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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ishilove: 7:35pm On Jul 28, 2021
Nancee4love:

May God deliver my brothers from ur type
Ur mindset is disgusting very bad a d crude, you are not matured for marriage and a disaster to any man who gets engaged to u with this kind of mindset
Better Don't marry please before you jeopardize the life of another man's son
What is marriage? Covenant partnership. A Partner is a supporter in their partnership, they may not have equal share but each partner had a share of responsibility to the agreement of partnership. Guyz run from a lady who does not see marriage from the angle and perspective of partnership that lady is not your wife. A woman who truly loves you supports you. My dad went dead broke and it was my mum who helped raised him back to life with no insult but still gave him his maximum respect during the darkest moment of his life, she made home comfortable and marriage easy for him till he bounced back. My father is late but all his properties after he bounced back was willed to my mum and us the children.
Goossh you are a disgrace to us women responsible women. Please go fix yourself before marriage. Guyz shine your eyes please we still have good women or ladies out their. I will never marry a man I can't support. It's not about it's my choice to support him or not it's my responsibility to support him. 2 have become one. You see this kind of mindset this lady has is toxic. As an adult do u know it's your responsibility to take care of yourself, keep waiting for a man to do that. May God not allow my brothers to encounter ur type.
Op pick up urself and move you met and plunged the wrong flower.
Well said

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:35pm On Jul 28, 2021
Belafonte:


If not that I'm trying to avoid a ban I would said you're an imbecïle.

If he was cheating why didn't she leave? Why become a monster in another man's house?

Now that she's acting like a loon, the man has decided he will have none of it instead of becoming a monster. That's what people with functional brains do, not coming on NL to disgrace their lineage with watery hypotheticals



grin grin grin
Now this is Fatality...

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 7:36pm On Jul 28, 2021
Pecoleee345:

No.....she had miscarriage twice
It was two year into marriage I got to know she had an abortion while in school.

She has a weak womb according to test results.
Cervical incompetence right?possibly a quack aborted her pregnancy

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 7:41pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not hear to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww
Lol,even as op has been providing did he get the so called peace and supoort from the useless ex wife?No

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Thereddevil: 7:56pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
I pity women who gives men like you a chance in their life and making them miserable all in the name of women bringing something to the table. Women are not providers,you men of this generation should go learn from your forefathers.
Our forefathers married women for farm works.. They indirectly brought something to the table.. A hunter's wife probably worked as a hairdresser or sold bush meats at the market.. No one paid school fees then, all the children did was learn from their parents.. The sons became hunters like their father and the daughters learnt respect and management from their mother.. Don't make it sound like our forefathers carried all the burdens, they only captained the ship and their wives served as chief officers/first mates... Whenever it seemed the husband got broke, the wife from her managerial skill(savings from what the husband gave) or from her earnings(from making hairs, beads, market sales) would support her husband to make sure the family's shame is hidden until the husband is back on track.. Some days, a hunter would go hunting without a meat, a farmer would look stupid when there's no rain.. You didn't learn well from the forefathers

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 7:58pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
[s]She's your responsibility as wife and her primary duty is to give care and not provide, be a masculine man and not a man who feels relaxed watching his wife toil to help him share responsibility[/s].
Shepopotamus

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Michelle55: 7:59pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not hear to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww
Honestly, I try as much as possible to avoid your post because it reeks of bitterness and frustration. Where is it stipulated that the man should bear the brunt alone just because he married you?

Don't you know the meaning of helpmate? You had better change this disgusting mentality before marriage if truly you want to settle down.

Walai, I'm not sure the knots in your head is complete, please check well.
Aaarrghh!

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:00pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
I pity women who gives men like you a chance in their life and making them miserable all in the name of women bringing something to the table. Women are not providers,you men of this generation should go learn from your forefathers.
Go and learn from your ancestors how to be submissive.bleeding holes

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:05pm On Jul 28, 2021
Xilsbridalhouse:
pecoleee345

There are 3 sides to a story, yours, hers and the truth.

I have a feeling you are leaving her because of the test result. Perhaps you detested her afterwards and now making her look bad to everyone to justify your actions.


The test results are enough reason for him to leave her ,lol

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:06pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
exactly, I don't believe everything he's been typing here,if he weren't a bad man he wouldn't have come across a bad woman as a wife.All he's been typing here are lies
But your father was a good man,I knew him yet your mother was a bitter cursed soul who produced a bitter being like you

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:06pm On Jul 28, 2021
RightToReject:
I wager you were one of the wannabe kind and wannabe libertarian people who, prior to now, do see any man, and vice versa, who abhors nonsense and does not pander to the whims and caprices of small-minded women as a violent/angry man - of course, I don't hold brief for hypocritically crass and opportunistic men. Servility is as bad as cruelty, say no to both of them.

The condoning of nonsense under any guise doesn't make one mature and isn't a sign of emotional intelligence. The bigger amount of nonsense one condones, the shorter their lifespan. Always come into equity with clean hands and expect and accept nothing less ethically.

Love wasn't one of the causes of your problem; instead, your erroneous understanding of it and application of it was the problem. So also her background as a product of single parentage wasn't automatically the cause of her flaws as you alleged, but her poor ethical leanings which she's the sole architect of, was, and probably made worse through your indulgence at the inception of your relationship with her.




I salute you articulate Grammarian..
Apt and concise ..

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:07pm On Jul 28, 2021
Xilsbridalhouse:

I suspect he could be a cheat too. You know these things brings out the beast in women.

Lol the bleeding holes are gathering to have a feast cheesy

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:08pm On Jul 28, 2021
byinks:


Cervical incompetence ?

Don't leave her because of that, there are ways around that. See a good OBGYN.
Are you a doctor?
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by yuping(m): 8:08pm On Jul 28, 2021
Pecoleee345:



I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.
Man you have no chill oooo, you just quench their thirst, they all wanted to feast on you they were not expecting it.
You really try, it not easy to let go, God will give you the strength and ability to move on.
Whatever decision you finally makes I pray it favors you.

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:14pm On Jul 28, 2021
Segfaultt:
is your mailbox active
You want to fvck and clean mouth? wink

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jul 28, 2021
Nancee4love:

May God deliver my brothers from ur type
Ur mindset is disgusting very bad a d crude, you are not matured for marriage and a disaster to any man who gets engaged to u with this kind of mindset
Better Don't marry please before you jeopardize the life of another man's son
What is marriage? Covenant partnership. A Partner is a supporter in their partnership, they may not have equal share but each partner had a share of responsibility to the agreement of partnership. Guyz run from a lady who does not see marriage from the angle and perspective of partnership that lady is not your wife. A woman who truly loves you supports you. My dad went dead broke and it was my mum who helped raised him back to life with no insult but still gave him his maximum respect during the darkest moment of his life, she made home comfortable and marriage easy for him till he bounced back. My father is late but all his properties after he bounced back was willed to my mum and us the children.
Goossh you are a disgrace to us women responsible women. Please go fix yourself before marriage. Guyz shine your eyes please we still have good women or ladies out their. I will never marry a man I can't support. It's not about it's my choice to support him or not it's my responsibility to support him. 2 have become one. You see this kind of mindset this lady has is toxic. As an adult do u know it's your responsibility to take care of yourself, keep waiting for a man to do that. May God not allow my brothers to encounter ur type.
Op pick up urself and move you met and plunged the wrong flower.
Mother Theresa well done ooo,you should have asked if I'm already engaged or not and I don't pray to ever meet the likes of your brothers who doesn't know their right from left.If its your choice to suffer with a man what's my own there? and if its my choice not to suffer with any man how e take concern you? The op is a liar and wisdom demands that we read both sides before passing judgement but he succeeded in winning you all to his pity party game.

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:24pm On Jul 28, 2021
FORWARDEVERLY:




I salute you articulate Grammarian..
Apt and concise ..
The dude sabi write sha oo,lol

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:

Lol,even as op has been providing did he get the so called peace and supoort from the useless ex wife?No
And how did you know there's truth in all he typed,abegiii make I see road

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:26pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
[s]Mother Theresa well done ooo,you should have asked if I'm already engaged or not and I don't pray to ever meet the likes of your brothers who doesn't know their right from left.If its your choice to suffer with a man what's my own there? and if its my choice not to suffer with any man how e take concern you? The op is a liar and wisdom demands that we read both sides before passing judgement but he succeeded in winning you all to his pity party game[/s].
No sane man can engage a cursed worthless soul like u,stop pretending to be engaged

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:26pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
And how did you know there's truth in all he typed,abegiii make I see road
I know op he's saying exactly the truth
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by TarOrfeeek: 8:28pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Mother Theresa well done ooo,you should have asked if I'm already engaged or not and I don't pray to ever meet the likes of your brothers who doesn't know their right from left.If its your choice to suffer with a man what's my own there? and if its my choice not to suffer with any man how e take concern you? The op is a liar and wisdom demands that we read both sides before passing judgement but he succeeded in winning you all to his pity party game.



angry

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jul 28, 2021
Michelle55:

Honestly, I try as much as possible to avoid your post because it reeks of bitterness and frustration. Where is it stipulated that the man should bear the brunt alone just because he married you?

Don't you know the meaning of helpmate? You had better change this disgusting mentality before marriage if truly you want to settle down.

Walai, I'm not sure the knots in your head is complete, please check well.
Aaarrghh!
Its your own nut that's not working, there are men who also don't want their wife to undergo any stress,that's the kind of man every lady should pray for.You only read his side to pass judgement and by so doing you have sinned against the woman in question

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:
I know op he's saying exactly the truth
Any proof?

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:32pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Any proof?
The only prove is taking you to the respective families
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:

No sane man can engage a cursed worthless soul like u,stop pretending to be engaged
Not every man is wrapped up with a toxic and poverty stricken mentality like you.For your information I will only work after having all my kids and that's when the last one would be between age 5or6.Deal with it

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:36pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Not every man is wrapped up with a toxic and poverty stricken mentality like you.For your information I will only work after having all my kids and that's when the last one would be between age 5or6.Deal with it
You're an entitled poor bitch born by poor parents and looking for poverty alleviation scheme called marriage .No man will engage u bc he won't live beyond a week

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by oluwaseyi0: 8:37pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not hear to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww


You are very very wrong

If any of my daughter say this that's the day I'll stop paying her school fees

Boys fees are not more expensive than girls fees

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:

The only prove is taking you to the respective families
If you don't have any proof then eat all you typed and let it choke you.I repeat op is a liar,he's not saying it as it happened. To find responsible Nigerian men is a herculean task and this one come to cook stories for us.mtchewww

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 8:39pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
If you don't have any proof then eat all you typed and let it choke you.I repeat op is a liar,he's not saying it as it happened. To find responsible Nigerian men is a herculean task and this one come to cook stories for us.mtchewww
I know the op, thats my proof.

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:

You're an entitled poor bitch born by poor parents and looking for poverty alleviation scheme called marriage .No man will engage u bc he won't live beyond a week
Let's assume my parents are poor will it now make sense if I accept a poor man in my life?You don't have sense sef.All this Lagos boys sef,I pity ladies who dates you all.rubbish

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:
I know the op, thats my proof.
Lies upon lies.

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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Segfaultt(m): 8:44pm On Jul 28, 2021
Ikwerelastborn:

You want to fvck and clean mouth? wink
I have a fetish for single moms cool

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