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Please I'll like to have some views on this. If a guy claims to like you and you like him too but notice he doesnt reach out as you expect. One day you have a discussion and he says sometimes he can be lazy in reaching out. Is this a red flag or do I still try to remain friendly

Iyanuasiiri:
Please I'll like to have some views on this. If a guy claims to like you and you like him too but notice he doesnt reach out as you expect. One day you have a discussion and he says sometimes he can be lazy in reaching out. Is this a red flag or do I still try to remain friendly

Why are you guys like this ? Nigerian girls and ladies can be so frustrating. I never wanted to reply or quote you, but my mind just said I should help your life small.

You said the guy likes you and you also like him. If you also do like him as well, why can't you be the first to reach out ? Is there any rule or law that says he must be the first ? Keep asking mumu question until what you want passes you.

You girls know how to pretend a lot. Most of you on this forum are subsets of what the average Nigerian lady is.... Self centered, rude, myopic , dumb and too materialistic. You guys need to change that mentality please. The world is changing. It would leave you lots behind. Shalom !

There must be a reason for that outburst coming from your man due to past experiences. Is now left for you to know the root of the problem and tackle it judiously. Since you both have feelings for each other.

DeltaBachelor:
Why are you guys like this ? Nigerian girls and ladies can be so frustrating. I never wanted to reply or quote you, but my mind just said I should help your life small.

You said the guy likes you and you also like him. If you also do like him as well, why can't you be the first to reach out ? Is there any rule or law that says he must be the first ? Keep asking mumu question until what you want passes you.

You girls know how to pretend a lot. Most of you on this forum are subsets of what the average Nigerian lady is.... Self centered, rude, myopic , dumb and too materialistic. You guys need to change that mentality please. The world is changing. It would leave you lots behind. Shalom !

Easy na. No need for the insults.

Veenbanks:
There must be a reason for that outburst coming from your man due to past experiences. Is now left for you to know the root of the problem and tackle it judiously. Since you both have feelings for each other.

He isnt my man even tho I'll like him to be. Thing is this has been on for some months. He's always nice and responds anytime I reach out but it hasnt gone beyond that. I just think if a man really wants you, he will be intentional about it. Besides, it wont be proper to ask him out. Sometimes, i feel hes just being nice and wants me to figure out that I should move on but I'm getting attached emotionally.

I don't think my advice is needed any longer since you are already emotionally attached already @ Iyanuasiiri

Iyanuasiiri:
Easy na. No need for the insults.

Sorry if I am a bit too harsh. But I prefer blunt people , especially women. If you like him and want something more, just say it. Q.E.D