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Met this Epitome of beauty from a dating site, along the line we exchanged contacts and ended up on watsapp....

As time goes on we started getting fond of each other, got more familiar and discussed alot about ourselves,,,...

We became close friends, i preached love, she accepted, i was happy.... we talked about settling down together,we were both interested...

Asked about her family background, that was when i got the shock of my life...

Her Dad happens to be my Elder sister's husband brother..that is to say my brother's inlaw is her Uncle...i became worried and confused....

Meaning She is also my inlaw.. ...

Though we have not met one on one but i have been thinking if it is possible for the both of us to continue dating which might lead to marriage

Elders in the house ur candid advices are welcomed...... Before it's too late


Oga Lalasticlala ur opinion is needed....

" Continue to Knack her and Dump her joor", what you wanted to hear...Arindindin OP

Don't goan plead to your God to forgive you for the day-to-day lambering you both av been involving in.

To slap you dey hungry me self

Just forget about her.... Blood is thicker than water.

Cerebellum:
" Continue to Knack her and Dump her joor", what you wanted to hear...Arindindin OP

Don't goan plead to your God to forgive you for the day-to-day clambering you both av been involving in.

To slap you dey hungry me self

Nawa ooooo.... Where u see knacking for my post? ... Person wey i never even meet...

InEvitable0000:
Just forget about her.... Blood is thicker than water.

Are we related by blood? How please?.....

You can marry her

falcon01:
You can marry her

Bro to be honest?......

Because as it is now I don't even know how to start telling my people that i have found someone i love due to what i have been thinking.....

Maybe its a Taboo. .... Just confused

I don't see any confusion here, you can marry her nal

DSC7:
Are we related by blood? How please?.....

As long as you are being related whether as in-laws or far cousins, you are now being connected by blood (you won't understand this).

I had experienced this in the family of my very close friend.
The boy and girl lived at different states without knowing and they finally came together without knowing their family background and the result was pregnancy.

When they came home for marriage, they discovered they were related and they were so much in love with each other but it was a taboo in my friend's village which must claim life but luckily it was the life of the baby that was claimed.

Up till now, both partners still loved each other but there is anything they could do so they just have to forgo and forget.


I hope you understand my explanation...

The right people to ask now, before you proceed, are your parents and hers.

You can marry. Nothing mega

InEvitable0000:
As long as you are being related whether as in-laws or far cousins, you are now being connected by blood (you won't understand this).

I had experienced this in the family of my very close friend.
The boy and girl lived at different states without knowing and they finally came together without knowing their family background and the result was pregnancy.

When they came home for marriage, they discovered they were related and they were so much in love with each other but it was a taboo in my friend's village which must claim life but luckily it was the life of the baby that was claimed.

Up till now, both partners still loved each other but there is anything they could do so they just have to forgo and forget.


I hope you understand my explanation...

Hmmmm..... This one loud oooo....

Infact am speechless

Yxwqq:
The right people to ask now, before you proceed, are your parents and hers.

Well her father said the issue should remain pending for now....

One of the consequences of not growing in the villa...

DSC7:
Bro to be honest?......

Because as it is now I don't even know how to start telling my people that i have found someone i love due to what i have been thinking.....

Maybe its a Taboo. .... Just confused

you and her are not related in any way

Seun why are your moderators behaving like this nah? ....

Why ban someone for 10yrs when it's not a newly registered acct? ... It's very unfair sir,, please do something about it,,, thanks

So siblings from one family who married siblings from another family is taboo? I see nothing wrong.

Druss:
So siblings from one family who married siblings from another family is taboo? I see nothing wrong.

Infact I don't even know which to follow...

Some are in support while some are against