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" I remember sitting somewhere and I stared at a married woman out of curiosity because I was curious over something and I wanted to be sure of my thought. I notice as I stare at her, she got so excited as she thought I find her beautiful or attractive. As I was leaving the place, she turn and look back at me and I saw that she was so excited".

The way you stare at women comes off creepy. Some women may like it but I would find you creepy and think you're a perv. Not every woman would be "excited" by a lustful male's gaze.

In case you're driving, park well and look yansh before you continue your journey. Casket is cheap now o.

For me
Winking, cutting eye, whistling is disrespectful. If you have nothing to offer, try this.
Staring unnecessarily, pervy. If you're pervy, try this.

Starting a conversation, introducing yourself and finding a common ground is mature.
If you want a meaningful engagement, try this.

Oluromantic:
In case you're driving, park well and look yansh before you continue your journey. Casket is cheap now o.

Yxwqq:
The way you stare at women comes off creepy. Some women may like it but I would find you creepy and think you're a perv. Not every woman would be "excited" by a lustful male's gaze.

I have never lusted after a woman, neighther will I even gaze at a person with sexual lust, only a pervert will do that.

I am a very curious introverted person and my mind is like an explorer. I like to understand things in a deeper and meaningful level as long as it is not the personal life of people. I don't stand and stare at people, no, I can't do that

What I do is!

☆ I can stare at a young lady if I see her speak her native language, it amazes me

★I can instantly check out a lady and wonder in my thought, if she is married as most ladies don't put on ring

★I do instantly check and scan a lady and wonder in my minde the type of person she is

★ I can instantly check and scan a lady and wonder in my thought, how old is she

★ I can instantly check out a lady and curiously wonder in my thought, if she is married

★ I can stare at a 10 years old child out of curiousity and wonder in my mind, what if she is my child

What prompt me to write and asked these questions was that I previously saw a thread on quora where a lady made a comment about giving out signal just to let someone know you like them

Since then I have been wondering if I gave out wrong signal to women with my curious but instant stares

Winneygirl:
For me
Winking, cutting eye, whistling is disrespectful. If you have nothing to offer, try this.
Staring unnecessarily, pervy. If you're pervy, try this.

Starting a conversation, introducing yourself and finding a common ground is mature.
If you want a meaningful engagement, try this.

I can't wink my eye to a woman, alhough cutting of eye is very popular during the 90's but not anymore

I don't stand or lustfully gaze at ladies, no, I can't do that

What prompt me to asked these questions on nairaland was that I previously saw a thread on quora where a lady made a comment about giving out signal just to let someone know you like her.

Bahamas95:
" I remember sitting somewhere and I stared at a married woman out of curiosity because I was curious over something and I wanted to be sure of my thought. I notice as I stare at her, she got so excited as she thought I find her beautiful or attractive. As I was leaving the place, she turn and look back at me and I saw that she was so excited".

Men consider possible outcomes of a planned action, then they act decisively.

Approach or retreat - your choice, but don't just stand and stare. Be a man!

HoneyBadgerr:
Men consider possible outcomes of a planned action, then they act decisively.

Approach or retreat - your choice, but don't just stand and stare. Be a man!

I am a smart young man. I dont stand and stare at a woman, I can only stare if I sat somewhere but not when I am walking.

I remember 13 years ago, I walked to a young lady, I told her I like her and I instantly gave her a kiss, she look peplex and shock but she didnt react because women love cute guys.

This tells you that I can approach any single woman if I want to