This is a very sad story, Her ex husband Accused her of cheating and stabbed her severally on her hand and leg. the lady shared the story on her facebook account. the writeup is long...



Yes Today is the 4th month since the
sad incident and I'm grateful to God and
Him alone always.
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Here is the story:
On the 27th of Dec 2020,I woke up tired
around 5:30am to arrange myself and
by 6am I was the road, because tired or
not I must provide for myself as usual
and to do that I need to hustle day and
night.
Firstly I went to atakpa here in Calabar
to get things for my pepper soup and to
watt market to get other things.
Yes that morning I was blessed but
never knew what the devil had for me, I
sold off everything before 1pm or there
about and I was happy about it.
Was so tired to make soup for my
clients.
Mind you I didn't even have a bathe
before leaving home as I thought I was
gonna get home from market to do that
(that's my spirit oh I no want hear say I
lose my customers).
I called Michael(My ex-husband)to
please get me the meat I had in the
fridge as I couldn't leave the stand due
to high orders,and I was alone - all my
store helpers I had left for Xmas. I
needed to cook,serve,pack plates,pack
bottles,wash plates,pots,glasses and
lots all by myself.
Later on, my distant relative came and
my niece too to help out I was glad they
came.
Around 6pm Ex husband came with my
son(othniel) and the meats which I
prepared and because I already had
orders, in 30 mins the whole shaki and
kpomo was finished and more orders
still came.
I rushed to bogobri, had my bathe and
change of clothes to get set for the day.
Still been in my business mood which
some friends knows I don't joke with
anything business.
The main story now:
An old friend whom I haven't seen in
about 3 years or so, came around the
Christmas village(somewhere close to
where I had my stand), but the stand he
went to didn't have what he wanted, he
was directed to my stand. He got there
and saw the stand name "O'Neill" and
told my sister(relative) that he
recognises the name and being that the
name isn't common it was easy to tell.
He requested for the food he wanted but
the food wasn't available... A lot went
on between him and my girl and all the
while I was outside not knowing what
went on inside
I came in to get drinks for other clients
outside when I saw him and out of
shock I shouted his name and gave him
a hug and told him was busy and
couldn't talk
My helpers left around 8 or so and I was
left alone again to do everything.
It was then announced to all customers
that we will be closing by 11pm instead
of the regular 9:30pm which was as a
result of curfew in the state then.
Then my boy had slept and I advised ex
husband who was carrying him, to take
the baby home that today being the last
Sunday I have to make my sales cos we
do sell much on Sundays,that I will be
coming home immediately am done.
Uncle agreed and left.
When everything ended around 11pm,I
was not just tired but weak as I hadn't
eaten in days (no time to even do that).
I stared at the bottles,plates,cups,pots..
how do I start arranging,and if u leave
them outside,ur cups and bottles are
gone the next day as fellow vendors will
do you a favour by taking them all.
I wanted to take the risk cos I needed to
be home to bathe,rest and get a good
sleep on my bed.
I called the driver who usually takes me
home to come pick me his number
wasn't going through. It had gotten very
late already and all I needed was to
sleep and I didn't mind sleeping at my
stand as it wasn't unusual during festive
periods like Christmas.
This friend of mine was still around too
enjoying the cruise of Calabar he has left
for years. He had tried calling Bolt but
the charges were high and the
probability of even taking me to home
was uncertain so I decided to spend the
night there.
The friend also decided to join. It wasn't
unusual, there were many people
around, security personnel and all... The
place was just busy and rowdy as.calabr
cultural center would be during
Christmas period.
I made spaghetti for both of us to eat,
we discussed (strictly business) and
then I slept off on the chairs I had
arranged.
I never knew oga has gone home and
returned to the stand, made all the
preparations cos I didn't return home
and he came in the company of his
colleague at work.
Hmmmmmmmm.
Like I said I had slept off never knew
about my friend. The next thing I heard
was Michael's voice beating the table
that was in front of us.I opened my eyes
and there the drama started,calling me
names prostitute ohh,cheat oh plenty I
no fit count. That am cheating on him
bla bla bla this time accompanied by an
anti-cultism man that was on night duty.
I couldn't understand how sitting on a
chair turned to cheating. My friend even
tried to explain to him that it's not
actually what it is afterall he never met
us in a compromising position or even
close to each other... we were far apart
from each other. Hubby didn't care to
listen to what any of us had to say.
Me here sleep still d my eye oh and was
over tired and with severe headache.
I asked what he was doing?how can he
accuse me when u haven't caught me in
the act,if I had wanted to do anything
oga hotels don finish were I go do for
cultural center field haba na ogaaaaaaa.
He told me " if u don't kill me this night
then am sure of killing u". I tried
standing but my leg was weak and I had
to sit back. I then asked him what
statement was that,cos I don't like
rough talks.
Abeg sleep still d my eye sef oh .... as I
got up to give him space,I saw him
remove something from behind him,
heaven knows I thought it was a belt
and he brought it straight to my left
chest,thinking he wants to beat me with
it as usual, I used my left hand to block
what was coming, that was when I felt a
deep pain and then I knew I was done
for.
He repeated the stabs like 3 times still
aiming to my left chest by then I fell to
the ground,couldnt shout,couldn't
talk,couldn't scream couldn't move cos I
was weak and in pains now too... and
the place was dead dark that no one
knew what was going on. That was
when my friend shouted and when
hubby saw he couldn't get my chest he
now went to my right legs and lap and
stabbed me more than 10 times.
Ogaaaaaa u no get conscience say na
person pikin were labour pain the mama
to born u d slaughter so like chicken so
oh goshhhhh.
I passed out,I collapsed like a building
without a foundation,I was helpless like
someone without hope, I fainted like a
bastard,I died like an orphan (which I
am).I laid down lifeless,breathless and
hopeless.I never knew what went
wrong.
All I heard myself say was calling out
my children's name, my little son Othniel
was all in my head,my siblings.
Then I went off.
I tried with all the strength God gave to
me to stay alive,begging God for help
for the sake of my children.And the
Goodnews is He heard the prayers.
I woke up hearing voices saying she is
back,she is alive,let's rush her to the
hospital.
According to witnesses I was rushed to
otop abasi police hospital here in
Calabar for first aid then teaching
hospital(UCTH)
Hours later I went into the theater.
3 surgeries were carried out on me; in
the hands, and 1 on the right leg.
After weeks the left hand died,sir to
infection from the knife used and was
amputated on the 20th Jan 2021.
He was arrested and was bailed after
3days and later was rearrested again
right now the case is in court,but he
was bailed out again.
And in the hospital money for surgery
was needed during my stay there, I still
called him oh, he said he was coming
with the money, the money needed was
over 300k and uncle came with 20k
...funny right?Yes it is funny.
I screamed, I talked oga abuse me oh
calling me the names he is used to and
even wanted to beat me oh if not for my
brother and cousin hmmmmmmm.
I have caught him countless times with
women,even on our bed when
courting,na condoms I want talk that
will be scattered round my house.
Even when in the hospital, after my
discharge, I needed to pick something
urgent from his house, I saw condoms
and man power drugs in his bags. I
smiled but this is someone that sees
me as a cheat oh.
Anytime I ask for money he will say he
doesn't have it but I will see alerts sent
to women in thousands of naira and
hundreds of thousands, but madam no
fit see 1k collect... tell me why I
shouldn't hustle for my money?
Now he has kept me handless,how do I
cook and hustle to take care of myself
as I use to?
Cos me am not a begging type oh.
How do I deal with this now?
Cost of prosthetics is in millions, where
poor pikin like me go take this kind
money from after millions have already
been spent na? See me see wahala
ohhhh.
We got married 2018, 24th Nov. we did
our HIV test and we summited negative.
But discovered this young man has
been HIV positive and been on drugs
since 2017 and when Roselyne asked he
said he owes me no explanations, let
alone apologies.
Na so I carry myself run go hospitals for
test oh and then did same for me son,
including Navy hospital... Yet I never left
and I never cheated.
I suffered a big deal but since I look
troublesome... People say, yes she is
the cause. Even some maternal family
members sees me as that...But he
humbles himself... He is the angel and
am the demon.
But una see this God he is NOT stupid.
He kept me alive for a purpose and it
has to be fulfilled.
My total restoration is as a result of just
2 special people 1st God and the
Second yet to be revealed. I can't thank
this 2 people enough.
And my siblings too I heart u all.
And my school mates, groups and all I
appreciate u alllllllllll.
For you all that needed the story.
Here it is.
Collect am
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this is sad, that man is wicked

So touching..... This usually happen when u decide to marry a boyfriend over a husband... Ur ex needs to be jail for life... He dey do but he no want u to do... And accusing u for infidelity whereas he is the master in the game.... Lesson for others.... Don't think that u love someone that they can change from a bad attitude... It takes the grace of God for a wife beater to be a gentle man. I rise

i sheded tears while reading, that man is a beast



Lalasticlala

No be small mata be this oo

Igbo people sha

Kestolove:
Igbo people sha

Happened in calabar not igbo

Kestolove:
Igbo people sha

Domestic violence between couples ain't synonymous to a particular tribe. It's everywhere.

E just be like tallest wen wan toast Asa aka big P sailing for Selina tested. He say; "on a zero zero hour, I go cary kala, knack am for your kpekus, con carry the kpekus, rub am for poto poto, me no go use am, you no go use am, nobody go wan use am".

But Marriage no be force na?

And Divorce no be sin.

MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY

The earlier our youth realize this, the more we can keep ourselves from more trouble.

I want to marry
I want to marry
Keep the rules of marriage na trouble

Sad

Even though the man in question is a beast but honestly why will a woman pass the night in her shop with an old male friend ?

Well
Thank
God
She
Didn’t
Die, God has given her a second chance.

It's like the MEN don start to vex too.
LADIES have been the ones stabbing and maiming men. Now, the FUTURE has gone back to the MALES.
The MAN severed the major Blood Vessels of the forearm. However, the Forearm has got a good collateral circulation from the recurrent vessels.

The AMPUTATION occurred as a result of terribly infected wound. Mere seeing the wound from where I am tells me so much about it.
It was poorly handled.
In Fact, the infection expedited the AMPUTATION and not the injury per se.

IF that Arm wasn't amputated, she would have died from it before this April.

Gosh

Naija147:
Even though the man in question is a beast but honestly why will a woman pass the night in her shop with an old male friend ?

Well
Thank
God
She
Didn’t
Die, God has given her a second chance.

Not the kind of shop you think, The place is an open place where people gather to sell during the christmas festive period because of population, the plae is a very busy place

:Igbo people shaDomestic violence between couples ain't synonymous to a particular tribe. It's everywhere.

if I were ya brother, if I know for arrange boys make dem cut him prick make I know why.......you don't treat a hustling wife like that even if she cheats ,

This is pure wickedness, why not divorce her? If you feel shes cheating, just free her, no be by force nah, you cant try this with anyone around me and go free.

Oh my God. This makes me totally numb. Praying for more strength to the strong woman. The Lord is with you.

yimnansunny:



Not the kind of shop you think, The place is an open place where people gather to sell during the christmas festive period because of population, the plae is a very busy place

Ok, the man should be locked up for years

odudueffiom:
if I were ya brother, if I know for arrange boys make dem cut him prick make I know why.......you don't treat a hustling wife like that even if she cheats ,

Cut him prick do u, abi make dem Delete ham straight no time

women problem nor dey finish

And you still allow him to breathe fucking assasinate the modafucker

Very sad. The part of the story that got me was that, he was aiming for her chest. Meaning, his intent was to kill her. That guy had better be made to spend the rest of his life in jail

Some people just put themselves in problems, with those evidence of condoms and cheating yet you got married to him.

Secondly, you knew the kind of man you were married to and yet slept over with a long-time friend, instead of finding your way home. I wouldn't have to done what your ex-husband did, but you will be a suspect. so brother decides to sit with a married woman till midnight he doesn't have any other friend in Calabar.

The story get K leg.

I'm even scared to marry now.
I like the peaceful life I'm living. mehnn

I don't pity these kind of ladies, they will clearly see a gentleman that can't hurt a fly but will foolishly be following hard man because of 7 inches gbola, later creating problem for their selves, abeg make she face the consequence, cow wey no get tail....

Sad. But she saw the signs