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Pacesetter2021:
Which part of the Bible said so? Please man up.

Everything na bible. Abi? Pastor! I beg, shift!

Pacesetter2021:
A woman should not be compelled to bring 50% of rent, utilities, etc. If that's the case why did the man go and marry her only to hand her more responsibilities? The woman is the help and shld contribute as help not obligation. Like I said, MAN UP!

Okay,
Don't you think sharing responsibilities is also part of the help to be rendered. Yes, it is not an obligation but in advance world were women are given more preferences, it is never the same. If your assertions is right, then I would say, woman should accept that the men are more superior in every ramification instead of fighting for gender equality.

daylay7:
Okay,
Don't you think sharing responsibilities is also part of the help to be rendered. Yes, it is not an obligation but in advance world were women are given more preferences, it is never the same. If your assertions is right, then I would say, woman should accept that the men are more superior in every ramification instead of fighting for gender equality.

it's good you mentioned all you did because first of, I don't benchmark on advanced World but on God's word which also says that THE MAN in a woman's life, ie her husband is superior to her, not to victimize her but to protect her so gender equality can be referenced only for a woman and a man but not for a woman and HER MAN.

With reference to the subject matter, any well meaning, hard working woman will want to support financially but let it be on free will bases not as by force responsibility.

daylay7:
Everything na bible. Abi? Pastor! I beg, shift!

says the man that was constructed in a lab. Who formed man? Where did man originate?

Pacesetter2021:
says the man that was constructed in a lab. Who formed man? Where did man originate?

Alawada
Since you brought the issue of Bible up, How does the Bible described a wife? Or in your own understanding, how do you describe a help mate as regards marriage?
Oya! Let's educate ourselves.

Pacesetter2021:
it's good you mentioned all you did because first of, I don't benchmark on advanced World but on God's word which also says that THE MAN in a woman's life, ie her husband is superior to her, not to victimize her but to protect her so gender equality can be referenced only for a woman and a man but not for a woman and HER MAN.

With reference to the subject matter, any well meaning, hard working woman will want to support financially but let it be on free will bases not as by force responsibility.

I love your assertions. So, what you are saying is there is no gender equality in marriage. Once you are married, you are under the authority of your husband.

See, I feel women has the same right as the men in a marriage. They are both equal before God in deeds and responsibilities either to man or to God. They are both partners coming together to make a family and also in responsibilities.

I get your points. I understand quite well and I know where this conversation is going to but I feel our mentality about this has to change. I heard a story about a married woman who left major responsibilities on the shoulder of her husband. She doesnot contribute to the bills in any way and yet, she was working. Infact, her salary was quite higher than her husband. This woman built a house without her husband knowing from her money while they were living in a rented apartment. She only told her parents and not her husband. You can guess how the husband felt when he found out.

As for me, being a help mate is not by force. And ofcourse, any well meaning, hard working woman will want to support financially.