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Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op):
Hello guys,
Please, drop your opinions here about this topic. A guy of 35 and a girl of 21 are interested in each other. They want to start something serious but the age difference is a course for concern.

What do you think about 14 years age gap in marriage?

Does it have any effect in the marriage on the long run, like in terms of intimacy?

Ok, let's say the woman becomes 45 and the man, 60. Don't you think the man might be too weak to satisfy his woman sexually at that age and beyond? Won't he complain of back pains when the children would be playing with him?

Kindly drop your opinions and your experiences you may have got from such marriage.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Bahamas95(m): 12:53am On Jul 13, 2021
The gap is not too much, most women even grow old faster than men. You won't notice the age difference later when she starts giving birth to children.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Nobody: 12:54am On Jul 13, 2021
Wahala!!!

I don’t even know what to say. You never marry you are already complaining of future back pain.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 1:01am On Jul 13, 2021
Carchoice:
Wahala!!!

I don’t even know what to say. You never marry you are already complaining of future back pain.
Lol! Yeah! Not all men experience back pains at that age and back pains might not be the only issue experienced at that age. But, just using that as instance.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 1:02am On Jul 13, 2021
Bahamas95:
The gap is not too much, most women even grow old faster than men. You won't notice the age difference later when she starts giving birth to children.
Thanks for your opinion
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by caesymore(m): 1:06am On Jul 13, 2021
Waiting to read the Pussy tribe comments grin
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Lalami3232(m): 1:30am On Jul 13, 2021
U wan marry a 9ja babe of 21yrs? I no be prophet of doom but majority of 9ja babes between 18-25yrs give problem pass tooth ache oooo. E go better make go join soldiers for Borno than to marry a 21yrs old 9ja babe. First of all sha, do DNA for children. Secondly, buy honey for house because your voice go dey crack everyday because of quarrel. 9ja babes dey get sense from 31yrs upward!!!

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, the day I go born girl pikin eeh, **********
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 1:39am On Jul 13, 2021
Lalami3232:
U wan marry a 9ja babe of 21yrs? I no be prophet of doom but majority of 9ja babes between 18-25yrs give problem pass tooth ache oooo. E go better make go join soldiers for Borno than to marry a 21yrs old 9ja babe. First of all sha, do DNA for children. Secondly, buy honey for house because your voice go dey crack everyday because of quarrel. 9ja babes dey get sense from 31yrs upward!!!

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, the day I go born girl pikin eeh, **********
Lol!
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Freestainworld(m): 1:50am On Jul 13, 2021
Ask Regina and Ned Nwoko grin
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Spending123: 2:01am On Jul 13, 2021
Age is just a number and prison is just a room. So choose carefully.

Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 10:42am On Jul 13, 2021
Spending123:
Age is just a number and prison is just a room. So choose carefully.
grin
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Jeon(f): 10:44am On Jul 13, 2021
nlreserve:
Hello guys,
Please, drop your opinions here about this topic. A guy of 35 and a girl of 21 are interested in each other. They want to start something serious but the age difference is a course for concern.

What do you think about 14 years age gap in marriage?

Does it have any effect in the marriage on the long run, like in terms of intimacy?

Ok, let's say the woman becomes 45 and the man, 60. Don't you think the man might be too weak to satisfy his woman sexually at that age and beyond? Won't he complain of back pains when the children would be playing with him?

Kindly drop your opinions and your experiences you may have got from such marriage.
You are the one..
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Queenserah26(f): 10:44am On Jul 13, 2021
This is where individual differences come to play. Personally, I feel 14 years is too much.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 10:53am On Jul 13, 2021
Jeon:
You are the one..
Lol! Is that your own opinion?
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 10:56am On Jul 13, 2021
Queenserah26:
This is where individual differences come to play. Personally, I feel 14 years is too much.
Great point dear. Could you explain how individual differences is being affected by the age gap please.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Echowas: 10:56am On Jul 13, 2021
Fo a man, the younger the better
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 11:01am On Jul 13, 2021
Echowas:
Fo a man, the younger the better
Thanks for your useful opinion. But I don't seem to understand the implication of your point. Do you mean if the man is younger, it is better for the marriage or if the woman is younger, the better for the man?

Could you explain please.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Queenserah26(f): 11:04am On Jul 13, 2021
You may not like what I like. I may love my man old, another lady may love hers young. It doesn't make me bad neither does it make the other lady good.

Individuals have the right to choose whatever they feel will make them happy.


nlreserve:
Great point dear. Could you explain how individual differences is being affected by the age gap please.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Queenserah26(f): 11:05am On Jul 13, 2021
True

Echowas:
Fo a man, the younger the better
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 11:06am On Jul 13, 2021
Queenserah26:
You may not like what I like. I may love my man old, another lady may love hers young. It doesn't make me bad neither does it make the other lady good.

Individuals have the right to choose whatever they feel will make them happy.
You are so on point. Thanks for sharing.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 11:08am On Jul 13, 2021
Queenserah26:
True
Since you support his point. Could you spare a little time to explain to me cos I seem not to understand his point well. Thank you.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Divoc19(f): 11:11am On Jul 13, 2021
If she is into the marriage thing go ahead. My father had me at 60, I have 3 younger siblings.

The guy has to be very patience in the marriage because when kids start coming in it won't be as sweet as when it's just the 2 of you.

But when they grow up you'll have your old selves back again.

Gap is nothing. Na time, patience and understanding.
Love is a feeling that knows no age
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op): 11:14am On Jul 13, 2021
Divoc19:
If she is into the marriage thing go ahead. My father had me at 60, I have 3 younger siblings.

The guy has to be very patience in the marriage because when kids start coming in it won't be as sweet as when it's just the 2 of you.

But when they grow up you'll have your old selves back again.

Gap is nothing. Na time, patience and understanding.
Love is a feeling that knows no age
Thanks for your opinion.
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Echowas: 11:20am On Jul 13, 2021
nlreserve:
Thanks for your useful opinion. But I don't seem to understand the implication of your point. Do you mean if the man is younger, it is better for the marriage or if the woman is younger, the better for the man?

Could you explain please.
You are not smart undecided
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by nlreserve(op):
Echowas:
You are not smart undecided
grin
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by farady(m): 12:27pm On Jul 13, 2021
That gap is too much. My opinion though
Re: Is A 14 Year Age Difference Too Much Of A Gap To Date Or Even Marry? by Vinnie2000(m): 2:29pm On Jul 13, 2021
Honestly, dats a Big Gap!!
However, if you want to go ahead to Date/marry her,

Make sure she is cool with the difference.. Study her properly..
Actually, FEW 21 yrs old Girls might like Older Guys for dier experience, maturity, cool-headed nature,etc

But MANY actually want a Younger Guy of 25,26,27..The High energy, talkativeness, Naughtiness of diz Guys is something Girls like, like Madd..
But as usual, They might pretend..

So@OP..
If you are the person in Question, use your Head oo..
If u discover she always desires younger Guy, leave..
Look for Girl of 26, 27.. smiley
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