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We have been dating for 7 years now! We met at a very young age and and we have been dating since then. But few days ago we had a very huge quarrel and he stopped taking my calls or replying my text. And I am scared he is going to leave me! After 7 years!

Okay, what was the quarrel about? He saw me walking home with a guy and he asked me who the guy was and told him he was just a colleague at work. But that was not what annoyed him. What made him very upset was because he saw the guy hugging me before he left. I don’t know what made that guy hug me like that and I don’t know how to explain myself to my boyfriend. I don’t keep male friends but this guy is just a colleague from work who decided to escort me. I have nothing to do with him and I don’t know how to make my boyfriend understand.
Ever since then he has not been picking my call or answering my text. And I don’t know if he wants to end the relationship with me. I don’t want to lose him, we have been together for years.

-I have decided to give him some space to get over his anger and pain.

-I have apologized countless Times because I was wrong.

-I have promised not to repeat the mistake but I am really hurt that he has been ignoring me for so long.
How do I resolve this problem?
Source: https://www.xplorefeelings.com/how-to-fix-a-relationship-after-a-fight-7-essential-tips/

You see,this is same thing that broke my 4years relationship. Women and cheat are 5&6.

That is how it starts,a male friend but you allowed him hug you,and instead of you to admit that you were wrong,you decided to engage him in huge argument and still gave him space. What do you think was going through his mind all those while you gave him space?he feels you are already going out with the guy and that was why you ignored him.

This is same scenerio with mine,she keeps posting a particular guy she called her secondary school and childhood friend on Facebook and wishing him birthdays. But this is a girl that has never done same for me. Each time I inquire what she has with the guy ,she resorts to argument and baseless defenses.i first started giving her a silent treatment,she ignored me like someone telling me "go to hell". I reduced my call ,and she acted I don't care. Now she is begging to return after 3 months of breakup,I told her no. I brought up those nonsense she refused to discuss and she wants to discuss it now,I said "I am not interested".


Every time breakup occurs in a beautiful relationship,99.9% of the time,the fault came from the women and it is often infidelity.

Pierocash:
You see,this is same thing that broke my 4years relationship. Women and cheat are 5&6.

That is how it starts,a male friend but you allowed him hug you,and instead of you to admit that you were wrong,you decided to engage him in huge argument and still gave him space. What do you think was going through his mind all those while you gave him space?he feels you are already going out with the guy and that was why you ignored him.

This is same scenerio with mine,she keeps posting a particular guy she called her secondary school and childhood friend on Facebook and wishing him birthdays. But this is a girl that has never done same for me. Each time I inquire what she has with the guy ,she resorts to argument and baseless defenses.i first started giving her a silent treatment,she ignored me like someone telling me "go to hell". I reduced my call ,and she acted I don't care. Now she is begging to return after 3 months of breakup,I told her no. I brought up those nonsense she refused to discuss and she wants to discuss it now,I said "I am not interested".


Every time breakup occurs in a beautiful relationship,99.9% of the time,the fault came from the women and it is often infidelity.

that's how they are. they don't appreciate what they have until they lose it. they always prefer to learn the hard way. I experienced this as well

Pierocash:
You see,this is same thing that broke my 4years relationship. Women and cheat are 5&6.

That is how it starts,a male friend but you allowed him hug you,and instead of you to admit that you were wrong,you decided to engage him in huge argument and still gave him space. What do you think was going through his mind all those while you gave him space?he feels you are already going out with the guy and that was why you ignored him.

This is same scenerio with mine,she keeps posting a particular guy she called her secondary school and childhood friend on Facebook and wishing him birthdays. But this is a girl that has never done same for me. Each time I inquire what she has with the guy ,she resorts to argument and baseless defenses.i first started giving her a silent treatment,she ignored me like someone telling me "go to hell". I reduced my call ,and she acted I don't care. Now she is begging to return after 3 months of breakup,I told her no. I brought up those nonsense she refused to discuss and she wants to discuss it now,I said "I am not interested".


Every time breakup occurs in a beautiful relationship,99.9% of the time,the fault came from the women and it is often infidelity.

Apt!
People feel just apologising would resolve some issues
Reading what she did, it reeks manipulation
Since you knew you were wrong why argue?
7 years you no wan wise
LMAO

How do y'all even date for that long? Even 6 months is sometimes long

He hugged you cause he likes you, you might have a feeling for this new guy maybe you just haven't discovered....

You don't have to keep calling if he isn't responding...

Summarize the story for me it's to let ng

Just talking from your topic , number of years doesn't mean the relationship will last

Your boyfriend of 40 years can think about leaving you within minutes so be wise and be conscious of what you sacrifice in any relationship....