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Help A Brother-my Story by Gadiola2(op): 6:20pm On May 27, 2021
My fellow nairalanders, i have a serious problem that needs to be addressed.
I'm not good at talking to girls wether in Face-to-Face conversation or Online.
It has really affected my life, I can't approach a member opposite-sex unless it's a family friend or a church member,the worst of it all is that I can't keep a direct eye contact with them for up to 30secs, just a glance that's all.
Last year that I registered for jamb,when I went to the center,girls been full wella, I couldn't have the balls to talk to any of them I was just sitting facedown till the whole process was completed.
I have this inferiority complex whenever am around girls wether within my age group or older.....my online chats are the worst, i've been snubbed and sometimes blocked.
I flow with guys very well but whenever a girl comes around,....damn! I feel like the ground should just swallow me up.
I just got admitted into the University and I'm 20......I really need help.
Thanks
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Xscape1993(m): 6:22pm On May 27, 2021
Face your study first and after that you can approach them my dear.
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Ochason(m): 6:23pm On May 27, 2021
Don't worry my brother university life go open ur eyes by second semester.
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 27, 2021
You should be thinking about how to face your studies and after that you should think of how to make good money.

Keep women matter one side and face life first.

When the time comes for you to talk to ladies. nobody go teach you,na you go teach yourself.
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 7:09pm On May 27, 2021
Focus on your academics

Work on that weak spot - you can try reading useful books and taking action.

If you want to know how to be smooth with women just to get laid, have a serious self evaluation. Way I see it, building confidence should be your starting point not driving women crazy.

Gadiola2:
My fellow nairalanders, i have a serious problem that needs to be addressed.
I'm not good at talking to girls wether in Face-to-Face conversation or Online.
It has really affected my life, I can't approach a member opposite-sex unless it's a family friend or a church member,the worst of it all is that I can't keep a direct eye contact with them for up to 30secs, just a glance that's all.
Last year that I registered for jamb,when I went to the center,girls been full wella, I couldn't have the balls to talk to any of them I was just sitting facedown till the whole process was completed.
I have this inferiority complex whenever am around girls wether within my age group or older.....my online chats are the worst, i've been snubbed and sometimes blocked.
I flow with guys very well but whenever a girl comes around,....damn! I feel like the ground should just swallow me up.
I just got admitted into the University and I'm 20......I really need help.
Thanks
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by paulsoniv: 7:23pm On May 27, 2021
Brah I was in a similar situation
I'm in uni currently and I don't really socialise with the ladies
The few I have their contact are mostly through group assignments and some tutorials like that and then some because my friends drag me into talking to then

A simple trick is to face your studies, I'm a 4 pointer and the ladies are flinging themselves at me
If you're cute, intelligent and then you have a stack of cash and it's evident in your dress sense, then you can be off to be a prince charming

Best advice know your priorities and set them accordingly
Put your determination into it and you'll go right on with it
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Gadiola2(op): 11:30pm On May 27, 2021
paulsoniv:
Brah I was in a similar situation
I'm in uni currently and I don't really socialise with the ladies
The few I have their contact are mostly through group assignments and some tutorials like that and then some because my friends drag me into talking to then

A simple trick is to face your studies, I'm a 4 pointer and the ladies are flinging themselves at me
If you're cute, intelligent and then you have a stack of cash and it's evident in your dress sense, then you can be off to be a prince charming

Best advice know your priorities and set them accordingly
Put your determination into it and you'll go right on with it
Thanks a lot
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Gadiola2(op): 11:31pm On May 27, 2021
paulsoniv:
Brah I was in a similar situation
I'm in uni currently and I don't really socialise with the ladies
The few I have their contact are mostly through group assignments and some tutorials like that and then some because my friends drag me into talking to then

A simple trick is to face your studies, I'm a 4 pointer and the ladies are flinging themselves at me
If you're cute, intelligent and then you have a stack of cash and it's evident in your dress sense, then you can be off to be a prince charming

Best advice know your priorities and set them accordingly
Put your determination into it and you'll go right on with it
I appreciate
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 12:48am On May 28, 2021
My guy go smoke weed..... thank me later
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 12:52am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
My guy go smoke weed..... thank me later
Do you smoke weed?
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 12:58am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
Do you smoke weed?
yeah I do.....what's up?
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by frozen70(f): 1:50am On May 28, 2021
Gadiola2:
My fellow nairalanders, i have a serious problem that needs to be addressed.
I'm not good at talking to girls wether in Face-to-Face conversation or Online.
It has really affected my life, I can't approach a member opposite-sex unless it's a family friend or a church member,the worst of it all is that I can't keep a direct eye contact with them for up to 30secs, just a glance that's all.
Last year that I registered for jamb,when I went to the center,girls been full wella, I couldn't have the balls to talk to any of them I was just sitting facedown till the whole process was completed.
I have this inferiority complex whenever am around girls wether within my age group or older.....my online chats are the worst, i've been snubbed and sometimes blocked.
I flow with guys very well but whenever a girl comes around,....damn! I feel like the ground should just swallow me up.
I just got admitted into the University and I'm 20......I really need help.
Thanks
You must be ready to be accepted and be ready for a defeat

Women have their own game, you have to be bold to face them and have discussion with them, but for you to succeed, you have to be humble because she knows that you are after her pleasure island

So braze up and hot it with the hope of getting her or loosing her

Another idea is just be calm they will also come around you , enjoy that interaction as long as it last

Don't be in a hurry with them
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by yofed53386: 4:56am On May 28, 2021
grin grin grin
Lilpen3758:
My guy go smoke weed..... thank me later
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 6:15am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
yeah I do.....what's up?
fine.....
Lol.....
I am surprised
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Clinghton: 7:18am On May 28, 2021
Develop your courage maybe tutorials on YouTube would do, but don't invest it to wooing ladies just be social with them.
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 7:41am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
fine.....
Lol.....
I am surprised
why are you surprised that I smoke weed?
I don't look the part ni?
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 7:42am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
fine.....
Lol.....
I am surprised
do you smoke weed?
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 7:46am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
why are you surprised that I smoke weed?
I don't look the part ni?
No,you don't.
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 8:01am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
do you smoke weed?
No I don't. I only ate it once and the experience was really terrifying. I won't try it again
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 8:08am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
No,you don't.
lolzz you are funny grin
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 8:09am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
No I don't. I only ate it once and the experience was really terrifying. I won't try it again
I was eating it before, eating is more harmful abi dangerous but more effective Sha I will advise you to smoke it it's medicinal too
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 8:21am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
I was eating it before, eating is more harmful abi dangerous but more effective Sha I will advise you to smoke it it's medicinal too
it's medicinal? wow..... Na now I know
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 8:25am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
it's medicinal? wow..... Na now I know
yeah read about cannabis my friend
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 8:29am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
yeah read about cannabis my friend
hmm..... okay
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 8:34am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
hmm..... okay
grin grin E shock you
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 8:38am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
grin grin E shock you
lol. E shock me well well
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Lilpen3758: 8:43am On May 28, 2021
Doja2000:
lol. E shock me well well
no dey follow other people live this life dey way dey wan live am ...... research well first before you choose wetin you want
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 8:47am On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
no dey follow other people live this life dey way dey wan live am ...... research well first before you choose wetin you want
na true talk. Thanks bro
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Nobody: 1:12pm On May 28, 2021
Bros.. Smoke Arizona.. You go get mind.



I sell and I buy any breed of dogs swiftly at a very reasonable price. I also offer Boarding and pet care services. Checkout my siggy for contact information
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Gadiola2(op): 9:13pm On May 28, 2021
Frenzy01:
Bros.. Smoke Arizona.. You go get mind.



I sell and I buy any breed of dogs swiftly at a very reasonable price. I also offer Boarding and pet care services. Checkout my siggy for contact information
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by Gadiola2(op): 9:15pm On May 28, 2021
Lilpen3758:
My guy go smoke weed..... thank me later
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help A Brother-my Story by OGWILLS123: 9:20pm On May 28, 2021
Ok
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