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Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

I didn't know antibiotics was a pregnancy prevention drug we learn everyday

Please keep the child.
You can do the traditional and registry quietly and later a church wedding
Not all marriages start with a big flash.
Sometimes big marriages also break up.
The most important thing it's that the man is standing to you.
Why kill your child because he has a set back.
Tribulations last but a while but joy comes at the end.

Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing

congratulations on your pregnancy
Please keep the baby
I wish I cld keep u with me and adopt the child after..
Am praying for u and ur man, GOD will give u a miracle this mth, pls keep your little one

An idle man is indeed the devil's workshop.

A life is counting on you to live.
Also, have it in mind that this might be your only chance to become a mother.

It sounds like you're simply trying to avoid responsibility. At 2-months, you and your boyfriend/baby daddy still have time to get yourselves together - get better jobs and improve your savings.

Romanoff:
An idle man is indeed the devil's workshop.

It's your birthday today.

Happy birthday to you dear.

Ishilove:
Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing

Unproductive people have sex recklessly.

Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

I'm not anti abortion but since u and the father love each other and you are both mature enough to marry and have kids even though money is tight right now, I believe you should keep the baby and it is a bonus the father want you to keep it, let the baby be a motivation to both of you.

Don’t bring a child into the world if you don’t have a means of taking care of that child.
Don’t listen to anybody that will tell you otherwise.

mariahAngel:
It's your birthday today.

Happy birthday to you dear.

Thanks a lot.

I can adopt the baby

Tell your parents,keep the child.your parents and his can help you out with.he shud go and collect list from your parent too and try nd pay something from it.seems he loves you.dont abort ok.tell una parents it will make burden easier

FatherCHRISTMAS:
I didn't know antibiotics was a pregnancy prevention drug we learn everyday

antibiotics interfere with birth control. And some of them cause birth defects

So because you were using antibiotics the use of condoms during knacking is prohibited...

You and your boyfriend are stack illiterates

If you kill that child God go punish you . Truth as e dey sweet you , you no remember condom

what's the level of your education
that's my question

I have a problem with people who know how to fuck_ all styles, but once belle enter, they start to shake.

When you were fucking_ and bouncing on the dick, you think say cum na ordinary yoghurt?

God is wonderful sha

People who truly need it are not getting it.

I hope you don't fall into that situation one day

Oh my God!! What I have always wish I have the grace to do as a man. Pls. Keep the baby.

I abhor abortion but if the child will suffer and if keeping the pregnancy will be depressing to you, then abort it.

Last thing I want to hear is that a depressed woman hurts her baby or that the baby is suffering untold hardship. Lord knows I hate seeing poverty being recycled by this our stupid generation that has made stupid choices.

...and next time, close your legs or buy condoms goddamit.

Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

Your report is very strong and you have to take a decision that will make your future or Mar your future

I know that the economy is hard and carrying pregnancy with out a strong financial back up, would be double wahala

If you guys love yourself and you believe that tomorrow will be greater, you can keep the pregnancy so far he has given you his backing

But if you want to abort and end the relationship, then go ahead

If you want to abort and still keep the relationship, then you are the one doing yourself

Low key, I wish I can get a lady pregnant right now, that's the only way my people would know I'm serious about marriage.

OP you should listen to this.

Klass99:
A lady opened a thread about wanting to adopt and wanting to deal directly with someone, rather than go through the bottleneck of agencies etc

You can carry the foetus to full term, give birth and let her adopt him or her, rather than abort and get compensated in the process as well.

You and your boyfriend clearly sound like people who are not in the right frame of mind to be having a baby.

This mistake young girls keep making on and on...

Romanoff:
An idle man is indeed the devil's workshop.

An idle mind sis. Don't bring your feminist agenda and mysogynistic thinking into this. They both had sex. They both do not have good jobs. If you want to start the blame game then do it fairly. Good day.