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I am in my mid twenties tho still in schl i have chose to settle early which is becoming a big burden as i have a child and out of job due to covid, am pushing though but honestly its not getting any easier.

Early marriage for me is a big no.
Mid to late thirties is OK.
Early marriage, the risk of marrying a baby is high, the risk of marrying a girl that has her heart set on enjoying life is high.
Just be careful.

Hanty, mid-twenties is not early marriage.

Early marriage could be argued to begin from 18 to 22.


I hope with these few points of mine...

ParpahSeventy:
Early marriage for me is a big no.
Mid to late thirties is OK.
Early marriage, the risk of marrying a baby is high, the risk of marrying a girl that has her heart set on enjoying life is high.
Just be careful.

true sir! i am blessed with someone that understanding because with our current situation she should have fled but she still remains with faith

chatinent:
Hanty, mid-twenties is not early marriage.

Early marriage could be argued to begin from 18 to 22.


I hope with these few points of mine...

am a guy my wife is 23

HOLRANGE:
am a guy my wife is 23

That's beautiful, bro.

Why put the cart before the horse.

Mid 20s is too early for a guy to get married especially for one who hasn't completed his education or gotten a stable source of income.

You have to triple your hustle because times are hard. Also encourage your woman to get a job to assist you before you grow grey overnight.

Most people just want to rush into marriage without first calculating the cost. Marriage requires serious planning and preparedness financially and psychologically.

chatinent:
That's beautiful, bro.

it was beautiful bfre covid

CharisEleos:
Why put the cart before the horse

i believe it's better than fornication and before then i was fending for about 5 pple.

HOLRANGE:
it was beautiful bfre covid

Wanna share?

chatinent:
Wanna share?

just financial mess! i earn a stable income from a company together with my side hustle which was in a school my wife took in by march few days bfre covid. before which i made some investment on my side hustle covid came school closed company closed. till today am still struggling

HOLRANGE:
true sir! i am blessed with someone that understanding because with our current situation she should have fled but she still remains with faith

Ball is in your court.
Play well ok

HOLRANGE:
just financial mess! i earn a stable income from a company together with my side hustle which was in a school my wife took in by march few days bfre covid. before which i made some investment on my side hustle covid came school closed company closed. till today am still struggling

Sorry bro.

Things will be fine, bro.

HOLRANGE:
i believe it's better than fornication .

You have a point though but I still believe some sort of self discipline could have helped prevented it. like still holding on a bit.

I for one have decided to wait until Im very ready especially financially before tying the knot and it has to be a man who's made and is established with a number of landed properties because I can't marry a struggling man as a struggler and I don't care how anyone sees it. I wouldn't want to bring a child into the world to suffer.

I used to belong to the school of thought that believe a woman should struggle with a man. Not anymore. Ive learnt from other peoples experience.

HOLRANGE:
just financial mess! i earn a stable income from a company together with my side hustle which was in a school my wife took in by march few days bfre covid. before which i made some investment on my side hustle covid came school closed company closed. till today am still struggling

Schools have reopened since now. Why not source for another school?

..

CharisEleos:
You have a point though but I still believe some sort of self discipline could have helped prevented it. like still holding on a bit.

I for one have decided to wait until Im very ready especially financially before tying the knot and it has to be a man who's made and is established with a number of landed properties because I can't marry a struggling man as a struggler and I don't care how anyone sees it. I wouldn't want to bring a child into the world to suffer.

I used to belong to the school of thought that believe a woman should struggle with a man. Not anymore. Ive learnt from other peoples experience.

Who will marry your struggling brothers

CharisEleos:
Schools have reopened since now. Why not source for another school?

school has opened but bussines is not booming yet! Going to another school means starting over again

Let me read through the comments
maybe I will give Damilola or Omowunmi pregnant next month..
That's if Ppl support early marriage more.

Ehinjuola:
Let me read through the comments

maybe I will give Damilola or Omowunmi pregnant next month..

That's if Ppl support early marriage more.

It ur choice not pple's opinion! and diapers price lol