engrchykae:
am tired of waiting,you know I am not the outing type,I come back from work and watch film or browse with phone.

I'm here engineer. send me a pm

scrolldown88:


I totally disagree with this. Marriage is not a standard to measure maturity or how responsible a person is. I'm not endorsing the OP play boy behavior, however there's lot of single people who are more responsible than some married folks. There's also a lot of married Playboy's, would you say they are highly responsible on account of them being married?
Besides this days we see people just in and out of married, or father children they can't care for, will you call that being matured/responsible?
And why most you take responsibility for another person. It's hard enough taking responsibility for your self and your immediate family. You can't shame a person for refusing to take up a leech.
Lol. So single men are not men because they aren't married?
This uneccessary pressure put on young people is the reason why we have broken homes littered all over.

Nice one...

Must we marry?

Abeg just born pikin make you rest after all you marry no mean Amway you go achieve anything for this life plus e no go carry you go heaven

yanabasee1:


Mumu.... I never said it measure maturity....


You idiots just read to quote and not to understand...


Gettat

Ode what does it mean for someone to have a childish mentality.

If you don't understand having a childish mentality as being mentally immature then you are even more immature than i thought.

You are the one who lacks understanding

RodgersAkpafu:

The OP is responsible for his choices
This is not a "West vs Africa" contest btw
Its about life choices and dealing with what comes with it

kaboninc:


All I'm really interested is that it's not an African mentality.

It's a global mentality. In Europe, Asia, in America and anywhere.

I never said it's an African vs Western thing or whatever. My reference to the West is based on the kind of comments especially those on the first page.

Me saying chicken comes home to roost implies he'll face the consequences of his actions in due time. Dem no dey telli person

Emmani360:

Ode what does it mean for someone to have a childish mentality.

If you don't understand having a childish mentality as being mentally immature then you are even more immature than i thought.

You are the one who lacks understanding

There are children that are more mature than some adults....

Maturity isn't all about being a child or an adult...

So thinking and reasoning like a child has absolutely nothing to do with maturity.... But exhibiting a child's mentality has everything to do with adolescence... "Not yet grown"


You need to go and read your books.... and study to become something great ... Because you have a childish mentality not to know what that means....

Chuky7:
Has anyone experienced this. This is where I find myself. And I keep getting talks like it's a bad thing. Talks like your last has married before you shouldn't you be ashamed. Some even go to extent of proclaiming abomination.

For me all this one's no concern me. I am a playboy at heart and will marry at my own time or not at all. Depends on how I feel.

Peace of Mind and Freedom is Priceless. Don't Take it away from me.

So have you had similar experience please share

It's your choice to marry or not, you are not getting married to impress anyone but to fullfil the cycle of a man

yanabasee1:


Well....



I am never the type who believes in divorce... I work to keep it going... And I tried to not make mistakes of chosing a partner...


I was raised by my parents who stayed married and never fought and my father never raise his hands on my mother... I admire that and I am going to be that type of man...

Marriage have it's ups and downs... Even relationship too..

But having the mindset to have it work and letting down your ego is what many people have refused to do...


I've visited my colleague during a weekend and I was surprised that he washes his wife clothes and he's a civil servant and makes money more than his wife...

He's no simp and believe me.....

Thank God for your humility however this generation lacks it. Though op looks like a womaniser, his mind is not made up. Should he get married, he will continue this habit to the detriment of his marriage.

edoairways:

Thank God for your humility however this generation lacks it. Though op looks like a womaniser, his mind is not made up. Should he get married, he will continue this habit to the detriment of his marriage.

People make mistake to take corrections...


My ex was taken from me by a divorced man... who did everything I couldn't do and everything he never did for his wife and won her heart from me...

Some mistake can be fixed... Some realize the mistake and fix it up before it'd break a marriage while some correct it with another woman...


Whichever the case may be... staying married isn't easy and I admire men who stay steadfast to it .....

When I grew up, it was a taboo of some sorts to marry a woman from a broken home... but all of that have changed...

yanabasee1:



Amongst your equal... yes!


You won't understand this until you have friends you hang out with and they get marrived and began to stay focus to raising a family....

Your analogy is very faulty. Marriage doesn't make one a man or matured.
I am married and i know this fact.

Henri8:
Your analogy is very faulty. Marriage doesn't make one a man or matured. I am married and i know this fact.

In essence, you're married and you're a boy and immature?

yanabasee1:



In essence, you're married and you're a boy and immature?

You are twisting it.
Do not assume every married man/woman is matured. Many are very immature while many singles are more mature in character than many married folks.

I believe English no too hard to understand.

BKsoul:
Enjoy your life the way you deem fit... When you get to 70years and your first child is 10years, and you are not able to handle the child like a father should, you sure would understand the sayings MAKE HAY WHILE SUN SHINES..

hello Crazy lady which year will u stop cussing people? u have cuss all the innocent people on Religion Sector for no reason & then u started cussin MyCork for becuz u cant find a man on nairaland
. Please groooowup!!!

Henri8:

You are twisting it.
Do not assume every married man/woman is matured. Many are very immature while many singles are more mature in character than many married folks.

I believe English no too hard to understand.

English language isn't that hard to understand if you learn to speak for yourself and not generalize your poi t of view...


In essence, you are married and you're a boy and not mature... and some unmarried folks are more mature than you are ... Right?

Because, the married men that I know are respectful and responsible and mature... Thank goodness don't know you...

yanabasee1:



English language isn't that hard to understand if you learn to speak for yourself and not generalize your poi t of view...


In essence, you are married and you're a boy and not mature... and some unmarried folks are more mature than you are ... Right?

Because, the married men that I know are respectful and responsible and mature... Thank goodness don't know you...

If you still want to be confusing yourself, you are welcome.
If you don't understand what "some" means, then i do not think we can continue this discussion.

Once again, not every married man is mature. Not every man that has beards is matured.