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Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Salowise: 10:58am On Jul 23, 2021
It depends, some i can endure as many times i can while some i'll cut them off immediately
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Checked86: 11:10am On Jul 23, 2021
I no dey count chances. It depends on human many withdrawals you make from my human deposit. When you finish my human deposit, which depends on how persistent you are, you will find beast remaining and no single person will tell you to pick race.
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by IamGreen1(f): 11:22am On Jul 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
depending on the situation....it could be just ONE as some toxic people out there cant/wont change.

Absolutely and they seems so good at forming victim

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Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:29am On Jul 23, 2021
The first chance is always the last chance...

No time. undecided
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by frozen70(f): 11:37am On Jul 23, 2021
praiseneo:
this is what I do to whoever I date

Lol
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by frozen70(f): 11:37am On Jul 23, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:


This sounds hot. Can you deal with me pls?

It depends
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by frozen70(f): 11:37am On Jul 23, 2021
LordSkyy:

Cold Blooded! grin

You can warm it
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by frozen70(f): 11:38am On Jul 23, 2021
GAJIT:




On point here! I tried to exhaust my patience so that when I say it's over I won't regret it but rejoice over it, and I bet other people will support the idea and appreciate me for being patient enough.
That's it
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by learnoflixx: 11:40am On Jul 23, 2021
Once bitten, twice shy
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Lostchild(m): 11:57am On Jul 23, 2021
People do not repent. Look at their very character, you will see who they truly are.
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Marisujuaku(f): 1:02pm On Jul 23, 2021
Mine is two and I'll cut the person off kpatakpata. If we meet on the road by chance, I'll decide whether to extend greetings or not. I might even pretend not to see the person. It depends on my mood that day. I don't give a Bleep about haters and toxic people
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Joetttimua1811(m): 1:14pm On Jul 23, 2021
70 x77
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by HITsquad: 1:51pm On Jul 23, 2021
hardbody:


I regard you.
I regard you too barunda.. Na men dey run am
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by sylve11: 2:33pm On Jul 23, 2021
hpk:
I barely get attached to people, I'm mostly in acquaintance level with people I interact with. You prove yourself worthy then we become friends, you show your true colors and I move on.

That's not so difficult.

i like this your style. cool
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by like1: 2:39pm On Jul 23, 2021
I think it depends on what one can tolerate and the importance (value) of the concerned person in your life.

Early this year, I went completely blank on one of my tight friends of over 7 years because I travelled and he was flirting with my wife, writing to her all sorts of flirtatious names and the one that broke the Carmel's back, is asking to visit her (inter-state) so they can 'flex'. At the same time he was in my whatsapp chat asking that I lend him some money (this is normal as he always borrowed and paid back). I was about to tell him I will make a transfer asap before a chat from my wife with the screenshot of his chats entered my phone and I started to wonder if the money was for flexing my wife. And he knows my schedule and how I have been out of town.

This is a friend since we left school he never travelled to my state to visit me, I am the one always going to visit him, sometimes I go with my wife. Now, he wants to travel to my state when I am not there and flex my wife, aside all the flirtatious chats he has been sending.

I ignored his chats and calls, he sent a voice note that I am ignoring because he is asking for money and needs help as if it's the first time he asked. i didn't reply either.

At a point I felt I reacted harshly, I asked one of our mutual friends sharing the chat, but he was really shocked as well.

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Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by sylve11: 2:45pm On Jul 23, 2021
Brushstrokes20:
I deeply regretted giving some people the second chance tho.....

it was tantamount to reloading their gun with a 2nd/ last lethal bullet and STERNLY instructing them not to miss the target FOR THE 2ND TIME...it was a near death experience.

# I LEARNT THE HARD WAY
# life lessons 101
# beware of friendly foes
#you may not live to tell the story

loud it. cool

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Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Brushstrokes20: 2:47pm On Jul 23, 2021
sylve11:


loud it. cool
Yes o!
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Nicoddemus(m): 3:15pm On Jul 23, 2021
NLPoliceWoman:




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Rule 2.

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Who's this one.
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by HottieCoach(f): 4:03pm On Jul 23, 2021
No particular number of times.

but when they hurt you big time.

yes, that number.
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by reedone: 4:16pm On Jul 23, 2021
It depends on the person Immediate family I can't the blood won't accept. Others maximum of 2
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by iamL(f): 5:00pm On Jul 23, 2021
No second chance when it comes to betrayal, backstabbing and lies.
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Gfskw: 5:52pm On Jul 23, 2021
No chance coz she milked me
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by detectivejones: 7:01pm On Jul 23, 2021
1) Before thinking of cutting a person off, also think of how many of your s**the other person is taking and enduring without making a fuss about it
2) Sometimes what you see as an intentional way of someone hurting you might be coming from an unconscious the person is yet to let go. Why not ask the person, find the root to whatever makes the person act a certain, than just thinking about yourself. Ciao

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Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Mkingz(m): 10:49pm On Jul 23, 2021
Depends...but when it concerns Money,Bleep up once then it’s Bleep you forever
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Mkingz(m): 10:50pm On Jul 23, 2021
Lol...so i was today year old when I discovered Nairaland doesn’t use F**k...Nice grin grin
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Nicoddemus(m): 1:18am On Jul 24, 2021
MANNABBQGRILL5:

We? Or policewoman?

Which one?

Be specific please

Aproko busybody nonsense policewoman
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by RisenJoe(m): 6:36am On Jul 24, 2021
1F30M4:
Just enough time to run the clock down and when that happens, it stays that way.

Nne, why you cum run leave ur diary since 2019 Complete am nah
Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Obarofrederick(m): 10:11am On Jul 24, 2021
MANNABBQGRILL5:
All of us @ [b][/b]
We don't give any chance because we lack brain and we are senseless

that's why we av become nuisance on Nairaland
And we are also tired of life, as it is now we no longer grill bbq again
We grill monkeys, bats, house rats, giant spider and all sorts of venomous snakes

Don't argue with us please, because we are feeling the heat of the poverty created by our precious daddy

as we are typing right now, hunger no let us sleep.

We rise
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