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Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.

Fornication is no longer a sin? I didn't get that memo.

I thought the ones that see nothing wrong would be the fake ones. Weird times we live in.

I never thought about it from the angle of wedding three people (mother, baby, and father) instead of two!

All these is as a result of moral depravation, even when there was much of Christianity in Nigeria it was a shame to get impregnated before marriage, it is not about church or Pastor, it is about what the ideology the corrupt society now offers us.

I don't care, as long as we both agreed

Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.

Go and open your own church madam. What marriage will the church do after the woman ia pregnant (indicating that they've been doing marrital things together)? If you want to be wedding close your legs till after marriage else you should be ready to do marriage blessings

ImaIma1:
How are these perks?

Please help ask the OP o? A mod pushed it frontpage like that

My own case is special,my father warned me to make sure my wife today get pregnant before shouting any wedding.after two month that my inlaw died.i don't have options.i did naming and wedding same day.because my wife gave birth a week before our wedding date.so the naming came in same day of our wedding.i think is a crime.let focus on family background not all this church or mosques.things. they all hide the truth from us.signed out.next

[quote author=lindareep post=101906142]I prefer to have my first child before marriage

Meanwhile, lemme also eye men for Hot stuffs

Check my signature if you're interested[/quote

You are indirectly telling us you prefer to be a single mother

The Word of GOD does not Change because of a Changing world.

Sexual act before Marriage is Pure Fornication.

GOD'S Standard of Marriage according to HIS Word is Man and Wife. Anything apart from this is Disobedience to GOD and His Word.[/quote]
Yet God asked Joseph to marry Mary

If you are pregnant, no need to go to church. Traditional wedding is okay

Some of the churches don't want brides to be pregnant before wedding, yet their pastors are sleeping with them. Hipocrites.

Couples should go to churches where pregnancy is accepted during wedding. Before church wedding, traditional marriage is done, court is done what else?

OP abeg try dey enumerate. My head dey pain me. The price of yam and G4 dey give me BP.

ImaIma1:
How are these perks?

Still scrolling to see the perks.

younglleo:
i dont knw y una dey avoid me like am stinking.
pls i need help to fix my main source of little income.(my phone)
money sent to me by my dad for the repair(12k), loan company don collect am!
pls someone shud help me out! Im using a java phone if not i would have applied for loan nd saved mysef dis stress
pls dont ignore my plea cus dis is critical
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firstbank, leonard

see this stupid thief after you don critize tribes finish you dey you dey beg money when ppl dey find money for food you dey reason fone..mumu

Go and and meet your pastors and family members and use thier fone to collect loan

oshi

Marriage is to be held in honor among all [that is, regarded as something of great value], and the marriage bed undefiled [by immorality or by any sexual sin]; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

Hebrews 13:4

Reex12:
see this stupid thief after you don critize tribes finish you dey you dey beg money when ppl dey find money for food you dey reason fone..mumu

Go and and meet your pastors and family members and use thier fone to collect loan

oshi

hmmm!
Bro i'm not here to argue wit u but b4 u drop any quote, reason nd do ur research.
dont drag me into any tribal stuff.
if u cant help, jst drink water nd mind ur business

allanphash7:
People still Dey marry?

wetin man go do

Soso990240:
How person go de waka for road with evidence that they had sex? Even before marriage

Lol! This remeinded me of one of my naive friends back in school. She told me she almost fainted when she saw one of her roommates with big belle after we came back from a break...she said she never believed the girl knew anything about man or sex. Lol! The way she talked about it made me laugh

God forbid fornication and clearly show those who partake in it what their end will be. Impregnating a woman you are planning to marry to test her fertility or for whatever reason is demeaning. A woman who places a value on herself won't condescend to casual sex for whatever reason(s). Registry and many culture won't forbid you, but if you have the plan of wearing that white robe on your wedding day with it's attendant honor and glory that follows, there is a sacrifice of waiting to pay for it. There is no time you place the cat before the horse and get the required result, and a man who sow on a piece of land without full authorization from the original owner will always be a thief and a trespasser. It is therefore not the church but God himself who forbid them, and any church minister who partake in the act of joining them on God's altar is on his own.

Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.

Remember, eternity is longer.

I no go dey pregnant b4 I marry, but in case it happens, I no go abort anything. bcox some fit later dey find children but e no go show. e get person wey I sabi, the person do plenty abortions even after her trad. she say she wan do white wedding b4 she born. now e don dey reach 6yrs wey she do the almighty white wedding still no baby. now she go dey miss those periods wey she dey pregnant and wish say e go happen again.

bukatyne:
If the Church would not wed a pregnant couple, how does the bride bear/face the shame alone?

Do the churches marry the husbands or do they call only the wife out?

Considering that the average Nigerian Church's stance is that sex and its consequences are actions men 'do' to women, your OP does not hold water.

Besides, the OP has no single perk of pregnancy before marriage or specifically, marrying with pregnancy.

If you want to get pregnant before marriage, please do and conduct your marriage where it is accepted.

End of story.

Would you give this same advice you're throwing to the public to your daughters?

Whatever happened to chastity.

ImaIma1:
How are these perks?

I don't think the poster understands the meaning of the word perk/s.

Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.

there are some families I know in this nigeria wey we all dey so wey be say they'll never accept a woman UNLESS SHE GETS PREGNANT

Infact that's the only condition that the bride Will be accepted and they'll get parental blessings

Because That's their culture and family pattern and the reason why the parents of the groom insists that the bride must get pregnant 1st before wedding is to prove she's fertile and not after marriage they'll be running from hospital to prayer house looking for children

I don't support such culture though but Yorubas Will say ASA ni idile kan,ewo ni Bomi Ni.translation-what is considered as culture, tradition and lifestyle in a particular family can be considered as abnormal, abhorrent and an abomination in another family so at the end of the day,it's for the bride to choose the type of family she wants to enter into in view of what she considers acceptable or abnormal.if you're from a family where they don't permit pregnancy before marriage no go friend person wey im mama go dey insist on pregnancy before marriage, follow the one where una belief system and lifestyle dey in tandem to reduce unnecessary conflict and family/in-law nonsense