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Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Nobody: 9:56am On Aug 25, 2021

No matter how much u love someone or feel committed about a relationship, give it less attention than u do for urself, friends and ur family.

There is a reason why this is important. It is important because you are more important than any relationship... your intellectual, physical, psychological, mental, financial, and spiritual wellbeing is more important than the person u are dating... ur family is more important than any relationship. Your social circle is as well more important.

If a relationship threatens the interests, unity or peace in ur family or social circle, cut it off !!!

Relationships has the capacity to leave you broken, empty and battered if you pay better attention to it than you do with other more important aspects of your life...

A relationship can drain you from all your energies and time especially if you are not well schooled on how to handle one.

There are not much first love stories with a happily ever after endings... meaning there is usually a snag of heartbreaks in about 99.9% of first relationships around the world... this also means that every one has got at least one Ex to cry about at some point.

The fact that people start relationships and finally end up as an Ex is enough reason to channel your energies into something that is everlasting, Like self-development, investing, making money, and solving problem through ideas, inventions and innovations.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Nobody: 9:57am On Aug 25, 2021*

Lalasticlala abeg loud this thing cheesy

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by iamtardey: 10:08am On Aug 25, 2021

He let what we had die young tho cry

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 25, 2021*

iamtardey:
He let what we had die young tho

it was designed to die young... it's inevitable.

You dont start a relationship as though it will never end. It is advisable to prepare and be ready for heartbreaks and disappointments before going into one.

Falling in love helplessly without our senses is the dumbest thing ever. Cos what love does to you is that it leaves u feeling worthless in the end after enslaving you and depriving you from paying attention to other aspects of your young life.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by iamtardey: 11:42am On Aug 25, 2021

Oh lord I'm gon die cry

BadRadio:
it was designed to die young... it's inevitable.

You dont start a relationship as though it will never end. It is advisable to prepare and be ready for heartbreaks and disappointments before going into one.

Falling in love helplessly without our senses is the dumbest things ever. Cos what love does to you is that it leaves u feeling worthless in the end after enslaving you and depriving you from paying attention to other aspects of your young life.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Sonnobax15(m): 1:25pm On Aug 25, 2021

I'd rather channel the time I'd spend in any so-called relationship into hustling my assss out...

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Nobody: 2:06pm On Aug 25, 2021

iamtardey:
Oh lord I'm gon die

lol... dont die grin

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Nobody: 2:11pm On Aug 25, 2021*

Na so

You don't have to force anything because what will be will be. I will pick F&F over romantic relationship.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by socialmediaman: 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2021

This is very true, especially for those who describe themselves as jealous lovers, not knowing how toxic that could be or how much threat that could pose to their mental health and the well being of their spouses

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Pickieox(m): 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2021

You will soon come back with "Nairaland help, there is a girl I'm dating presently...."

Talking is cheap...if you like, no practise what work best for you...

cheesy

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by slawormiir: 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2021

Damnnn niggar
Bros op must be a real niggar and at the same time....he also sound like some one recovering from a devastating heart break

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by KingAzari: 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2021

Nothing comes in between my happiness and wellbeing.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by HEBEI: 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2021

The worst relationship is the one you enter with zombies. They have no direction shocked

As soon as you discover that he or she is a zombie, quite the relationship.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by KingOfAllIgbos: 2:17pm On Aug 25, 2021

Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Chijeep(m): 2:17pm On Aug 25, 2021

Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by FalseProphet1(m): 2:17pm On Aug 25, 2021

By 2023 girls will be the ones begging guys to marry them cos guys are going to be tired of their deceit, men will go exteint no thanks to police murders, hunger, accidents, Buhari's fulani relatives and other vices.

I see the book of Isaiah 4:1 becoming a reality, men who will be alive till then will enjoy true marriage cos all you'll have to do is to have sex with your different wives from morning till evening without thinking about how to provide for them, they will be the ones providing for you. Isn't that wonderful brethern?

This I have seen.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by fourboys: 2:17pm On Aug 25, 2021

Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Karta859: 2:17pm On Aug 25, 2021

Lala abeg loud this topic it is very important because why would you go into relationship with someone you can’t vibe with or someone that wants you to change just to please him/her ... wo everybody should rest abeg

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by falseprophet: 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2021

Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Antoeni(m): 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2021

Fighting For a Man is a waste of time because he's going to sleep with the winner today and the loser tomorrow. Fight for Your career and future, the right Man will fight for you.

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by FILEBE(m): 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2021*

Why begin a relationship if you aren't hoping it will lead to marriage?

Normalise defining relationships. If na Fling u want,Fling am . If na marriage u want.. work towards it . If na Benefits ... make unna Benefit una sef.

That way you guys already know what u are in for. Nothing like heartbreak

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Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by PericomaNwankwo: 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2021

Re: Here Is Why You Don't Have To Get Yourself Worked Up About Any Relationship by Justcruella: 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2021*

Why start something that you don't hope to see to a logical conclusion?

When a purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable...

So because people have accident and die, we should all stop using transport? Guess what? You will still die, lol

Everything is a risk, life is a risk. All is fair in love and war...

We all have our stories, that shouldn't stop us from moving on...

If it doesn't work out, it's alright, it really hurts. Wipe your eyes and move on, then try again...

It's worth it

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