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My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by orohbiro(f): 10:12pm On Jul 31, 2021
My fellow nairalanders Good evening, I am having little issue me and this guy has been dating for over a year now though on our ist date this guy spent up to like 50k at a go which swept me off my feet, but since them this guy has not show me that kind lf care though he is comfortable he work in a good company but this guy is not taking care of me like a gentle man will, though am working but when ever I demand for money or to buy something this guy keep posting me only monthly sub he usually sub for me . I don't think he loves me because if he really he won't treat me like this. He hasn't seen my unclothedness since we are dating and he hadn't demand for sex but I am.fed up of the whole thing. Guys am thinking of quitting

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Bola146(f): 10:15pm On Jul 31, 2021
grin Wetin Musa no go see for gate cheesy na those kids, so I wouldn't be surprised. Awon slay mama grin grin you better plan better for your future now before it's too late sad

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by nuggarito: 10:18pm On Jul 31, 2021
It's obvious you don't have sense, you are working, he is working but you are complaining he's not giving you money, all this stup*d entitled idi*ts .

Country hard you still wan make man life still hard.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by advanceDNA: 10:19pm On Jul 31, 2021
U are just looking for red pill guys that mention you with plenty insult

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Kandeed: 10:20pm On Jul 31, 2021
Quit asap you're nothing but a liability.....if you want care turn to ur father, he's the only being responsible for your care atm

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by badaru911: 10:21pm On Jul 31, 2021
..... I'm gonna write 1 word that describe you Op..... GOLD DIGGER...

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by authority2006(m): 10:24pm On Jul 31, 2021
orohbiro:
My fellow nairalanders Good evening, I am having little issue me and this guy has been dating for over a year now though on our ist date this guy spent up to like 50k at a go which swept me off my feet, but since them this guy has not show me that kind lf care though he is comfortable he work in a good company but this guy is not taking care of me like a gentle man will, though am working but when ever I demand for money or to buy something this guy keep posting me only monthly sub he usually sub for me . I don't think he loves me because if he really he won't treat me like this. He hasn't seen my unclothedness since we are dating and he hadn't demand for sex but I am.fed up of the whole thing. Guys am thinking of quitting

Talk to him how you feel about the issue but don't threaten him with breakup, that might escalate things and speed up the breakup process

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by OGWILLS123: 10:28pm On Jul 31, 2021
Even the bible says for God so loved the world,
that "He Gave" undecided.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by orohbiro(f): 10:29pm On Jul 31, 2021
authority2006:


Talk to him how you feel about the issue but don't threaten him with breakup, that might escalate things and speed up the breakup process
OK the funniest thing this guys spent almost 2 months wooing me before I accepted .
Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by HRSweetness(f): 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2021
I think the OP is an under cover redpiller grin

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by crazygod(m): 10:33pm On Jul 31, 2021
Kandeed:
Quit asap you're nothing but a liability.....if you want care turn to ur father, he's the only being responsible for your care atm
Why should she turn to her father? The old man has done his best. She is working and yet she is feeling entitled. All this African mentality sha. angry

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by realonecrilar(m): 10:34pm On Jul 31, 2021
Let me advice you.

He actually loves you, but I feel your pain.

But at this point , freedom of expression is very important , you need to tell him what you're feeling about the relationship.

Also,don't let your main focus be about money, your headline says it all.

Everything is not money , and you're not even concerned about not having affairs with you and you guys have been dating over a year .

Hope you don't have other guys that you're sleeping with else where.

You need to come out clean and discuss your issue with him.

And if all lead to no avail after discussing with her, just sign out of the relationship.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by SmartPunter(m): 10:35pm On Jul 31, 2021
Women likes to manipulate . That was how the one I met recently begin demand like say I be her papa. I have promised her money but before she gets it . Make she come give me the cookie. She begin talk nonsense . Like say I don't love her if not why would I demand for sex . She no be olosho . I don't talk too much. No sex No money.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by authority2006(m): 10:36pm On Jul 31, 2021
orohbiro:
OK the funniest thing this guys spent almost 2 months wooing me before I accepted .

May be he just want to make sure that money is not the reason you fell in love with him. But he still needs to spend no matter how little just to show affection. That doesn't stop you too from buying little things for him. All these make relationship healthy and strong.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by kenzysmith: 10:43pm On Jul 31, 2021
realonecrilar:
Let me advice you.

He actually loves you, but I feel your pain.

But at this point , freedom of expression is very important , you need to tell him what you're feeling about the relationship.

Also,don't let your main focus be about money, your headline says it all.

Everything is not money , and you're not even concerned about not having affairs with you and you guys have been dating over a year .

Hope you don't have other guys that you're sleeping with else where.

You need to come out clean and discuss your issue with him.

And if all lead to no avail after discussing with her, just sign out of the relationship.
OK . I don't sleep a round am a semi virgin

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Diamondniyi(m): 10:44pm On Jul 31, 2021
Ladies nowadays think collecting money from a guy is part of their responsibility. Why will you be demanding money from him Instead of you supporting him financially? He doesn’t have any right to spend on you till He takes you away from your Father’s house(marries you) else HE WISHES TO.He is not stingy if he doesn’t spend on you. I don’t want to type much. Op, you are a GOLD-DIGGER

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by kenzysmith: 10:45pm On Jul 31, 2021
authority2006:


May be he just want to make sure that money is not the reason you fell in love with him. But he still needs to spend no matter how little just to show affection. That doesn't stop you too from buying little things for him. All these make relationship healthy and strong.
my point is that apart from sub nothing else relationship don't work like that

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Cholls(m): 10:53pm On Jul 31, 2021
nuggarito:
It's obvious you don't have sense, you are working, he is working but you are complaining he's not giving you money, all this stup*d entitled idi*ts .

Country hard you still wan make man life still hard.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jul 31, 2021
Then breakup with him na. Make better woman con date am.
You are working,and you are still demanding money from him.
Lol cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by reubenobi(m): 10:54pm On Jul 31, 2021
kenzysmith:
OK . I don't sleep a round am a semi virgin
Shut up! What us semi virgin? Get out of here!
Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by reubenobi(m): 10:56pm On Jul 31, 2021
kenzysmith:
my point is that apart from sub nothing else relationship don't work like that
See them!! Can't she cater for herself?
Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by EzegeNdiigbo: 11:03pm On Jul 31, 2021
When it clocked 10:30 I don't comment in any thread on nairaland only read and move on due to personal reason, but honestly this shitty cooked-up thread seem's Like undercover redpillar like HRSweetness had said.

It's obvious that the op is a clout chaser.(He don blow for NL).


Ya go read comments tire.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Paulianfa(m): 11:04pm On Jul 31, 2021
Must ur boyfriend give u money? Is he ur ATM? U are working for crying out loud, why not behave and be contain on what u have...
Ok loosen ur waist nah, d guy go shower u with money...
Nothing goes for nothing this days ooo my sister
Free the guy ur p*$$y, d guy free u his money.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 31, 2021
Oloriburuku omo
Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by zanshi: 11:12pm On Jul 31, 2021
Go get a job

Nigerian men are afraid of flashing bar to a woman that may jilt them, walk away for any flimsy reason considering how much you may have done for her.


For you to prove you are worth it, make him show reasons why he should spend on you.

Moreover, don't you work?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by TheEnygma(m): 11:25pm On Jul 31, 2021
Dear GidRedpiller

FOOD IS READY
gringringringrin

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by bakesntakes(m): 11:48pm On Jul 31, 2021
orohbiro:
My fellow nairalanders Good evening, I am having little issue me and this guy has been dating for over a year now though on our ist date this guy spent up to like 50k at a go which swept me off my feet, but since them this guy has not show me that kind lf care though he is comfortable he work in a good company but this guy is not taking care of me like a gentle man will, though am working but when ever I demand for money or to buy something this guy keep posting me only monthly sub he usually sub for me . I don't think he loves me because if he really he won't treat me like this. He hasn't seen my unclothedness since we are dating and he hadn't demand for sex but I am.fed up of the whole thing. Guys am thinking of quitting

How many times have you spent money on your boyfriend?
How many times have you taken him in a date?

You Girls in this country believe say una be baboon, monkey go de work make baboon chop abi.

You better sit down well and reason your life and make yourself useful. No man wants a burden.

He's still subbing for you monthly, very soon he'll just cut you off suddenly. I hope it won't be late then before you wake up from your slumber and greed.


Rubbish

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by MufasaLion: 11:56pm On Jul 31, 2021
Your brain is filled with maggots. Imagine the entitlement mentality you have. Shame!

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by MajesticKris: 12:43am On Aug 01, 2021
Is he a Yahoo Boy ?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by Mcslize: 12:54am On Aug 01, 2021
EzegeNdiigbo:
When it clocked 10:30 I don't comment in any thread on nairaland only read and move on due to personal reason, but honestly this shitty cooked-up thread seem's Like undercover redpillar like HRSweetness had said.

It's obvious that the op is a clout chaser.(He don blow for NL).


Ya go read comments tire.

You commented at exactly 11:03pm. Who is deceiving who? grin
Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by orohbiro(f): 12:56am On Aug 01, 2021
Paulianfa:
Must ur boyfriend give u money? Is he ur ATM? U are working for crying out loud, why not behave and be contain on what u have...
Ok loosen ur waist nah, d guy go shower u with money...
Nothing goes for nothing this days ooo my sister
Free the guy ur p*$$y, d guy free u his money.
are u OK am I a harlot?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is Very Stingy I Can't Cope by FutureHNDRxXx: 1:09am On Aug 01, 2021
orohbiro:
are u OK am I a harlot?

No na him com be your helper? shockedcry

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