Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

Believe girls and their virginity tales at your own peril.

Some girls are like a swimming pool. Others have swam before you. Others are swimming with you and others will swim after you.

Just do your own and enjoy it while it lasts.

Your friend is comfortable discussing his wife's sexual performance with you. What is the world turning to?

Do you discuss your wife's sexual desires with him?

Sitting on the fence.

ISN'T IT OBVIOUS DAT HE HAS FALLEN 4 A FVCKAHOLIC? BESYDS WHY DO U CARE SO MUCH ABOUT UR FRIENDS SEX LIFE?

What he is discussing with you is meant for him to discuss with his wife and not you...

If his wife tells him he does not know how; he should simply tell her to show him the "HOW"

Well, in this age of social media and porn. Its very easy to find what to compare your partner's prowess with. That's why sex should be kept private, explored by the couple together alone.

If a girl tells you her body count is 2, simply times it by 10 which means she has slept with 20 boys.

The way you dey hammer on the "my friend, my friend" it only gives you away as the victim in this story.

Too much my friend...

gaby:
The way you dey hammer on the "my friend, my friend" it only gives you away as the victim in this story.

Too much my friend...

Pls don't start

You, sir are your friend. Stop deceiving yourself

Blacknote:


Pls don't start

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Are you okay?

What is the odd that you will not take up alive?

That's what I'd love to bet on.

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

it's you and not your friend.

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

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I m allergic to write up like this

Damn niggar. This story looks lyk a Fabricated bullshit!

Waka jeje waka like this waka like that shey she the lecture your friend

How do i laugh in a way that won't make you angry

Most gals u were once raped at younger age are generally promiscuous growing up....Very basic if you understand women very well
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Na mumu Men full this life pass. See the kine fairy tale ordinary 23 year old dey feed you

Your friend has enter one chance to a rigorous sex addicts and fucker called wife. she has been bleeped several time before she met your friend and after meeting your friend, it might also be possible she might be giving her body to outside who can bleeped her more than your friend, that's why she say your friend can not bleeped her well maybe more than those guys that do Bleep her. she is a big hole and a public toilet ooooo.... never trust a girl

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

And this is what is bothering you to the point of writing this long gossip story.

say boys and their chastity stories at your own threat

Your friend is not wise.

Haha, why do you guys think that when you bang a girl to stupor, that means you are good in sex.

I agree with your friend wife, YOUR FRIEND CAN'T BANG

Fore play is the core of any sex, be patient, kiss her, suck her nipple, rub her clit, make her wet and then make love to her, for god sake, she is a wife not a prostitute.

Some women want to make love and banging a girl to stupor doesn't mean you are satifying her, you are just satisfying your own Ego.

Lol.

I pity any man going for small girls of this generation. There are no good girls anymore. In fact, this new place I'm staying now has opened my eyes even more to so many things that make me shake my head and pity you guys. Well na him good for una.

Shebi I dey manage my life for uncompleted building come cook snap. Then some useless nairaland guys came and shamed me. Calling me all sort of dirty names that my food looks ugly and unpresentable just because I didn't display a nice set kitchen and non-stick pots with four burner gas. (People who eat beside the gutters mama put for that matter o) Well.. I would rather manage what I have until God blesses me than do what these girls whom you rate as classy do to sustain a living to give you that fake life and false impression about them.

I wonder why you're crying foul. That's the kind of girls you guys are going to be getting; it's not a curse. Na Dem una value and because of what their wayward life has earned them you believe they are more classy and preferable.

Manage am like that.

A virgin without hymen aint no certified virgin, no com use sport blah blah blah as excuse

Blacknote:


Pls don't start

comrade u wan start d advice wit violence

What an observant comrade

OP....
There are two extreme behavior every girl who has been raped before will portray...

It's either they become overly promiscuous or they will never enjoy sex with a man, and this behavior will continue through out their entire life unless they heal properly...

So let's assume that your friends sex game is top notch and his wife isn't promiscuous, one can then conclude that she hasn't really healed from the past trauma of abuse...

I know you maybe thinking that, "but it's being long na", I put it to you that the psychological implications of abuse doesn't necessarily go away with the passage of time ...

May I suggest that your friend have a discussion with his wife and let her tell him what he can do to be better in better, if he does that and still she makes the same statement, then they better visit a counselor/psychiatrist ...

Channah1:

[s]Shebi I dey manage my life for uncompleted building come cook snap. Then some useless nairaland guys came and shamed me. Calling me all sort of dirty names that my food looks ugly and unpresentable just because I didn't display a nice set kitchen and non-stick pots with four burner gas. (People who eat beside the gutters mama put for that matter o) Well.. I would rather manage what I have until God blesses me than do what these girls whom you rate as classy do to sustain a living to give you that fake life and false impression about them. [/s]

^^^ unnecessary. How e take concern the story?

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