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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:13pm On Jul 04, 2021
Finally, as I have said before, I did not participate in the recent debate and I didn't pick any side. I was just a spectator. So no one should rope me into any side (like Abbà114 tried to do, but failed) or assume what my take is.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:23pm On Jul 04, 2021
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:25pm On Jul 04, 2021
grin cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 6:49pm On Jul 04, 2021
So apparently this mama back when I was In owerri wan use me catch cruise simply because I gave her attention.. Omo I blocked her for months now..since 6:30 pm mama dey on me o..her papa yansh..give me Bleep she wan form decent..community slam for that mata na wetin dey vex me sef

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 6:59pm On Jul 04, 2021
MJBOLT:
grin cheesy
u know d name of dis movie/series
Is like na u screenshot am

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 7:29pm On Jul 04, 2021
DieRich5:
u know d name of dis movie/series
Is like na u screenshot am

That's Fifty shades of grey. The movie with the most views by women in history. It's rumoured that women flooded into cinemas with dildos and vibrators during it's first release. A movie about a sexual sadist who makes a young girl into his sexual slave.

It's funny because it just shows that deep down women want to be dominated by men. They want men to be in control. When you treat them like the way you treat children, then love and respect you more. Scold them like you would your kid. Never tolerate disrespect. That's the only way to deal with them.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 7:33pm On Jul 04, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
If she can get over you quickly, you weren’t brutal enough with her.
Brutal truth!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 7:38pm On Jul 04, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
If she can get over you quickly, you weren’t brutal enough with her.

Emphasize what you mean by brutal.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 7:38pm On Jul 04, 2021
MetalJigsaw:
Brutal truth!

Please explain what he means by brutal

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 7:43pm On Jul 04, 2021
Infolenka:


That's Fifty shades of grey. The movie with the most views by women in history. It's rumoured that women flooded into cinemas with dildos and vibrators during it's first release. A movie about a sexual sadist who makes a young girl into his sexual slave.

It's funny because it just shows that deep down women want to be dominated by men. They want men to be in control. When you treat them like the way you treat children, then love and respect you more. Scold them like you would your kid. Never tolerate disrespect. That's the only way to deal with them.
ohhh I don watch am, I think na 3 type Dy na undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 04, 2021
Infolenka:


Emphasize what you mean by brutal.


You need to be less Emotionally invested in her staying cold hearted and let her invest more in the relationship than you so that you have the power to walk away without feeling any way once she no longer abides in your frame

It's her lose, these is only possible via abundance mindset getting multiple plates using game and focusing on your mission which gives you confidence as your accomplishments build it up so you don't tolerate bullshit and bad habits that comes with dealing with women

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 8:05pm On Jul 04, 2021
No offence, but I don't think it's possible for a normal guy to practice some of these TRP principles. Only a sociopath or psychopath can implement trp principles to the full.

If you are capable of genuine love or empathy, it limits the sorts of things you can do to women. If you value things like friendship then you can't really push aside a girl who you've been with for months just because she doesn't do what you want. But a sociopath can easily do this because he doesn't care about anyone but himself. He sees people as objects or toys. He has no empathy and the feelings of others don't matter to him.

A sociopath can ghost a girl that loves and respects him just because she acted slightly inappropriately, even if she apologizes multiple times. Can you guys do this? A sociopath doesn't have capacity for love so he can't even get emotionally invested in a woman. She's just in his life for as long as he needs her. If he is done, he shoves her aside like she's nothing.

Most normal humans post their family pictures and friends on their social media. These things matter them. They remember birthdays and get joy from spending time with other humans. Sociopaths don't feel these emotions. They don't care about other humans. A sociopath can naturally and easily implement TRP principles, but for a normal person, it would at best be a struggle and at worst an effort in futility.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by babyfaceafrica: 8:14pm On Jul 04, 2021
Infolenka:
No offence, but I don't think it's possible for a normal guy to practice some of these TRP principles. Only a sociopath or psychopath can implement trp principles to the full.

If you are capable of genuine love or empathy, it limits the sorts of things you can do to women. If you value things like friendship then you can't really push aside a girl who you've been with for months just because she doesn't do what you want. But a sociopath can easily do this because he doesn't care about anyone but himself. He sees people as objects or toys. He has no empathy and the feelings of others don't matter to him.

A sociopath can ghost a girl that loves and respects him just because she acted slightly inappropriately, even if she apologizes multiple times. Can you guys do this? A sociopath doesn't have capacity for love so he can't even get emotionally invested in a woman. She's just in his life for as long as he needs her. If he is done, he shoves her aside like she's nothing.
True.. Everybody has their temperament, so obviously not everyone can be brutal. Red pillers are neglecting this though, some people are naturally '' nice'' people.. So how can they be red pilled?.. Nice observation

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kingray10: 8:17pm On Jul 04, 2021
DieRich5:
ohhh I don watch am, I think na 3 type Dy na undecided
Actually it's from part one to 3.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 8:28pm On Jul 04, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



You need to be less Emotionally invested in her staying cold hearted and let her invest more in the relationship than you so that you have the power to walk away without feeling any way once she no longer abides in your frame

It's her lose, these is only possible via abundance mindset getting multiple plates using game and focusing on your mission which gives you confidence as your accomplishments build it up so you don't tolerate bullshit and bad habits that comes with dealing with women

Well said.
This is the ultimate rule for those who spin plates to pick a candidate for matrimony or LTR (long term relationship). The plate that invests more and proves to be better than the other will be elevated. There is no room for emotions or sentiments, the more emotional you become about it, the farther the exit door for you.

If you are cognizant of female nature, you'll know that there is no need to make a big deal out of any entanglement. It is harmful for you to put your heart in a position where it can easily be broken. Accept that you cannot control her and brace yourself for whatever may come. Nothing should come as a shock to you. If you know what you are dealing with.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 8:32pm On Jul 04, 2021
Only someone who lacks the ability to feel remorse for their actions can handle women.

If you genuinely care about the pain and feelings of another human being, how can you next a partner who has been there for you in the past and cares about you?

Can you end a relationship with a partner who misbehaves, even after she sends you texts and voicenotes, crying and apologizing? By misbehave, I'm not talking about cheating on you, I'm talking about slight acts of disrespect like raising her voice at you or breaking a promise? How would you feel when you hear her teary voice apologizing and begging you not to leave her? Would you feel compassion for her? Of course you would lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by neyo0h: 8:36pm On Jul 04, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



You need to be less Emotionally invested in her staying cold hearted and let her invest more in the relationship than you so that you have the power to walk away [/b]without feeling any way once she no longer abides in your frame

It's her lose, these is only possible via [b]abundance mindset
getting multiple plates using game and focusing on your mission which gives you confidence as your accomplishments build it up so you don't tolerate bullshit and bad habits that comes with dealing with women

100%

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kaymicheal852: 8:41pm On Jul 04, 2021
babyfaceafrica:
Lolz.. If you have good dick and can dominate without providing, in the long run, she will leave. Every lady wants to secure their children future
.



Yeah that's why I put (2) A provider ,of course you must provide


If you provide with good dick and dominate when she was very young and naive ,then you can sleep with one eyes close

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 9:00pm On Jul 04, 2021
Exactly.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 9:00pm On Jul 04, 2021
GrammarNazi1:

Why would anyone have stupid friends?

LMAO! grin cheesy

Good question

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 9:10pm On Jul 04, 2021
Wat u don't love, can't hurt u
Don't love easily in dis country

People always try to use NICE people as dere benefits sure as asking for help, money..... Knowing u won't/can't ask for it back

I was once a nice person, still nice with redpill

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 9:41pm On Jul 04, 2021
Why Being Too Nice Gets You Nowhere With Girls

by Disciple

When dealing with women, you always get maximum attraction by giving them less... not more.

What you want to do is create a burning hunger and desire in them for more of you and your attention.

It's like having a piece of cake and giving someone a bite but then taking the whole piece away. Or like fishing, when you throw the line out in the water with just a small piece of bait on it. They got that sweet taste in their mouth and they will be hungry for more.

This is one of my favorite sayings:

Give 'em a slice of cake and get 'em hooked, but NEVER give 'em the whole cake.


Pretty Girls

I've found this technique is highly effective, especially the prettier the girl is... or thinks she is.

Pretty girls are used to guys giving them a lot of attention and if you're that one guy that doesn't give it to them, they start to think...

"Why doesn't he pay me attention like the others? What is it about this guy?"

She'll be interested in you because:

you are not all over her (which shows you don't need her)
you will stand out from the pack of hungry vultures who constantly circle around her every day
and you will arouse her curiosity about you.

I've done this to lots of girls over the years and I've had them do everything from playing themselves just to get my attention, asking other people about me, to coming up to me and just giving me their number with a smile and telling me I'd better call them. I've even had groups of women all come over and start speaking to me and give some digits.


Stand Out

If any of you read one of my earlier tips about the five types of guys who get laid, you'll realize the importance of standing out from the pack.

I also caution against acting totally cold and inattentive because then she'll think either you are not interested or you may be stuck up, or weird, or worse she might think you're gay or something.

Throughout my experiences I've found the following to be true:

too much attention – bad
no attention – bad
a little attention – very good

You have to show just enough attention to let them know you have interest in them. This also applies to other stages of the mating game.


Drop By Drop

For example, any true Don Juan knows that you can't call or text a girl too much or too often or even talk on the phone too long, and you can't show too much niceness and sweetness because then they lose interest.

I am currently reading Machiavelli and one of the things he said is:

"Benefits should be handed out drop by drop that they be relished the more."

A lot of nice guys always make the mistake of thinking that the more they give a woman the more she'll like them.

The opposite is true: You give 'em enough to always make 'em hungry for more.

So remember, the rule is:

Less is more, and if you give more, you always end up with less or even nothing.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kennyking1234: 9:43pm On Jul 04, 2021
SeekerofTruth1:
This truth will shock us all.

Have you watched that video where that Lagos woman was trying to discipline her innocent son with a cane?.What was her sons offence?.If you check its one small thing.
The motive behind her flogging will shock every man.

She just want to feel like a feminist.

She want to dominate a man.She wants to ruin his life with her wickedness.

She wants to instill the fear of a woman in her son.

She wants her son to see the f gender has the dominant gender.

Rubish

Most Nigerian Moms do this too.They will carry the discipline of their male children on their heads for selfish reasons.

If the father his not smart thats the end of the road for him.She will eventually transform all his sons into her sons and her husband will become a second class citizen in His own house in the future.

She is on a mission is to transform her son into SIMP,her toy boy and an object of manipulation for every lady in the world.

Ladies love to control every man around them,Nigerian mothers have mastered this act by transforming their male kids with their cane into their toy.

No woman should ever beat/flog any man/boy.Thats a taboo.

Is She in sane?

Guys no be abomination be this?.

These women have an agenda.

Mothers floging/discipling their son will only relegate their sons to the weakest of all men.Thats the kind of man Nigerian mothers love.Thats the reason why the average man has lost his powers in the society.The average Nigerian MOM is very dominating and will not stop until her sons are as docile as sheep for her use only.

Guys never ever allow your wife or any female to flog your son.No matter what.

The reason why many African are becoming simps is because they where dominated and robed of their manliness by their power thirsty Mums/Women during their childhood days.Their mothers have successfully flogged out the real man in them and replaced their man with a woman.

Have you noticed that most NIGERIAN mothers hate the manliness in their male child?.They hate it so much.Some will go as far as saying their sons
might become armed robbers if they dont kill the man in them.She just want to control men.

The ruggedity and stubbornness of the masculine gender is very essential for his survival in the future.The moment you exorcise that powerful trait from any male child he might became victim of manipulation for every female.

Mothers are scared when their sons are strong and tough during their childhood days.They hate when their sons exhibit any form of stubbornness in their early days and will do anything evil to make that innocent child a simp,because thats the only way she will achieve all her evil ambitions in the life of her sons.

The aim of every mother is to create another woman no matter the gender of her child.

The mission of most Nigerian mothers is to transform their sons into mother worshipers.

Guys dont let these generations of crazy Nigerian mothers destroy your sons.

Take charge of your family.

Ban your wife from flogging/disciplining any of your sons. Thats your job not hers.

They should respect Her,but they shouldn't fear/worship Her.

My Little observation.

My wife your work is to breastfeed my son and give him food to eat.Dem no born you well to do pass that one.

You think say I no know your agenda.



Reminds me of my secondary school where about 75% of teachers are female leading to exactly what you just describe.
Female teachers super aggressive on the boys killing the spirit, making them simp. Spi

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mrfizy(m): 9:48pm On Jul 04, 2021
Infolenka:
No offence, but I don't think it's possible for a normal guy to practice some of these TRP principles. Only a sociopath or psychopath can implement trp principles to the full.

If you are capable of genuine love or empathy, it limits the sorts of things you can do to women. If you value things like friendship then you can't really push aside a girl who you've been with for months just because she doesn't do what you want. But a sociopath can easily do this because he doesn't care about anyone but himself. He sees people as objects or toys. He has no empathy and the feelings of others don't matter to him.

A sociopath can ghost a girl that loves and respects him just because she acted slightly inappropriately, even if she apologizes multiple times. Can you guys do this? A sociopath doesn't have capacity for love so he can't even get emotionally invested in a woman. She's just in his life for as long as he needs her. If he is done, he shoves her aside like she's nothing.

Most normal humans post their family pictures and friends on their social media. These things matter them. They remember birthdays and get joy from spending time with other humans. Sociopaths don't feel these emotions. They don't care about other humans. A sociopath can naturally and easily implement TRP principles, but for a normal person, it would at best be a struggle and at worst an effort in futility.
Humans can do and be anything if they have reasons to.Get a hold of Maccavelianism and you will realize the affairs of this world to be a game,in any game nobody has your own interest but theirs.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Venom442: 9:54pm On Jul 04, 2021
Saviolamemphix:
Wait are u trying to say if u are fukin a gel regularly even 1 naira she no go see??

Hmm this one no b redpill again na stingy pill grin grin cheesy
Why is she not the one paying you?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 9:58pm On Jul 04, 2021
babyfaceafrica:
True.. Everybody has their temperament, so obviously not everyone can be brutal. Red pillers are neglecting this though, some people are naturally '' nice'' people.. So how can they be red pilled?.. Nice observation

It seems redpill comes to you 'naturally' if you have Choleric temperament as your dominant temperament.


Phlegmatics might struggle with this, BUT it is NOT impossible.


Bottomline: Know thyself.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 9:59pm On Jul 04, 2021
mrfizy:

Humans can do and be anything if they have reasons to.Get a hold of Maccavelianism and you will realize the affairs of this world to be a game,in any game nobody has your own interest but theirs.

You guys keep touting maccavelianism crap that you've not even implemented in your lives to begin with.

Let's face it, normal humans can't turn off their emotions like a switch. If you have a functioning conscience it would be hard to hurt someone else just for your own selfish benefit. If you have empathy it would be almost impossible to do things that would hurt people close to you, including women in your lives. Even if somehow you manage to do this, you will be forever hunted by guilt and remorse.

You'd have to be a sociopath to implement maccavelian principles in your life. And let's face it, most of you here aren't sociopaths.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 10:03pm On Jul 04, 2021
Karlifate:


It seems redpill comes to you 'naturally' if you have Choleric temperament as your dominant temperament.


Phlegmatics might struggle with this, BUT it is NOT impossible.


Bottomline: Know thyself.

I don't buy into these Phlegmatic, choleric personality classification. I think human personality is more complex than those surface level divisions.

The bottom line is these three traits:
A functioning conscience,
A capacity for empathy
A genuine care for other human beings.

If you possess these traits, whether you are choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic etc, you can't successfully implement trp principles in your life.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kennyking1234: 10:07pm On Jul 04, 2021
ubunja:
good doctor they don't want to believe. They have no faith in the Game.

Most guys don't understand what we mean by "Alphas work with women's Lust". And they don't believe women love male strippers. Which is a shame because it's real and I'll show it.

Guys remember when I told you I wish you all could make women pay you for sex and many of you wailed day and night because you feared for your precious Masculinity??
Well I wanted to put you on this road. See what's happening in this video. This is what we mean when we say Women live a secret life you won't see....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pmE5ALrrtU

I leave in AGO OKOTA, a middle-class town somewhere in Lagos. It has a clique of women known as the "Ago women". These women either rich or middle class go about cheating on their husbands based abroad or Nigeria with young broke(maybe rich) boys.
They have clubs where they do something similar in the video or worse...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Infolenka: 10:09pm On Jul 04, 2021
You see someone die and you feel compassion for them and their families.

You see a friend in need and you wish you could help them

You derive happiness spending time in the company of the people you care about

You experience love and care for your family members

You have a capacity for love and genuine affection towards the opposite sex

If you belong to any of these category you can never implement the maccavelian side of trp principles. You are just wasting your time.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kingray10: 10:11pm On Jul 04, 2021
Infolenka:
Only someone who lacks the ability to feel remorse for their actions can handle women.

If you genuinely care about the pain and feelings of another human being, how can you next a partner who has been there for you in the past and cares about you?

Can you end a relationship with a partner who misbehaves, even after she sends you texts and voicenotes, crying and apologizing? By misbehave, I'm not talking about cheating on you, I'm talking about slight acts of disrespect like raising her voice at you or breaking a promise? How would you feel when you hear her teary voice apologizing and begging you not to leave her? Would you feel compassion for her? Of course you would lol

Being REDPILL doesn't mean the person is unforgiving as you as posited.
Reprimand her for every error she made just like you will reprimand your kid..

Stop Making it seems Asif REDPILL is evil.
The females we are talking about here do they care how guys feel

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 10:14pm On Jul 04, 2021
Kennyking1234:

I leave in AGO OKOTA, a middle-class town somewhere in Lagos. It has a clique of women known as the "Ago women". These women either rich or middle class go about cheating on their husbands based abroad or Nigeria with young broke boys.
They have clubs where they do something similar in the video or worse...
Kenny thanks for seconding this. Many guys want to see it first with their own eyes to believe it. Which is practically impossible because entry into these circles is strictly by invitation.
Nice one.

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