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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Nobody: 7:52am On Jun 13, 2021
So he should be a 10 seconds man and not bother himself? Are u a 10 seconds man? YOU ARE WICKED!!
AmancalledGod:
Alaye no go kill yourself trying to satisfy a Virgina gender, those creatures are mostly unsatisfied, especially when they are more experienced and wired

I come in peace
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Starz825(m): 7:53am On Jun 13, 2021
oluswaggz:
Omo I feel your pain. Mesef don tire, irony is that when I use a condom I can last one hour straight up. But let me just remove the condom under 1 minute I don drop.

Condom was helping me till I got married, I didn’t really feel it but now my wife does not like condom. I need help too
Guy... always count your shots when you hitting the spot...sex na art....
If you doing doggy or any kind of style...count your shots (in your mind)...12345678910....it helps you take your mind off the excitement while you also maintain your erection...then change style regularly...like after 15 shots on Doggy grab her lips and boobs kiss and massage respectively...then move to another style then give and count another 15 shots on that spot ..then repeat the process...sex na art...sex na skill....sex na mind game.

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by hybraheeem002(m): 7:58am On Jun 13, 2021
Change positions. Let her ride you like a horse. It should be a mutual benefit
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by hybraheeem002(m): 7:59am On Jun 13, 2021
You're a don
Starz825:

Guy... always count your shots when you hitting the spot...sex na art....
If you doing doggy or any kind of style...count your shots (in your mind)...12345678910....it helps you take your mind off the excitement while you also maintain your erection...then change style regularly...like after 15 shots on Doggy grab her lips and boobs kiss and massage respectively...then move to another style then give and count another 15 shots on that spot ..then repeat the process...sex na art
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by friendl: 8:00am On Jun 13, 2021
Constant exercise ,drink only water ,eat healthy ,take good herbal ,... don't do more than yourself
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by hairyman(m): 8:05am On Jun 13, 2021
Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await responses from meaningful NLers.

The easiest solution to this is using a desensitizing spray. I will suggest Procomil.
Do not use a lot of it or you will lose all sensitivity on your blokos

Spray on only a little (over time you will find out what's best for you) on your glans blokos only: the cap of your blokos.

Make sure to clean it off before penetration or it will desensitize your partner too. Ergo spray about 5 mins before the main event.

This will solve your PE immediately . However it has been postulated that there are methods that give permanent results, i don't know how effective they are.

Overtime you will stop being too excited about knacking and gain more control.

One more thing, are you an AK47 or a shotgun? That is, do you chase it down like someone is coming after you or do you take your time?
Be the shotgun, with time you will gain better control. It is certainly better than Ak47 with your bullets running out in 10secs
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by firo08(m): 8:06am On Jun 13, 2021
Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await responses from meaningful NLers.
Sometimes you may not be the fault. Her position could be another problem and if she is not coming along with you during the process it result to quick ejaculation.. work on your self to see if the fault is from you...
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by MrHandsome2013: 8:07am On Jun 13, 2021
Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await responses from meaningful NLers.
.
This how I cured my own.
Before love making.
Do so caressing then before penetration of mr dickson.
Lie flat on the bed and let her be on top of you and rock you like 1mins.
After one mins then rock her,
She will be the one begging to stop

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by phenylalanine(m): 8:11am On Jun 13, 2021
Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await responses from meaningful NLers.
Avoid sex until you are married.
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by RingRoadMafia: 8:13am On Jun 13, 2021
Carlyboi:



Do you mean this guy is a fraudster too?and if yes what are your reasons?i would honestly like to know!

I don't understand you people on this nairaland sometimes.

You made a false assessment of who I am and I answered you by asking a question. Now, rather than answering my question, you're asking me another question. How does that even add up
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Phillip2see: 8:16am On Jun 13, 2021
In your late 20ties an you have started doing financy thing.
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Goldbw122(m): 8:18am On Jun 13, 2021
You just need to give a huge and long time for a break in sex yeah eat well and build your energy... And you will be better at round 2. Not the round one.. that is how it is..
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by samonak(m): 8:19am On Jun 13, 2021
Emily22:
@op, go to the nearest pharmacy, buy VEGA 100. Use a tablet 30-45 minutes before sex.....

You will bang her for 30 minutes plus.......after ejaculation, max 5 minute....you are up again for the second round which can last up to 1hour plus .....

It's four tablets in a pack.....

At least one tablet a week....Note, a tablet can last 72 hours in your body....

After you are done with the four tablets, stop using it, you would have gained your confidence by then..

After that, you will enjoy a good sex life......


And one more thing.....


Soapy once in a while to reduce the urge....

A major side effect of using Vega is head ache.
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Samchi4christ(m): 8:21am On Jun 13, 2021
Norisha Wholemeal Cereal to the rescue. Google that!
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by barcaboi(m): 8:27am On Jun 13, 2021
Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await responses from meaningful NLers.

Probably the first round; which is usually shorter. Have a go again after few minutes and complete the job. Also Rest and drink lots of water and exercise well; it actually helps more than herbs
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Teespice(f): 8:27am On Jun 13, 2021
Cococandy,

Does this topic bring back memories of that thread?
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by James97(m): 8:30am On Jun 13, 2021
Please visit @Fekomi on I.G. he has a tested solutions to your problems.. Thanks
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by cpu2006(m): 8:34am On Jun 13, 2021
My little advise
1. Stop eating sugar
2. Anytime you want to have sex with your girl friend, Ask her to stay ontop while you are under. Play the game and enjoying yourself.
This is for every one that is experiencing premature ejaculation.
Get back to me
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Engr1(m): 8:35am On Jun 13, 2021
TheUndercover:
Hmm, that's too bad. I think what you're experiencing is premature ejaculation (PE) not ED.

What's your diet? Hope you're not the type that feeds on junk foods and sodas? Do you engage in working out once in a while? Can you go more than a round? If your diet is a healthy one and you also engage in working out, you might need to visit a doctor or take some herbal products.

What about forèplay or do you just jump into action? You might need to control how excited you are about the act else it will hasten up your ejaculation process. You also need to control your breathing too. Utilize the 'stop-start' technique. I don't recommend the use of 'drugs' because of addiction and damaging side effects.

And lastly, did you meet her a virgin? If she's an 'experienced' lady, you might never be able to satisfy her. If this is the case, the best thing to do is to free her, or else cheating is inevitable. If you've 'worked' on yourself and still no changes, do not go 'extreme lengths' just to satisfy a woman. Most women are poor in bed also.
Gbam..........chop noggle cool cool cool

Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by wandium: 8:36am On Jun 13, 2021
Op, I'd advice you learn to control your mind first. Sex might to alot people be a physical act but the mind is what really control the most part of the act to achieve the desired enjoyment.
Most ladies don't cum fast because while at the at, they get distracted, their mind goes out in a lot of direction especially when the guy isn't making some active play while penetrating. Same thing is applicable to guys that mostly have PE. Some guys just want to feel how tight the p***y is and how wet, making her scream or have some twitches that they become over excited and the next effect is an explosion�.
There was an article I read in controlling my mind long ago and truthfully it help me drastically in my sex life. I was never a 1min man but back in my early 20s I could still ginger to btw 5&7min tops. But after that article I could be on the act for btw 30mins - 1hour. Yes you read it right. At a time I started having a feeling no woman can satisfy me but that one Na another story entire.

Now the article was about a soldier that could not do physical training like his colleagues most especially push-ups and that makes his superiors pick on him. After a while he decided to put his mind in the act and control his body to be able to do more. He started with 20 pushups and gradually continued training his mind till he could do 100push ups at a goal. To cut all this long story short, the article related this kind of situation to sex. You need to control the sensation your penis get from thrusting and focus more on making the lady enjoy the act. The moment you can hold back your cum 2 to 3 time while on the act, you will make her cum multiple time before you come. She will definitely beg you to stop cause she's tired.
I might not have been able to explain this process in details but try controlling your cum without necessarily stopping the thrusting, you can reduce the speed but if you stop and you want to continue, you will continue at the verge of cuming. It's practically like holding your wee till you get to a restroom.
Continuous practice will make you better at it.
My own 2kobo

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by jacoik(m): 8:37am On Jun 13, 2021
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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by jacoik(m): 8:38am On Jun 13, 2021
fuckingAyaya:
correct him without insult
don't mind the idiot. I too know

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Prinz29(m): 8:38am On Jun 13, 2021
It’s premature ejaculation buddy!

Do a bit more workout and have an absolute control of your mind during sex.

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Hotguy27: 8:40am On Jun 13, 2021
oluswaggz:
Omo I feel your pain. Mesef don tire, irony is that when I use a condom I can last one hour straight up. But let me just remove the condom under 1 minute I don drop.

Condom was helping me till I got married, I didn’t really feel it but now my wife does not like condom. I need help too

Hahahahaha... I won die oo for laughter.
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Mogadishuu: 8:41am On Jun 13, 2021
lereinter:
Drink black Bullet before sex
Or
Take Guinness
grin
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by ChiefSosa(m): 8:51am On Jun 13, 2021
michaelpop50:


See your made up story. You this son of a low life. You done see me before? You go read my old comments and used it to create your stories. Na God just dey save you say i nor know you oh. You for nor wake up today.
Gbenu e soun grin grin. You requested for my name(s) yesterday to give Esun 'cause you want to do "jazz", and I gave you my full name. Still yet, you've not done anything o. Kwasia. I'm even at Delta state at the moment. I'll soon visit that community that you were banished from! You said you'll feed my family and I, when are you going to feed us?? We are waiting o. W'a gimi pa pa grin.

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by ChiefSosa(m): 8:55am On Jun 13, 2021
Biggie2000:

Why was he banished from his village?
He was caught stealing a baby goat and some crayfish.

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Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by gahdfrey(m): 8:55am On Jun 13, 2021
Then you do another round,should last longer than the first
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Biggie2000(m): 8:59am On Jun 13, 2021
ChiefSosa:

He was caught stealing a baby goat and some crayfish.

Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Biggie2000(m): 9:01am On Jun 13, 2021
Lakside1955:
Dey do press up before sex
Then his joints will be too weak during sex sef
Re: I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Its Really Affecting My Relationship. by Skyonebaba: 9:01am On Jun 13, 2021
oluswaggz:
Omo I feel your pain. Mesef don tire, irony is that when I use a condom I can last one hour straight up. But let me just remove the condom under 1 minute I don drop.

Condom was helping me till I got married, I didn’t really feel it but now my wife does not like condom. I need help too


You and I are on the same page oo but am not married yet ... I can go hours with condom

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