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Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 6:49am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Good morning house, I'm sorry for typing this on a Sunday morning. There's this lady that is always calling my boyfriend. He told me not to bother about her that she is not important. He doesn't answer her calls whenever he's with me but I got to know he always calls her back immediately he leaves. One day, we were in his house when her calls started coming in. He went with his phone to ease himself and I overheard him talking on the phone. I got hold of his phone and called the lady, I wanted to know the relationship between them and she insisted I ask him after I told her we are dating. After that call, the calls reduced for a while but there are now back to what it was. Whenever I complain, boify says I shouldn't bother about the people around him that his feelings for me Is what matters. I'm not comfortable with the calls, I feel hurt and tired of the situation. Am I paranoid? or are my reservations justified.? What do you suggest I do? |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by youngest85(m): 6:53am On Oct 21, 2018 |
I think you should leave the guy and come to Daddy |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by MJBOLT: 7:23am On Oct 21, 2018 |
he's not telling you the whole truth,which probably means he's cheating 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Pubichairs(m): 7:29am On Oct 21, 2018 |
you are just snitching miss, he's dating u...make him no get female friends? he might get tired of your shit ..if u complain much.. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 7:45am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Pubichairs:I'm not against him having female friends, I have male friends as well. Why can't he answer their calls when he's with me or why can't he tell me about them? I tell him stories about my male and female friends |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by DreamersVille24(m): 7:46am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl: Are you guys involved intimately? If not then that babe is his go to when he needs a woman's touch. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 7:46am On Oct 21, 2018 |
MJBOLT:he's not telling the whole truth |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 7:47am On Oct 21, 2018 |
DreamersVille24:we are.... so what's the excuse |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by DreamersVille24(m): 7:59am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl: Well you should start doing yours too and see his reaction. When a call comes in pretend you have to move away to talk, act fishy and all... if he doesn't budge then know it's time to walk away...if he protests then tell him that's how you've been feeling since and he must stop whatever he has with the other babe if he still wants you... They can't be just platonic friends and he can't talk to her I your presence. Just start withdrawing emotionally from that relationship to save yourself from heartache. Can I send you a pm? |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by IamD18: 8:08am On Oct 21, 2018 |
You have no right to monitor and question his calls. He is not your husband. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 8:16am On Oct 21, 2018 |
IamD18:lol... come up with something better |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by IamD18: 8:18am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl:I said he is not your husband, stop disturbing and monitoring his calls until he's fully yours. 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 8:19am On Oct 21, 2018 |
DreamersVille24:Thanks for your contribution.... I'll try this I can't access the email I used in registering |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 8:21am On Oct 21, 2018 |
IamD18:this isn't good enough but I've heard you |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 8:23am On Oct 21, 2018 |
IamD18:this your line is mostly used by men that cheats. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 21, 2018 |
You're very naive and the kind of girl who fights over men. On no account should you take your boyfriend's phone to call another lady simply because you think they're dating. That's something you talk to your boyfriend about. I've been in same situation, but guess what I did? I ignored. My principle is, once I catch you red handed; there's no us again...I walk away with my pride intact 'cause fighting would reduce you. 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by tosyne2much(m): 8:44am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Looks like a serial player.. It's very obvious 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:49am On Oct 21, 2018 |
IamD18:.. Thank you very much. This is why I said that most people are hypocrites. There's a thread where a lady is claiming she will not do laundry for her bf because she is not yet his wife and a lot of people supported her. Please stop going through his phone,he is not your husband yet. The best advice. Thanks once again bro. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 8:52am On Oct 21, 2018 |
GrabHisBalls:I can't fight over a man.. it was just a simple question and that was it. Thanks |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:58am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl:.. You have no right to go through his phone because he is not yet your husband same way he can't go through yours until you become his wife. Is this not what you girls wanted?.Both of you are free to Bleep around until you become husband and wife. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl:By calling that lady; you were unintentionally fighting for him. Imagine if she hadn't given the vague reply of asking him; it would've been something else. You just don't do that, and hey, he isn't your husband. I know you love him, and he said he loves you too, but how can you tell if he truly loves you? How can you even tell if he'll end up with you? Since you don't have answers to those questions, don't call other women asking questions. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Oreofepeters: 9:01am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Whenever she call him in your presence, tell him to answer the call... He doesn't seem to trust you. for now stop going through his phone to avoid story that touches the heart... |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 9:01am On Oct 21, 2018 |
GrabHisBalls:Noted... thanks |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 9:02am On Oct 21, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE:Generalization. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 9:03am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:that's when he says she is not important and he calls back to call her |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:08am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl:.. Yes since you ladies are now claiming to only show commitment when you become husband and wife,why can't guys do same? |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 9:21am On Oct 21, 2018 |
tosyne2much:It's been a while, how are you doing |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:32am On Oct 21, 2018 |
tosyne2much:.. Bros don't blame the guy. Since they are not married he owed her no obligation to be faithful. The same thing applies to the girl.let her do whatever she likes after all they are claiming no commitment until they are married. So what's wrong in a guy doing same?. Did you not see their comment on the other thread where the girl is claiming she won't do the guys laundry because they are not yet married? She should stop going through his phones until they are married. Chikina. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 21, 2018 |
youngest85:oponu ni e olorun ngbo. Didirin oshi. Daddy ko, step daddy ni. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:39am On Oct 21, 2018 |
The signs are always der. But pple never learn |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Oreofepeters: 9:40am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Countrygirl:For now you gotta stop the feeling of insecurity, trust me some things are better unseen.... Men hate being over jealous the more you try to find out the more his heart depart from you. Besides he's not yet your husband hence it doesn't worth the stress... I'm sure you couldn't sleep well at night for you to wake up so early on sunday morning to type this...... Church sef you won't go.. |
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Countrygirl(f): 9:46am On Oct 21, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:lol... I slept well... I couldn't go to church for other reasons..... thanks... I'll try to detach emotionally |
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