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BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by BigDan69(op): 8:23am On Aug 09, 2021
Sometimes, you just wish somethings don’t even happen where you are at all 
I have been in a situation like this before and I know how bad it feels to ever experience such – e go be like say make person just die.

My Story
I remember when I visited a Friend’s house in Lekki and they were looking for his Laptop, everyone staying in that house started looking at my face

I tried all I could to let every know I was innocent but nobody was even giving me a listening ear but thank God, they found it.. I promised myself never to go there again.

This post I saw on someone’s Whatsapp status actually made me remember the sad experience which I shared above.. I swear it’s only by the Grace of God that one can escape this kind of issue…

Now, let’s go


#copied

Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by MEGA4BILLION(m): 8:25am On Aug 09, 2021
Never step your feet there again
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by raphretle: 8:27am On Aug 09, 2021
Wetin concern me...
If I no do something e no dey shake me...
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Nobody: 8:27am On Aug 09, 2021
Laptop na something wey dem fit pocket?
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Ahmed0336(m): 8:28am On Aug 09, 2021
I'd probably visit again, if the same incident reoccurs, fvck it!!! I'm done visiting
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by neonly: 8:41am On Aug 09, 2021
BigDan69:
Sometimes, you just wish somethings don’t even happen where you are at all 
I have been in a situation like this before and I know how bad it feels to ever experience such – e go be like say make person just die.

My Story
I remember when I visited a Friend’s house in Lekki and they were looking for his Laptop, everyone staying in that house started looking at my face

I tried all I could to let every know I was innocent but nobody was even giving me a listening ear but thank God, they found it.. I promised myself never to go there again.

This post I saw on someone’s Whatsapp status actually made me remember the sad experience which I shared above.. I swear it’s only by the Grace of God that one can escape this kind of issue…

Now, let’s go


#copied
Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Skyfornia(m):
Not a good experience...

I remember sometime ago a close relative visited me. Within two days of his visit, I started looking for 7k I kept in my suit pocket inside wardrobe, I saw the money a day before it got missing. In my family, the last thing anyone could be accused of is stealing, it is alien to us.

We were the only two people in the house and I didn't know how to ask him for the missing money...I was worried cause I didn't want to spoil our reputation. Omo I searched everywhere and didn't see the money so I was forced to ask him...the look on his face was that of disappointment. He said he didn't see the money. I became double worried, one for the missing money and two for breaking the trust/reputation. But who could have taken the money? At some point I started believing maybe I have spent the money unknowingly... grin

But alas, I found the money inside the hand of my suit jacket in the wardrobe. Meaning I mistakenly put it there instead of my suit inner breast pocket.

I told him I have found the money and apologized, but could still see the disappointing look on his face...I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Pat081: 9:59am On Aug 09, 2021
Too bad but the problem is from your wife she should be the one to make sure you eat no matter how busy she will be
neonly:
Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by SporaD8: 10:04am On Aug 09, 2021
neonly:
Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk
Your in-law are heartless!
This is why as a Man, you must avoid see-finish at all cost anywhere your in-law are involved.
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by AmgMakanaki(m): 10:10am On Aug 09, 2021
neonly:
Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk
Too bad for your wife
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by sirchrislatestn(m): 10:16am On Aug 09, 2021
May be they keep it mistakenly
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Malawian(m): 10:54am On Aug 09, 2021
neonly:
Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk
Your wife was meant to be the one to bring you food, to avoid any super stories. i certainly wont collect food from my inlaws if my wife is not the one dishing it out.
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Crieff(m): 11:22am On Aug 09, 2021
Skyfornia:
Not a good experience...

I remember sometime ago a close relative visited me. Within two days of his visit, I started looking for 7k I kept in my suit pocket inside wardrobe, I saw the money a day before it got missing. In my family, the last thing anyone could be accused of is stealing, it is alien to us.

We were the only two people in the house and I didn't know how to ask him for the missing money...I was worried cause I didn't want to spoil our reputation. Omo I searched everywhere and didn't see the money so I was forced to ask him...the look on his face was that of disappointment. He said he didn't see the money. I became double worried, one for the missing money and two for breaking the trust/reputation. But who could have taken the money? At some point I started believing maybe I have spent the money unknowingly... grin

But alas, I found the money inside the hand of my suit jacket in the wardrobe. Meaning I mistakenly put it there instead of my suit inner breast pocket.

I told him I have found the money and apologized, but could still see the disappointing look on his face...I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.
I can imagine. I hope you two are still good?
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Kondomatic(m): 11:23am On Aug 09, 2021
Skyfornia:
I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.
I personally wouldn't have asked him.

I remember when I was new here, I was staying in a friend's house.

We both do the same work though his pay was almost twice as mine.

We used to return home mostly on Fridays, and once we arrived, we would drop certain amount in the wardrobe. Everybody knows the required amount.

The money was used for things done in the house that isn't personal. We would then hide our personal money elsewhere until Monday morning when would give it to our banker friend to deposit for us.

I wouldn't say it was hiding sef because we still knew where each person kept his.


He told me one day that a girl was coming and would pass the night. Someone he knew from way back was going somewhere and got stranded and asked if she could crash and continue in the morning.

She showed up minutes later with another guy. After greetings and all that, I went inside where I kept my money and took it, leaving just N1700 and some other changes there.

Day broke, they took their bathes and left. I checked the N1700 and it was gone, with all the changes. Checked the ones we jointly kept in the wardrobe and nothing nothing was there too.

It was a Monday morning so we took our bathes and left the house for work.

Nobody talked about it till today. We just acted like it never happened. He was sad the whole day though and hissed when I told her that the girl is beautiful.
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by debbydams(f): 11:36am On Aug 09, 2021
Kondomatic:
I personally wouldn't have asked him.

I remember when I was new here, I was staying in a friend's house.

We both do the same work though his pay was almost twice as mine.

We used to return home mostly on Fridays, and once we arrived, we would drop certain amount in the wardrobe. Everybody knows the required amount.

The money was used for things done in the house that isn't personal. We would then hide our personal money elsewhere until Monday morning when would give it to our banker friend to deposit for us.

I wouldn't say it was hiding sef because we still knew where each person kept his.


He told me one day that a girl was coming and would pass the night. Someone he knew from way back was going somewhere and got stranded and asked if she could crash and continue in the morning.

She showed up minutes later with another guy. After greetings and all that, I went inside where I kept my money and took it, leaving just N1700 and some other changes there.

Day broke, they took their bathes and left. I checked the N1700 and it was gone, with all the changes. Checked the ones we jointly kept in the wardrobe and nothing nothing was there too.

It was a Monday morning so we took our bathes and left the house for work.

Nobody talked about it till today. We just acted like it never happened. He was sad the whole day though and hissed when I told her that the girl is beautiful.
maturity grin
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Kondomatic(m): 11:57am On Aug 09, 2021
debbydams:
maturity grin
The wahala balance nah lol
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by neonly: 12:25pm On Aug 09, 2021
SporaD8:
Your in-law are heartless!
This is why as a Man, you must avoid see-finish at all cost anywhere your in-law are involved.
Best advice

Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Trace123: 12:31pm On Aug 09, 2021
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Vinnie2000(m): 12:56pm On Aug 09, 2021
Skyfornia:
Not a good experience...

I remember sometime ago a close relative visited me. Within two days of his visit, I started looking for 7k I kept in my suit pocket inside wardrobe, I saw the money a day before it got missing. In my family, the last thing anyone could be accused of is stealing, it is alien to us.

We were the only two people in the house and I didn't know how to ask him for the missing money...I was worried cause I didn't want to spoil our reputation. Omo I searched everywhere and didn't see the money so I was forced to ask him...the look on his face was that of disappointment. He said he didn't see the money. I became double worried, one for the missing money and two for breaking the trust/reputation. But who could have taken the money? At some point I started believing maybe I have spent the money unknowingly... grin

But alas, I found the money inside the hand of my suit jacket in the wardrobe. Meaning I mistakenly put it there instead of my suit inner breast pocket.

I told him I have found the money and apologized, but could still see the disappointing look on his face...I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.
You did NOTHING wrong by asking!!
You are just having doz Regrets for nothing.. undecided
Even if you are staying with Pope Francis, if your property misses, you should ask him.. sad
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Nobody: 1:06pm On Aug 09, 2021
Wahala for who dey date a person from stupid family.

Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by KingMack(m): 2:08pm On Aug 09, 2021
neonly:
Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk
Lala give that man a cold bottle of Heineken..I will pay later grin

Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by neonly: 2:12pm On Aug 09, 2021
KingMack:
Lala give that man a cold bottle of Heineken..I will pay later grin
Fortunately dat my brand nice one

Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by TheWolfen(m): 4:50pm On Aug 09, 2021
I just love the freedom to drop money anywhere without being worried bout it stolen by the next person
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Skyfornia(m): 5:34pm On Aug 09, 2021
Vinnie2000:
You did NOTHING wrong by asking!!
You are just having doz Regrets for nothing.. undecided
Even if you are staying with Pope Francis, if your property misses, you should ask him.. sad
You won't understand. Perhaps you don't know the meaning of integrity.
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Johnsown1(m): 5:54pm On Aug 09, 2021
Pat081:
Too bad but the problem is from your wife she should be the one to make sure you eat no matter how busy she will be
But was it his wife that asked him of 10k to buy drink
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Vinnie2000(m): 11:08pm On Aug 09, 2021
Skyfornia:
You won't understand. Perhaps you don't know the meaning of integrity.
My friend..
There is Nothing like Integrity there!
You are just being Afraid..

Even if the Person is the Pope or Sheik, @least you should ask
'Hello, you saw my Money?
He only has to say Yes or No!

But not asking@all is like Fear or cowardice, really!
Change dat Habit n be Brave oo!!

No harm meant, but Na your Type, Him Wife go Thief all him Money for Trouser pocket, he go dey Quiet! undecided sad
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Pat081: 6:20am On Aug 10, 2021
Johnsown1:
But was it his wife that asked him of 10k to buy drink
what are you saying nowhuh? Me and you can not answer that question, because the man did not tell us
Re: BE SINCERE!! If This Happens To You At Your In-law’s House – What Would You Do N by Skyfornia(m): 6:21am On Aug 10, 2021
Vinnie2000:
My friend..
There is Nothing like Integrity there!
You are just being Afraid..

Even if the Person is the Pope or Sheik, @least you should ask
'Hello, you saw my Money?
He only has to say Yes or No!

But not asking@all is like Fear or cowardice, really!
Change dat Habit n be Brave oo!!

No harm meant, but Na your Type, Him Wife go Thief all him Money for Trouser pocket, he go dey Quiet! undecided sad
If it works for you fine. Stick to it.
In my family...it doesn't work that way...nobody takes what does not belong to him. Don't worry about us... we're fine bro
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