Couldn't agree more. wink

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 9:17pm On May 27, 2021
Saviolamemphix:
Damn i copy most of ur comments bro. U are a genius bro no cap grin grin cool

I'm like you, I copy good stuff. cool

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Karlifate: 2:35pm On May 29, 2021
pansophist:


Wise men work together, strong men compete amongst themselves, but a weak man pay the price for all. cool

E.g, politicians work together (wise), they use the touts (the strong) to do their dirty job (e.g mc oluomo), but the future of the people (the weak) are sold off. The weak pays the ultimate price for all. Its a pyramid scheme where the lowest bear the whole liability, but the top are immuned from it.

Right. cheesy

This reminds me of boarding school then, where:

Senior students [the strong] angry will bully the JJCs & simple junior students [the weak] , while the cunny junior students [the wise] wink have their way with the Seniors. cheesy grin
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Happyfela(m): 3:17pm On May 29, 2021
Pansophist na Agba Awo. If you know you know
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 3:53pm On May 29, 2021
Happyfela:
Pansophist na Agba Awo. If you know you know

My guy what is the meaning of "Agba Awo"?
Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by pansophist(m): 4:08pm On May 29, 2021
Karlifate:


Right. cheesy

This reminds me of boarding school then, where:

Senior students [the strong] angry will bully the JJCs & simple junior students [the weak] , while the cunny junior students [the wise] wink have their way with the Seniors. cheesy grin

When I was in secondary school then, I was perceived as weak by simple people. coming from a christian home and soaked in that religion, I was a perfect target for the scorners of the earth. I was bullied, my palito radio and dunlop sandals seized. I go come de walk with ordinary legs like abgero pikin go house. grin

But my definition of strength was different. Simple people actually see wise people as weak, because wise folk don't flex their strength with muscles, ego masturbation and the intimidation of others. some of the most dangerous people you'll meet are actually wise people, and some of the wickedest monsters you'll meet are actually the simple people.

Also, the man that you should not mess with is one who has transformed himself from weak to strong, after being the victim for so long. One who studied the game, and played to win brutally. From a political context, it would be China, thats why the west hate them. The new abroad now is in Asia, not Europe or North America.

For many people, they will be weak for life, instead of use their frustration to become wise, or at least the strong. And mind you, bullies are not wise, they may even be the simple (weak) wey just get muscle. Afterall, even chicken get other chicken wey him fit beat.

Many wise people are assumed to be weak because of their nonviolent, tactful, observing and long planning nature. Hence, I say they plan to win the war not win battles, that at best, inflates the ego.

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Re: The Three Natures Of People We See Everyday (Observation) by Karlifate: 5:54pm On May 29, 2021
pansophist:


When I was in secondary school then, I was the weak, coming from a christian home and soaked in that religion, I was a perfect target for the scorners of the earth. I was bullied, my palito radio and Dunlop sandals seized. I go come de walk with ordinary legs like abgero pikin go house. grin some of the most dangerous people you'll meet are actually good people, and some of the wickedest monsters you'll meet are actually the simple people.

Also, the man that you should not mess with is one who has transformed himself from weak to strong, after being the victim for so long. One who studied the game, and played to win brutally. From a political context, it would be China, thats why the west hate them. The new abroad now is in Asia, not Europe or North America.

For many people, they will be weak for life, instead of use their frustration to become wise, or at least the strong. And mind you, bullies are not wise, they may even be the simple (weak) wey just get muscle. Afterall, even chicken get other chicken wey him fit beat.

Many wise people are confused with the weak because of their nonviolent, tactful, observing and long planning nature. Hence, I say they plan to win the war not win battles, that at best, inflates the ego.

Apt!


Having an innocent face also helps.
They'll think you can't hurt a fly, whereas you're the mastermind of that bizarre atrocity. grin

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