So I (18) am in love with a girl (17) and I really love her and it’s reciprocal. But I can’t commit because of something that is hindering me to do so. I don’t know how she will react to it if I would tell her this and if she would still want to be in a relationship with me. So I talked with my best friend who’s a girl btw and she told me that I should open myself to her. So I called her and I assured her that the feelings are real but I told her that there is something that is holding me back to fully commit to her. I didn’t enter in details because just alone telling her that there’s something holding me back was really hard for me. I was nearly about to stutter the whole time. She said that she appreciated it that I told her that but she said that she really wants to know what is holding me back and that I should prepare myself because she will get back to it when she finds the right moment. So I don’t know if I will have the guts to tell her but I really don’t wanna lose her because just by her entering in my life last year, I really began to know what it means to be in love with someone but that’s also a whooooole ‘nother story. I’ts not that I could get another girl tough because I would say that I am handsome and that other people (women) are also saying it too but yeah I really love her. At first she was really reserved and shit and while dating she managed to open herself and share with me some secrets And she also revealed to me that she is very sensitive like sensitive af but I noticed it before she even told me that. Anyway That’s one of the reasons why I love her because she began to open herself to me which she couldn’t even do to her best friend which I highly appreciate from her. Yeah now since I told her that there is something that hinders me to commit I am confused and I’m not doing good at all cause I never opened myself to someone like that. I don’t want to lose her because I really love her. I am thanking everybody who reads this and I would highly appreciate it if can get some advice.

You are in love with a minor.

How do you expect us to advice you

You are so silly. Will you stupidly get out of nairaland? BTW where is your father from?

Who need love?

Stay committed to the money alone
And family first.

Op, I'm sorry to say this but you have a lot of misplaced priorities. How can you fall in love with a minor and expect sound advise? For the sake of your future, I'd advise that you get a job and further your education instead of pursuing a girl who'll add nothing to your existence

Focus on making money that is the prime value of living, and always pray to God for guidance..

So I (18) am in love with a girl (17) and I really love her and it’s reciprocal. But I can’t commit because of something that is hindering me to do so. I don’t know how she will react to it if I would tell her this and if she would still want to be in a relationship with me. So I talked with my best friend who’s a girl btw and she told me that I should open myself to her. So I called her and I assured her that the feelings are real but I told her that there is something that is holding me back to fully commit to her. I didn’t enter in details because just alone telling her that there’s something holding me back was really hard for me. I was nearly about to stutter the whole time. She said that she appreciated it that I told her that but she said that she really wants to know what is holding me back and that I should prepare myself because she will get back to it when she finds the right moment. So I don’t know if I will have the guts to tell her but I really don’t wanna lose her because just by her entering in my life last year, I really began to know what it means to be in love with someone but that’s also a whooooole ‘nother story. I’ts not that I could get another girl tough because I would say that I am handsome and that other people (women) are also saying it too but yeah I really love her. At first she was really reserved and shit and while dating she managed to open herself and share with me some secrets And she also revealed to me that she is very sensitive like sensitive af but I noticed it before she even told me that. Anyway That’s one of the reasons why I love her because she began to open herself to me which she couldn’t even do to her best friend which I highly appreciate from her. Yeah now since I told her that there is something that hinders me to commit I am confused and I’m not doing good at all cause I never opened myself to someone like that. I don’t want to lose her because I really love her. I am thanking everybody who reads this and I would highly appreciate it if can get some advice.

Big MUMU.

Lol...hypocrites above me.People dat started fvcking from 10years old would also form 'holy than thou'

What's he even saying e?

This is a jss2 student no doubt.

Cus I couldn't understand what he was saying, didn't even convey any message, just feel like seeing him and pressing knock in the middle of his head.

BabaJideAFONJA:
You are so silly. Will you stupidly get out of nairaland? BTW where is your father from?

You don't really have to be hard on the lil guy if you really is civilized. he's 18years old and therefore fit to go into a relationship anytime he feels like stop tryna demonize him

LeeSantos:
What's he even saying e?

This is a jss2 student no doubt.

Cus I couldn't understand what he was saying, didn't even convey any message, just feel like seeing him and pressing knock in the middle of his head.

Simply put or lemme say, make us understand at 18 you were still in jss 2 simple. at 18 many of us were already in 200L

You guys should stop trying to demonize the guy. "what happens to gently advising him to focus on his education first et al. do you guys even know what Youthful exuberance is at all??

Op even though you have deactivated, I hope you see this. Judging by your post I take it you are still very young and within the age range of the girl you are afraid if being with.

Kids should really focus on important things...my two cents..walks out of thread!!

Trash!!! All you’re saying just make you some money little boy and leave the little girl alone So I (18) am in love with a girl (17) and I really love her and it’s reciprocal. But I can’t commit because of something that is hindering me to do so. I don’t know how she will react to it if I would tell her this and if she would still want to be in a relationship with me. So I talked with my best friend who’s a girl btw and she told me that I should open myself to her. So I called her and I assured her that the feelings are real but I told her that there is something that is holding me back to fully commit to her. I didn’t enter in details because just alone telling her that there’s something holding me back was really hard for me. I was nearly about to stutter the whole time. She said that she appreciated it that I told her that but she said that she really wants to know what is holding me back and that I should prepare myself because she will get back to it when she finds the right moment. So I don’t know if I will have the guts to tell her but I really don’t wanna lose her because just by her entering in my life last year, I really began to know what it means to be in love with someone but that’s also a whooooole ‘nother story. I’ts not that I could get another girl tough because I would say that I am handsome and that other people (women) are also saying it too but yeah I really love her. At first she was really reserved and shit and while dating she managed to open herself and share with me some secrets And she also revealed to me that she is very sensitive like sensitive af but I noticed it before she even told me that. Anyway That’s one of the reasons why I love her because she began to open herself to me which she couldn’t even do to her best friend which I highly appreciate from her. Yeah now since I told her that there is something that hinders me to commit I am confused and I’m not doing good at all cause I never opened myself to someone like that. I don’t want to lose her because I really love her. I am thanking everybody who reads this and I would highly appreciate it if can get some advice.[/quote]

Young man,in as much as i couldn't understand wat u wrote,it ll be very foolish for a struggling young man like you to fall in luv even to the extent of taking it serious and bringing it on a forum.
DO U EVEN KNW WAT LUV MEANS?,at 18 u shuld be envisioning the kind of man u want to become,not dis shit u re talking abt

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