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Hello, what’s your thoughts on dating a girl that is of same age as you?

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I'm dating a girl same age with me, it's not a good idea anyway , but I'm already deep in love with her.

Nothing is wrong with it, but your timeliness may not be the same, even worse when she is older than you, and it will cause friction. She may be willing to marry at 27, while the 27 years old guy is still battling with school, job search and finding himself as a man. You're cool and calm, but she is nervous, and calculating dumping you for someone else who is ready. It's all about compatibility in timeline.

pansophist:
Nothing is wrong with it, but your timeliness may not be the same, and it will cause friction. She may be willing to marry at 27, while the 27 years old guy is still battling with school, job search and finding himself as a man. You're cool and calm, but she is she nervous, and calculating dumping you for someone else who is ready. It's all about compatibility in timeline.

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kaykaybillion:
I'm dating a girl same age with me, it's not a good idea anyway , but I'm already deep in love with her.

Reasons?

pansophist:
Nothing is wrong with it, but your timeliness may not be the same, even worse when she is older than you, and it will cause friction. She may be willing to marry at 27, while the 27 years old guy is still battling with school, job search and finding himself as a man. You're cool and calm, but she is she nervous, and calculating dumping you for someone else who is ready. It's all about compatibility in timeline.

But at that age, the guy may be established to the extent of having a wife. If that’s the situation, it can work out, isn’t it?

SimpleGuy001:
But at that age, the guy may be established to the extent of having a wife. If that’s the situation, it can work out, isn’t it?

Yes, then it will work out, In so far he is financially and mentally ready. Same age range doesn't matter much.

pansophist:
Yes, then it will work out, In so far he is financially and mentally ready. Same age range doesn't matter much.

Thanks

SimpleGuy001:
Reasons?

My reason is ;.
Each time we have little misunderstanding she keeps shouting at me without respect, I feel maybe because we are same age and graduated same year.
I have corrected her several times to stop raising her voice on me but yet she keeps doing it.

Hope you get my point.
Any advice ?

kaykaybillion:
My reason is ;.
Each time we have little misunderstanding she keeps shouting at me without respect, I feel maybe because we are same age and graduated same year.
I have corrected her several times to stop raising her voice on me but yet she keeps doing it.

Hope you get my point.
Any advice ?

Oh ok. I get you now. As for the advice, I can’t give any because I’ve never been in a relationship.

SimpleGuy001:
Oh ok. I get you now. As for the advice, I can’t give any because I’ve never been in a relationship.

Ok

SimpleGuy001:
Hello, what’s your thoughts on dating a girl that is of same age as you?

There's nothing wrong with it