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There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Ilekokonit: 11:52pm On May 12, 2021
There is really no reason for men to get married anymore

What's the point in getting married to one of today's women who DO NOT believe in for better for worse ?? Instead, today's women worship money and material things and for them, it is for better for stay, for worse for depart .

Why would I want to commit MY LIFE to a woman whose main long term aim is to drain me financially.

Why would I want to pledge a life time of commitment to a woman who MOST LIKELY will not be there when the going gets tough especially financially.

If it is sex, then sex is the cheapest commodity on earth now with the waywardness of today's women.

Why will I want to marry and have children with a woman who will eventually steal those children from me by poisoning their minds against me just to spite me If I am really desperate for children, I don't really need to get married to have one or two.

Why will I want to mortgage my future peace of mind by marrying today's women (damaged goods) who practically are not fit for purpose as a wife ??

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by aktolly54(m): 11:55pm On May 12, 2021
Hmm....
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Iniobong34: 12:28am On May 13, 2021
I luv ur wrte up but there are gud wemen out thre jst pray for god to bless u with one simple.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by iammo(m): 5:16am On May 13, 2021
taking a cue from my family and environment , i think marriage to the right soul mate is good, the companionship is important especially when you grow older and need support, the fact that some marriages don't work out doesn't mean all marriages don't work out

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by tega2luv(m): 6:18am On May 13, 2021
Large percentage of women are bad I agree with you but OP the day u find a good one aswear to marry go hungry you, forget all these bullshit bout women am a testimony that there are good women out there some men are only blinded with the fact that bcux of one bad experience with a woman so therefore there are no good women same thing with the women they think all men are the same but trust me all men are not the same just bcux u met 15 bad ones outta 16 doesnt mean theres no good one try the 16th.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by MythAngel: 7:04am On May 13, 2021
What i like most in your weite up is the word DAMAGED GOOD No real words exist to explain the decay other than this.

Majority are just damaged. No motherly quality remains in them.. just chaft of makeup and fancy hair... The rest is unhealthy attitude, greed , promiscuity, domineering habits, moved by trends other than reality, seeking what is not lost.... Just like Eve the first woman wondered about to see the forbidden fruit the same with ladies of today seeking to experience forbidden things with the aim of dragging men... And the world we left after is a troubled one.

iammo:
taking a cue from my family and environment , i think marriage to the right soul mate is good, the companionship is important especially when you grow older and need support, the fact that some marriages don't work out doesn't mean all marriages don't work out
Ilekokonit:
There is really no reason for men to get married anymore

What's the point in getting married to one of today's women who DO NOT believe in for better for worse ?? Instead, today's women worship money and material things and for them, it is for better for stay, for worse for depart .

Why would I want to commit MY LIFE to a woman whose main long term aim is to drain me financially.

Why would I want to pledge a life time of commitment to a woman who MOST LIKELY will not be there when the going gets tough especially financially.

If it is sex, then sex is the cheapest commodity on earth now with the waywardness of today's women.

Why will I want to marry and have children with a woman who will eventually steal those children from me by poisoning their minds against me just to spite me If I am really desperate for children, I don't really need to get married to have one or two.

Why will I want to mortgage my future peace of mind by marrying today's women (damaged goods) who practically are not fit for purpose as a wife ??

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Mzdivacious(f): 8:00am On May 13, 2021
Who hurt you?
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by dederocs(m): 8:09am On May 13, 2021
Small small yahoo boys and business men don use their pussy run marathon, so called good men dey marry beat pussy grin

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Abyounghammed(m): 8:32am On May 13, 2021
Iniobong34:
I luv ur wrte up but there are gud wemen out thre jst pray for god to bless u with one simple.
see this mumu guy self, shey op tell u he dey swear before, better get sense fasting don finish o

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Iniobong34: 9:02am On May 13, 2021
Abyounghammed:
see this mumu guy self, shey op tell u he dey swear before, better get sense fasting don finish o
now i see y i should call u mr sensitive
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by AngelicDamsel(f): 9:15am On May 13, 2021
Only badly damaged men condemn marriage.
So many marriages are doing well and you are here complaining about women.

Whether you marry or not, the world doesn't give a hoot. It's your life, your choice.

You want kids outside marriage in this age we are in. I pity your kids in advance.

emmaodet:


Sister don't pity him. Alot of women are raising kids outside marriage - a lot of single nigerian mothers in UK,US etc, working class women in nigeria staying alone, landladies that have vowed not to marry again raising kids, the number is huge and heaven did not fall.
We shouldn't sweat when some men don't want marriage anymore.
There are lot of rich ladies raising kids alone - sport women, musicians, actresses are mostly singles.

There is always a huge difference between a child raised by both parents and a child raised by a single parent. You can take that to the bank.

Simply because it is becoming popular does not make deliberate single parenting right. It does something to the child that only the child knows.

Just because one can cover the financial cost of raising a child does not mean one can fit in the place meant for two. I weep for the trend of collapsing institution of marriage because the innocent children are deprived of balanced parenting.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Nobody: 10:07am On May 13, 2021
Ilekokonit:
There is really no reason for men to get married anymore

What's the point in getting married to one of today's women who DO NOT believe in for better for worse ?? Instead, today's women worship money and material things and for them, it is for better for stay, for worse for depart .

Why would I want to commit MY LIFE to a woman whose main long term aim is to drain me financially.

Why would I want to pledge a life time of commitment to a woman who MOST LIKELY will not be there when the going gets tough especially financially.

If it is sex, then sex is the cheapest commodity on earth now with the waywardness of today's women.

Why will I want to marry and have children with a woman who will eventually steal those children from me by poisoning their minds against me just to spite me If I am really desperate for children, I don't really need to get married to have one or two.

Why will I want to mortgage my future peace of mind by marrying today's women (damaged goods) who practically are not fit for purpose as a wife ??
I will give you my SISTER IN LAW.
IF Poverty is the case, she will uplift financially, but you must be smart & hardworking. She's based in the United States.
She's still very young.
Your tribe will definitely matter to her as well. She loves African Traditional settings.
She Loves smart ideas.
Financially she won't disturb you that I can assure, but you must be ready to demonstrate smartness, undiluted Love, & charisma
You know they love & Cherish smart Guys.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by OKOATA(m): 12:20pm On May 13, 2021
Good woman is hard to come by even though the bad eggs are more, but if you can speak to your subconscious mind, tell your subconscious mind the kind of woman you want, draw her in a book, her shape, her color, how tall, too loyal, how financially secured she is etc, Imagine her daily, imagine the kind of woman you wish and it will come to pass if thou believeth, if you marry a good woman your live will be at peace and in harmony.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 13, 2021
There's absolutely every reason to get married..

Finding a good submissive woman wouldn't be an issue if you're a good responsible man.
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by legallyminded: 12:41pm On May 13, 2021
dederocs:
Small small yahoo boys and business men don use their pussy run marathon, so called good men dey marry beat pussy grin

My chest! �
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Atolu01: 1:19pm On May 13, 2021
Then, don't. Empty complaining about damaged.
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Ugmama(m): 1:36pm On May 13, 2021
People just come to NL AND TYPE RUBBISH.

Let it be unto you as you thinketh.
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by younglleo: 1:45pm On May 13, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

I will give you my SISTER IN LAW.
IF Poverty is the case, she will uplift financially, but you must be smart & hardworking. She's based in the United States.
She's still very young.
Your tribe will definitely matter to her as well. She loves African Traditional settings.
She Loves smart ideas.
Financially she won't disturb you that I can assure, but you must be ready to demonstrate smartness, undiluted Love, & charisma
You know they love & Cherish smart Guys.
make i drop my digit?
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by PlaysNigeria: 2:05pm On May 13, 2021
WesternOligarch:
There's absolutely every reason to get married..

Finding a good submissive woman wouldn't be an issue if you're a good responsible man.
Keep in looking, you go discover mungo park.
Submissive woman kwa sad

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by 2rez: 2:38pm On May 13, 2021
Ilekokonit:
. There is really no reason for men to get married anymore.

What's the point in getting married to one of today's women who DO NOT believe in for better for worse ?? Instead, today's women worship money and material things

Why will I want to mortgage my future peace of mind by marrying today's women (damaged goods) who practically are not fit for purpose as a wife ??

@ the bolded.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by profilemessages: 5:23pm On May 13, 2021
All the women in my compound think that i am a mad man


one was calling me baboon this morning



so if you are a woman, will you marry baboon or mad man?


LATER THEY WILL FULL SHILOH WITH MENS PICTURES

VAGINA PEOPLE

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by jaszplus12(m): 5:35pm On May 13, 2021
WesternOligarch:
There's absolutely every reason to get married..

Finding a good submissive woman wouldn't be an issue if you're a good responsible man.
You're absolutely right!
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by virginboy1(m): 6:39pm On May 13, 2021
Because some of them don't have brideprice and wedding money.
More so marriage is more like a liability to some of these men. grin

Albeit, people wey dey marry for this naija current situation get mind ooo shocked
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by Nobody: 2:58am On May 14, 2021
younglleo:
make i drop my digit?
Not for you, rather 4d Emotionally Troubled OP.
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by emmaodet: 5:32am On May 14, 2021
Iniobong34:
I luv ur wrte up but there are gud wemen out thre jst pray for god to bless u with one simple.

But the odds/chances of meeting one is very slim so why take the risk

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by emmaodet: 5:35am On May 14, 2021
iammo:
taking a cue from my family and environment , i think marriage to the right soul mate is good, the companionship is important especially when you grow older and need support, the fact that some marriages don't work out doesn't mean all marriages don't work out

Let's forget about the old age first. What is even the assurance that someone will get old? we all are only hoping but it is not a guarantee.

the fact that some marriages don't work out doesn't mean all marriages don't work out - What is the essence of trying one if 5 out of 10 is not working well.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by emmaodet: 5:40am On May 14, 2021
tega2luv:
Large percentage of women are bad I agree with you but OP the day u find a good one aswear to marry go hungry you, forget all these bullshit bout women am a testimony that there are good women out there some men are only blinded with the fact that bcux of one bad experience with a woman so therefore there are no good women same thing with the women they think all men are the same but trust me all men are not the same[b] just bcux u met 15 bad ones outta 16 doesnt mean theres no good one try the 16th.
[/b]
At the bolded - Bro, if 15 out of 16 marriages are bad/not working, why do you think we should encourage such a bad scheme?
If i tell you to invest in a business where you have a chance of losing your money 15 times out of 16, will you do it?
If you are to travel Lagos to ibadan but your chances of being kidnapped, robbed or killed is 15 times out of 16 times you travel that road, will you embark on such perilous journey?
If it will take a man to get one good girl out of 16 girls, what does that tell you? it simply means if all men are to marry today, for every 16 women picked for marriage, 15 men won't have a good home - that is a DISASTER bro
Disaster.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by emmaodet: 5:44am On May 14, 2021
AngelicDamsel:
Only badly damaged men condemn marriage.
So many marriages are doing well and you are here complaining about women.

Whether you marry or not, the world doesn't give a hoot. It's your life, your choice.

You want kids outside marriage in this age we are in. I pity your kids in advance.

Sister don't pity him. Alot of women are raising kids outside marriage - a lot of single nigerian mothers in UK,US etc, working class women in nigeria staying alone, landladies that have vowed not to marry again raising kids, the number is huge and heaven did not fall.
We shouldn't sweat when some men don't want marriage anymore.
There are lot of rich ladies raising kids alone - sport women, musicians, actresses are mostly singles.

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Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by emmaodet: 5:46am On May 14, 2021
OKOATA:
Good woman is hard to come by even though the bad eggs are more, but if you can speak to your subconscious mind, tell your subconscious mind the kind of woman you want, draw her in a book, her shape, her color, how tall, too loyal, how financially secured she is etc, Imagine her daily, imagine the kind of woman you wish and it will come to pass if thou believeth, if you marry a good woman your live will be at peace and in harmony.

Lol
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by emmaodet: 5:47am On May 14, 2021
profilemessages:
All the women in my compound think that i am a mad man


one was calling me baboon this morning



so if you are a woman, will you marry baboon or mad man?


LATER THEY WILL FULL SHILOH WITH MENS PICTURES

VAGINA PEOPLE

Lol
Re: There Is Really No Reason For Men To Get Married Anymore ?? by younglleo: 6:03am On May 14, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

Not for you, rather 4d Emotionally Troubled OP.
u tink im emotionally ok?

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