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Re: ... by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2021
Aaaaarghmed:
Tell your parents,keep the child.your parents and his can help you out with.he shud go and collect list from your parent too and try nd pay something from it.seems he loves you.dont abort ok.tell una parents it will make burden easier
Not a good idea. Anything that will give my parents trouble, I will never try that.
Re: ... by bukatyne(f): 10:20pm On Jun 19, 2021
Romanoff:
An idle man is indeed the devil's workshop.
A jobful man don't get girls preggers? cheesy grin
Re: ... by Omobola121(f): 10:33pm On Jun 19, 2021
Please your life is your life. Don't allow any low budget motivational speakers to tell you otherwise. If aborting the baby is the best decision now, please do it.

To take care of baby is not an easy task. You will be more frustrated when there is no means to cater for the child.

We all make mistakes. May the Creator forgives our imperfection!
Re: ... by Liposure: 10:35pm On Jun 19, 2021
mariahAngel:
Unproductive people have sex recklessly.
on the flip side, having sex is productive
Re: ... by FatherCHRISTMAS: 10:48pm On Jun 19, 2021
lascos912:
what's the level of your education
that's my question
If you read the post, she's inexperienced and doesn't know what she wants. She doesn't understand the meaning of baby mama too

Even the boyfriend too is inexperienced
Re: ... by mariahAngel(f):
Liposure:
on the flip side, having sex is productive
When it's done responsibly and intentionally, the result(s) is/are always welcome. At least they should be.

Not all these "it was a mistake" "we didn't mean for it to happen, it just happened" bullsh!t
Re: ... by Walkee: 11:46pm On Jun 19, 2021
mutter:
Please keep the child.
You can do the traditional and registry quietly and later a church wedding
Not all marriages start with a big flash.
Sometimes big marriages also break up.
The most important thing it's that the man is standing to you.
Why kill your child because he has a set back.
Tribulations last but a while but joy comes at the end.
na you wan feed them?
Re: ... by Mandela27: 11:50pm On Jun 19, 2021
Make up stories..
Re: ... by OBALOLA55(m): 2:20am On Jun 20, 2021
Romanoff:
An idle man is indeed the devil's workshop.
WHAT ARE YOU INSINUATING ROMANON
Re: ... by Vision101(m): 2:31am On Jun 20, 2021
Whatever is sweet may somehow turn bitter. We have been telling you guys that sex outside marriage has consequences but you will not listen.

See your life. Better don't tamper with the life of that innocent child. Face the result of your wild screaming.
Re: ... by NisforNicky: 3:12am On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.
I pray you die on the operation table

wicked girl
Re: ... by Lonelypacifist6: 4:09am On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.
Don't mind all those asking you to keep it! Can you cater for the child? Do you want a malnourished child(ren) all-in the name of religion? Even the child would be angry at you for bringing it to this world to suffer,those asking you to keep it won't be there in your times of need, Abort it and save a child from poverty, NONE OF THEM WOULD ASSIST YOU. A child does not bring money from heaven.
Re: ... by Uyi168: 4:13am On Jun 20, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
I didn't know antibiotics was a pregnancy prevention drug grin we learn everyday
..
She probably took ampiclox beecham.. grin

Re: ... by Pweetiedude(m): 7:01am On Jun 20, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
I didn't know antibiotics was a pregnancy prevention drug grin we learn everyday
She actually meant contraception pills
Re: ... by TOPCRUISE(m): 7:13am On Jun 20, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
I didn't know antibiotics was a pregnancy prevention drug grin we learn everyday
The unborn child is the bacteria they want to get rid off wink
Re: ... by phemmyfour: 7:24am On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.
Antibiotics no dey prevent preggy. You guys have not heard of condom before
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:27am On Jun 20, 2021
NisforNicky:
I pray you die on the operation table

wicked girl
May what you wish other people Happened to you?
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:29am On Jun 20, 2021
Omobola121:
Please your life is your life. Don't allow any low budget motivational speakers to tell you otherwise. If aborting the baby is the best decision now, please do it.

To take care of baby is not an easy task. You will be more frustrated when there is no means to cater for the child.

We all make mistakes. May the Creator forgives our imperfection!
Thank you
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:30am On Jun 20, 2021
TOPCRUISE:
The unborn child is the bacteria they want to get rid off wink
That was not what I meant.
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:35am On Jun 20, 2021
mariahAngel:
Unproductive people have sex recklessly.
You that you're so productive, I know you don't have sex. Thank you madam
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:36am On Jun 20, 2021
YOUNGELDER1:
Don’t bring a child into the world if you don’t have a means of taking care of that child.
Don’t listen to anybody that will tell you otherwise.
Thank you
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:37am On Jun 20, 2021
Klass99:
A lady opened a thread about wanting to adopt and wanting to deal directly with someone, rather than go through the bottleneck of agencies etc

You can carry the foetus to full term, give birth and let her adopt him or her, rather than abort and get compensated in the process as well.

You and your boyfriend clearly sound like people who are not in the right frame of mind to be having a baby.
Thank you, but I don't want to
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:39am On Jun 20, 2021
duduade:
So because you were using antibiotics the use of condoms during knacking is prohibited...

You and your boyfriend are stack illiterates
We're not illiterate though.
It's just wrong myth on drug usage
Re: ... by Sanguine(f): 8:17am On Jun 20, 2021
Ishilove:
Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing
Lol. I love you ma'am. You're always so lethal.
She said she was on antibiotic!

Hehehe. I've had so much laughter for this Sunday morning. Lol.
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:07am On Jun 20, 2021
Op doesn't want us to come and eat naming ceremony rice
Re: ... by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:27am On Jun 20, 2021
Please abort the child so you don't get frustrated. All of them advising you to have the baby won't help you with a single kobo to raise the child. Go and price milk and diapers right now.
Re: ... by mariahAngel(f): 9:46am On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
You that you're so productive, I know you don't have sex. Thank you madam
All I have to say to you is KEEP THAT BABY!
Take responsibility for the consequence of your action.
You won't regret you did.
Re: ... by saintneo(m): 10:22am On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.
Please don't. If you really love each other then get married and avoid elaborate celebration.

Abortion has consequences!
Re: ... by rex444(m): 11:45am On Jun 20, 2021
cococandy:
antibiotics interfere with birth control. And some of them cause birth defects
that's my fear if the baby will come out sound ooo
Re: ... by efficiencie(m): 11:56am On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.
You are such a fool ma. You got pregnant for a guy who is still struggling and after 2 months of knowing you are pregnant you now want to abort the child. Your mumu is worthy to be praised and adored. So you are just realizing that you have a life to focus on...you didnt realize this when you busy getting pregnant for a guy you know is struggling to make ends meet! Your brain did not tell you to say no to unprotected intercourse! Na why mumuism come abundant laidis? Sister, if you abort that child know you have blood on your hands...and you may lose your womb in the process. Either way you just leaped out of the frying pan and you are now headed for fire...have the child, support your struggling man, work towards becoming financially independent, take care of the child and pursue your dreams!
Re: ... by Meteng: 12:23pm On Jun 20, 2021
Ishilove:
Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing
She wan "fully enjoy" herself, and she no call us when she dey scream and moan o, dey display skills with enough sound track, na now she wan come involve us
Re: ... by Drella: 12:42pm On Jun 20, 2021
Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.
You didn't need advice when you wanted to knack raw.You weren't scared when when he was cumming.Now you saw the result of your actions and you became disorganized.

I feel anybody that wants to have s3x should be responsible is the worst happens(pregnancy and STDs)
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