Social media is the buzz, yes we know that. Some so many women never cease to utilize social media to show the world they are living the good life courtesy of their husbands.

Most times, the aim is to pepper other ladies. Your husband bought you a new car, you post it on social media. He bought you the latest iPhone, you post it on social media. He bought you an expensive piece of jewellery, you post it on social media.

At this point, you begin to see yourself as a successful woman. You begin to feel so important to yourself and make other women whose husbands don’t have money as your less important and you begin to treat people the way you want.

The result of your actions could be this; most women may begin to feel that their husbands are not good enough. When this feeling begins to crawl, inside the mind and heart, it begins to make any woman not appreciate her husband’s effort.

Before you begin to feel your husband isn’t doing well, know this fact:

1. All hands are not equal
2. Everyone has their own timetable to blow
3. Not everyone’s money is clean

Let me elaborate on these facts

Your husband is financially stable. He earns like N100,000 every month. N100,000 is just an example. It could be any amount. His salary comes regularly and always on time. Even if he is self-employed and he does his own business, there is a constant inflow of money.

Someone else husband is earning N500,000 and above every month and you feel your husband is supposed to earn the same. Your husband employer and the other lady’s husband employer are different and the nature of the job is also different. So why should you be making comparisons?

Apart from those that came from a wealthy background, every other man out there you see today that is very successful and doing didn’t make it within a short time. There was a process and it took some years. So as long your husband is responsible, dedicated and focus, he will get to that destination.

Stop envying people because not everyone money is clean. You don’t know how this person husband is making his money.

Many internet fraudsters eg yahoo boys are spending lavishly on their girlfriend. Ritualists are taking good care of their family. Arm robbers and kidnapper are also doing the same. So why equate money to being responsible?

Even if any man’s money is clean, you don’t know the sacrifice he is paying and what the family is going through for it. So why belittle your own husband’s effort.

Here are the reasons to always appreciate and support your husband

1. You are 100% confident his money is clean. You have this peace of mind that the police, EFCC or other law enforcement agencies and security operatives will never come to your house any day because your husband in his life hasn’t get involved in any shady deal.

2. You so calm and relaxed that even if he travels for 6 months far away from home or abroad, no other lady will be pulling down his boxers. You have no worries that no other lady is sharing his manhood with you and no ashawo out there can boast of knowing him as a customer.

3. You are proud that he is the kind of father and husband your male kids should imitate because he provides for the family not just financially but emotionally and spiritually.

4. You are sure he doesn’t have bad friends, bad habits and he can’t be easily be influenced by his mates to do what will bring shame to his family and dishonour his wife.

5. People in the community or neighbourhood speak good of him and he is an exemplary figure to other husbands

6.Even at the slightest provocation, you are so sure he will never lift his hands to hit you.

7.He is the type that prefers spending time with his family than with friends outside drinking and clubbing.

Some so many married women can’t boast of any one of these 7 reasons.

Your husband has more of these, yet, you are still less appreciative because of the material things and fake happy married life other women display online and offline.

Dear married women, appreciate that man, support him. Always commend and reassure him that you are proud of him.

Do not be the reason your husband will go into crime. Do not the reason your husband will start looking at other women. Do not be a reason your husband will fall into depression and suffer mentally.


© 2021 Flirtyjane 2021

Number one is valid.

That one is a worldwide shame.

For the rest only few men in naija are free.

How many women care these days if their husband prick is service many holes as long he spend on them including dubai trip?

Secret truth, don't say you hear it from me. Any woman that doesn't care is playing her own secret match too.

Gossiplover:
Number one is valid.

That one is a worldwide shame.

For the rest only few men in naija are free.

How many women care these days if their husband prick is service many holes as long he spend on them including dubai trip?

Secret truth, don't say you hear it from me. Any woman that doesn't care is playing her own secret match too.

Na you know o.

The truth is many women are just competing with themselves. The worst part is that they can't make their own money.

It is their husband's money they are using to oppress other women.



Any admin to move this to fp

Appreciate your man "maka na Di di uko "

Flirtyjane:


Before you begin to feel your husband isn’t doing well, know this fact:


2[b]. You so calm and relaxed that even if he travels for 6 months far away from home or abroad, no other lady will be pulling down his boxers. You have no worries that no other lady is sharing his manhood with you and no ashawo out there can boast of knowing him as a customer.[/b]

© 2021 Flirtyjane 2021

Are you saying poor men don't sleep with other women?
A cheat will cheat in marriage no matter his financial status, leave your ideal world and come back to reality.

Vyolet:

Are you saying poor men don't sleep with other women?
A cheat will cheat in marriage no matter his financial status, leave your ideal world and come back to reality.

I have read what I posted up there again but I can't still see where it stated poor men don't cheat.


The essence of the post bis celebrate your husband and stop comparing him to other men who seemed to be doing better.

If a man is responsible in all ramification, he deserves to be appreciated even if his income is not as high as you wish.

I didn't know that this type of oil is on your head. I'll sure include your name on my list for consideration.

But this your name though.

Vision101:
I didn't know that this type of oil is on your head. I'll sure include your name on my list for consideration.

But this your name though.

That is username, not name. Seun want us to use username on nairaland,,,

@Flirtyjane


That is username, not name. Seun want us to use username on nairaland,,,

@me
I know but what is your real name? I know that you will be happy that I'm toasting you.

Vision101:
@Flirtyjane


That is username, not name. Seun want us to use username on nairaland,,,

@me
I know but what is your real name? I know that you will be happy that I'm toasting you.

We are not suppose to share personal details on Nairaland.

The mod like lalasticala, mynd44 and Dominique can ban person.

My username should give you a clue about my name

Flirtyjane

We are not suppose to share personal details on Nairaland.

The mod like lalasticala, mynd44 and Dominique can ban person.

My username should give you a clue about my name ;



@me
Ok I can make it out. You can pm me. I hope that you will not make shakara.