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Ok. So let's name her Nene.

Nene suddenly starts coming to you (you can't even recall what brought the closeness), showing all the greens, checking on you, calls, sms, even at a point cooked for you and brought it to workplace even when you've earlier told her you really aren't ready for a relationship.

You don't really accept gifts because you understand every gifts come with an agendum. Maybe your stereotype.


Now, Nene isn't a bad influence. But you definitely know these good energies when not reciprocated is hurting...and you aren't intentioned to hurt anyone because you have told her you are not ready for anything.

Nene also buys gifts and all that...when she's returning from work almost everyday. She's jealous when you receive calls she suspects are females...even when majority are your customers or sisters.

Sometimes, you've noticed the jealousy makes her stands and decides to leave that moment.


Nene is a very beautiful lady. She has a beautiful character too. Past records show she is one of those few sorts who upheld the pride of womanhood.

On your side, you want just a friendship level.

You aren't scared of marriage but you want to take your time to choose wisely...you still want to build on things you call achievements....until, you received a direct text message from Nene professing those feelings she thinks you aren't noticing and are selfish about (sic).



How do you undo this without hurting or being rude? Remember you have already made it clear you really aren't ready for it initially.

Dear Nene,
I want to appreciate all the love and care that you have shown and are showing for me. I am really greatful.
I received your DM and to be honest I appreciate that you came out and laid down your feelings black and white. You are a beautiful lady with a beautiful soul. However, I don't think I am the perfect fit for you. I still have alot to work on and I don't see myself being ready for a relationship anytime soon and most importantly it wouldn't be fair to lead you on.
I will appreciate that our friendship still remains but at the same time I will also understand if you decide not not to continue the friendship.
I know it's heartbreaking but you will be fine.

Your friend,
James.

That's not hard.. Build a big wall when conversing with Nene.

Stop giving her the attention she needed...

No force in love, if it's not natural, then it's fake

Damnnn niggar
Typical of a pussy ass niggar...

Ogbeni op Is a pussy ass niggar

Nene way you go remove her skirt bang shaperly before the green light go start to dim or off...na im you dey come here dey ask questions

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Typical of a pussy ass niggar

Ladies are not the only one with monopoly of rejecting relationship proposal..

Real big boys/Men do turn down ladies proposals as well

I don't know.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Typical of a pussy ass niggar...

Ogbeni op Is a pussy ass niggar

Nene way you go remove her skirt bang shaperly before the green light go start to dim or off...na im you dey come here dey ask questions

Btw, the author of the circumstance above is not your type of guy. He isn't the sort to count trophies. He is one who believes in what is right, and no to premarital sex.

I hope Oris sends this message slowly.

Exhaust, cool down fa. Maka cough. Remember doctors are on strike.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Typical of a pussy ass niggar...

Ogbeni op Is a pussy ass niggar

Nene way you go remove her skirt bang shaperly before the green light go start to dim or off...na im you dey come here dey ask questions

No mind dey Gee, e been think say na inside Z world we dey.

Spicylate:
Dear Nene,
I want to appreciate all the love and care that you have shown and are showing for me. I am really greatful.
I received your DM and to be honest I appreciate that you came out and laid down your feelings black and white. You are a beautiful lady with a beautiful soul. However, I don't think I am the perfect fit for you. I still have alot to work on and I don't see myself being ready for a relationship anytime soon and most importantly it wouldn't be fair to lead you on.
I will appreciate that our friendship still remains but at the same time I will also understand if you decide not not to continue the friendship.
I know it's heartbreaking but you will be fine.

Your friend,
James.

This is very thoughtful of you.

Here was a similar sth written:

Nene,

If there was a lady to be chosen for friendship, it would be you. You are every guy's dreams.

You remember what I said earlier? I only want to date when I'm one step already for marriage, which I am not at the moment. I still have an mesurable amount of time to do things I wish to do before settling down, of course, which begins with dating as I know then..but not now.

It's a black letter, yeah, I also regret it.



I appreciate your every moment. I may have not said it but you are one of those moments in the memory books.

Please be fine, and understand.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Typical of a pussy ass niggar...

Ogbeni op Is a pussy ass niggar

Nene way you go remove her skirt bang shaperly before the green light go start to dim or off...na im you dey come here dey ask questions

Everything is not always all about banging niqqa. No be trophy. There's more to life than just banging of pussy. Shit is overrated fr

Monogamy:
That's not hard.. Build a big wall when conversing with Nene.

Stop giving her the attention she needed...

No force in love, if it's not natural, then it's fake

Now, this is what I call a nice comment.

Nevertheless, you know, Nene could be very clingy and blanked with the notion that the guy is playing hard to get. The more man is running afar, the closer the laws of chemistry becomes.

You got that, yeah?

brosom:
No mind dey Gee, e been think say na inside Z world we dey.

You've pricked your humanity, man.

Bleep off you redpiller. Simple!

chatinent:
You've pricked your humanity, man.

.Stop talking sh*t, kid u know nothing!

brosom:
.Stop talking sh*t, kid u know nothing!

Sex is sth right?

Ok sir. I respect your sex award now.

chatinent:
Sex is sth right?

Ok sir. I respect your sex award now.

Yes, when it's legal.

brosom:
Yes, when it's legal.

Legal is marriage.


In marriage, I don't mind having it like doctor's vitamin c prescription..(14 times in the morning, 3 time daily...but not premaritally.


Lalasticlala, do you agree?

I think it's better to say it outrightly to her that you don't want her

chatinent:
Now, this is what I call a nice comment.

Nevertheless, you know, Nene could be very clingy and blanked with the notion that the guy is playing hard to get. The more man is running afar, the closer the laws of chemistry becomes.

You got that, yeah?

You aren't scared of marriage but you want to take your time to choose wisely...you still want to build on things you call achievements

Which should be priority? Hard to get or the plans about future plans?

Monogamy:
Which should be priority? Hard to get or the plans about future plans?

Gbamsolutely.

Just say it out to her.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Typical of a pussy ass niggar...

Ogbeni op Is a pussy ass niggar

Nene way you go remove her skirt bang shaperly before the green light go start to dim or off...na im you dey come here dey ask questions

Kai!
Dis damn Niggar ehn..
Very Funny!!

U don't know dat you can't Fcvk some kind Girls and Leave!!
She will Hound and Haunt you till d end of Time!..

Na 4 Nollywood Dix 1 de happen ahbi

knack nene comot body, no dey do somehow

Vinnie2000:
Kai!
Dis damn Niggar ehn..
Very Funny!!

U don't know dat you can't Fcvk some kind Girls and Leave!!
She will Hound and Haunt you till d end of Time!..

You wanna leave Exhaust and speak your mind?

Lalasticlala come comment o

younglleo:
knack nene comot body, no dey do somehow

Carpenter, well done sah.

Finally we don catch one of those people weh dey help write company rejection emails after applying for a job

Spicylate:
Dear Nene,
I want to appreciate all the love and care that you have shown and are showing for me. I am really greatful.
I received your DM and to be honest I appreciate that you came out and laid down your feelings black and white. You are a beautiful lady with a beautiful soul. However, I don't think I am the perfect fit for you. I still have alot to work on and I don't see myself being ready for a relationship anytime soon and most importantly it wouldn't be fair to lead you on.
I will appreciate that our friendship still remains but at the same time I will also understand if you decide not not to continue the friendship.
I know it's heartbreaking but you will be fine.

Your friend,
James.

Lmfao

majorgr:
Finally we don catch one of those people weh dey help write company rejection emails after applying for a job