If a married man or woman sleeps with an outsider, should such a person confess it to partner or just repent and swallow it?

Hmm

Hamzaaaaaaaa:
Hmm

it depends

If it's done by a woman she should swallow it and take it to her grave,no man ever forgives a cheating woman. But a man can confess and his wife will forgive him,that's the world we live in.

Rozcol:
If it's done by a woman she should swallow it and take it to her grave,no man ever forgives a cheating woman. But a man can confess and his wife will forgive him,that's the world we live in.

As sadly as it is this is the truth. Usually men don't attach emotions to sex. You can point a guy in the head of a man forcing him to sleep with a lady, the guy seeing a naked lady he will have erection for action. And for ladies it's hard for us to sleep with a man without any form of attraction involved, that's why we must trust God that it won't happen else it may happen again and again. Couple � should be open to everything but some stupid mistakes should remain a mistake no need for discussion and don't repeat the mistake, unless blackmail comes into the picture then you can have a heart to heart discussion with your spouse.

Rozcol:
If it's done by a woman she should swallow it and take it to her grave,no man ever forgives a cheating woman. But a man can confess and his wife will forgive him,that's the world we live in.

Absolutely right.

confession is the ideal thing but some partners will not take it, that's why its Best to avoid it (which is possible by God's grace).

If your wife cheats on you, send her packing immediately and conduct DNA test on your children.
The logic is this:
"A fûck that has been fûcked cannot be unfûcked."
"But that fûck that has been fûcked can be refûcked!

Rozcol:
If it's done by a woman she should swallow it and take it to her grave,no man ever forgives a cheating woman. But a man can confess and his wife will forgive him,that's the world we live in.

I thought you said you're born again Christian and even preaching to us to come to your church Believers Love World

How come in another breath you're encouraging married women that commit adultery to not confess to their husbands rather swallow it and take it to their graves

If this is how you represent the Christ you preach then no one should ever take you serious

If this is not hypocrisy, then tell me what it is

Susily:


I thought you said you're born again Christian and even preaching to us to come to your church Believers Love World

How come in another breath you're encouraging married women that commit adultery to not confess to their husbands rather swallow it and take it to their graves

If this is how you represent the Christ you preach then no one should ever take you serious

If this is not hypocrisy, then tell me what it is

This is reality and everything boils down to doing whatever to keep your union, if keeping mute after such mistake will save your union then so be it.Repentance on your side and forgiveness is solely of God.Learn to apply your Bible in your daily life,I still remain a devoted daughter of Zion and a princess in the BLW.Hypocrisy and I have nothing in common and as such nothing is ever heavy for me to dish.

Susily:


I thought you said you're born again Christian and even preaching to us to come to your church Believers Love World

How come in another breath you're encouraging married women that commit adultery to not confess to their husbands rather swallow it and take it to their graves

If this is how you represent the Christ you preach then no one should ever take you serious

If this is not hypocrisy, then tell me what it is

Aboby wetin concern born again with his comment? You lots are fun of attaching your over religious sentiment to reality.

He said the fact. I can never ever ever ever in my life forgive a cheating wife. Men cheat with their preeq while women cheat with their heart. Sadly it is what it is and nothing can be done about it

Rozcol:
This is reality and everything boils down to doing whatever to keep your union, if keeping mute after such mistake will save your union then so be it.Repentance on your side and forgiveness is solely of God.Learn to apply your Bible in your daily life,I still remain a devoted daughter of Zion and a princess in the BLW.Hypocrisy and I have nothing in common and as such nothing is ever heavy for me to dish.

The Bible you preach forbids adultery

So I expected you to say: "Don't commit adultery cos it's a great sin against God and against your spouse"

I expected you as a "Preacher of Christ" like you claim to condemn adultery in it's entirety, rather you went ahead to advice ladies to swallow it and take it to their grave without even condemning Adultery

That's a worldly advice from the pits of hell and not from heaven

You need to reevaluate your faith in Christ and ask him for forgiveness for going against what you preach......and then condemn adultery in it's entirety

Because of your invitation, I planned attending BLW but I'm disappointed if this is what they teach you guys over there

Susily:


The Bible you preach forbids adultery

So I expected you to say: "Don't commit adultery cos it's a great sin against God and against your spouse"

I expected you as a "Preacher of Christ" like you claim to condemn adultery in it's entirety, rather you went ahead to advice ladies to swallow it and take it to their grave without even condemning Adultery

That's a worldly advice from the pits of hell and not from heaven

You need to reevaluate your faith in Christ and ask him for forgiveness for going against what you preach......and then condemn adultery in it's entirety

Because of your invitation, I planned attending BLW but I'm disappointed if this is what they teach you guys over there

Go back and read the topic again and see that I responded strictly according to the topic, even people that engage in adultery openly condemn it, so when the topic of adultery comes up then I'll know what to type.We don't teach people to be fake at BLW.The foundation of your religion and devotion lies heavily in your heart,have you ever seen me supporting immorality of any kind.No great daughter of Zion does that.

SmellySperm:

Aboby wetin concern born again with his comment? You lots are fun of attaching your over religious sentiment to reality.

He said the fact. I can never ever ever ever in my life forgive a cheating wife. Men cheat with their preeq while women cheat with their heart. Sadly it is what it is and nothing can be done about it

I get you bro, I'm tackling her personally cos she claims she's a born again Christian and even preaching to us here on nairaland to repent and start attending her church

So I'm surprised that a "born again Christian" as she claimed will be dishing out such advice....... I'm calling her out on her beliefs and not over the topic

Swallow.

Susily:



I get you bro, I'm tackling her personally cos she claims she's a born again Christian and even preaching to us here on nairaland to repent and start attending her church

So I'm surprised that a "born again Christian" as she claimed will be dishing out such advice....... I'm calling her out on her beliefs and not over the topic

Stop putting words in her mouth, she's not encouraging anyone to commit adultery.

Her response is very clear - A woman should not confess because it is not likely that her husband will forgive her!

They should swallow it... The lady can still take it but the man won't be able to...

A married toto that has been banged cannot be unbanged?

Confessing is irrelevant

Both should swallow it except the adultery brought something disastrous like a baby. God will punish a man that gets a woman order than the wife pregnant or a woman that gets pregnant for another man not her husband.

SmellySperm:

Aboby wetin concern born again with his comment? You lots are fun of attaching your over religious sentiment to reality.

He said the fact. I can never ever ever ever in my life forgive a cheating wife. Men cheat with their preeq while women cheat with their heart. Sadly it is what it is and nothing can be done about it

Whats women cheat with their heart? So all the adulterous women for my estate running packages and dancing with their husbands on Sundays during Thanksgiving procession _4cks with their heart too?

There are women who just like to _hump men, it's natural to them not because they want money, love or attention.

LadyRosa:



Whats women cheat with their heart? So all the adulterous women for my estate running packages and dancing with their husbands on Sundays during Thanksgiving procession _4cks with their heart too?

There are women who just like to _hump men, it's natural to them not because they want money, love or attention.

That's if only they married a promiscuous woman na. My point is,men don't forgive a cheating wife but women do and sadly it is what it is.

Just like women getting more favor in life than men. I've gone to apply for a job with a couple of babes,they got the favor living me in the mud

SmellySperm:

That's if only they married a promiscuous woman na. My point is,men don't forgive a cheating wife but women do and sadly it is what it is.

Just like women getting more favor in life than men. I've gone to apply for a job with a couple of babes,they got the favor living me in the mud

Men do, but not all men. You guys just don't talk about for egoistic reasons and Yes! Some men forgive cheating wives and girlfriends. Women forgive cheating husbands be its African to swallow it up, especially for the sake of companionship and kids. Some also forgive because they are also not faithful as well.

vickydankal:


As sadly as it is this is the truth. Usually men don't attach emotions to sex. You can point a guy in the head of a man forcing him to sleep with a lady, the guy seeing a naked lady he will have erection for action. And for ladies it's hard for us to sleep with a man without any form of attraction involved, that's why we must trust God that it won't happen else it may happen again and again. Couple � should be open to everything but some stupid mistakes should remain a mistake no need for discussion and don't repeat the mistake, unless blackmail comes into the picture then you can have a heart to heart discussion with your spouse.

If i forgive you, but have not forgotting. Dose it mean i have not forgiven.

ozome15:

If i forgive you, but have not forgotting. Dose it mean i have not forgiven.

My brother forgiveness is not lost of memory. It is not given to man to forget it is God that forget.

SavageResponse:


Stop putting words in her mouth, she's not encouraging anyone to commit adultery.

Her response is very clear - A woman should not confess because it is not likely that her husband will forgive her!

So she should go ahead cheating on her hubby and keep mute till she's caught ba??

I guess you're a guy, so your wife should keep it to herself if she cheats on you right?? And maybe give you a bastard to train thinking it's your child?