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Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by fykes(m): 2:03pm On Sep 07, 2021
My brother its not every employer...early this year i turned down an opportunity with a firm in Lagos lekki.
It was painful to turn it down cos it was a perfect project mgt job for me...Lagos, Ghana, CV...engineering servicing firm, however the pain was that I wasn't going to work with the woman that reached out to me...she was so humane and I knew at once I will grow and develop working with such person. An operations manager....a times I still think of how different her approach was to interview and negotiations from all the other managers I ever met...

Alas today, I'm an employer and her influence though short, taught me a big lesson. Then I just started my firm, so I chose to grow it rather than seek employment again. Today I'm working on expansion but that lady...I saved her number and follow her on linkdein
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by lolu2019: 2:05pm On Sep 07, 2021
Ruggman:
" I collected my CV and worked away", clap for yourself , You have gotten the job you so much crave for.
You lack humility and courtesy, you only told everything bad about her and you an angel.
Whenever I come across people who easily condemn and find fualt with other people, I always treat them with caution.
The woman's action could be a way of testing your manners, temperament and character as a would be role model and teacher of kids who are impressionable and copycats and you failed from the first word.
Ask yourself if the woman is that bad how come she is running a highly successful business that you envy and wish to work for.
You woefully failed the interview, you must change your manners to qualify to teach and mould young lives.
check ur fault spelling.it is fault not fualt.HR.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Richy4(m):
descarado:
I wouldn't employ you if I'm the owner.
You are too proud and arrogant.

Wonder how you will be in real life if you write with so much pride and arrogance.


And yes, there is no set rule for conducting interview. Unscheduled interview is always the best.
He was there to offer services in exchange for money..... He was not there to beg. You should understand the difference first before speaking of arrogance... That principal has attitude problems... U can't disrespect someone like that...

if she doesn't want him, all she has to do is to say that they were not hiring at the moment.. that he should keep his CV if he wishes incase of future openings..

High rate of unemployment in Nigeria has made it now look like an employer is doing the employee a big favour...in real life or in any normal society, it's not so.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Philip4564(m): 2:12pm On Sep 07, 2021
descarado:
You are supposed to switch off your phone.
You are at work.
Ring your mum during your break time or take permission if there was an urgent mater prior to that day or time.
You guys lack training in preparation to the work community.
I will sack you myself.
Nonsense.

Na only you get mum.
Go and let your mum pay you.
Nigerian workers are simply like Nigerian politicians. They have disregards for laws, rules and regulations yet they scream and shout at politicians
Do that outside and you will receive warning,query suspension and sack
I keep learning on nairaland everyday another lesson learnt.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by humilitypays(m): 2:14pm On Sep 07, 2021
valETA1:
What a principal did to me in her school.
It was all rainy, as I stepped out to submit my long postponed application at a school I've always wanted to work for, if I should ever decide to go teach.

Undoubtedly one of the best secondary schools in my city of residence, from structures to school facilities and staff remuneration, I'll be very careful not to mention name. I made sure I stepped out like a responsible person, in character and in learning. On reaching the school premises, I met a staff who directed me to where I can do the submission and subsequently write my name in the register.

As I was about leaving, I saw a long time class mate, who happened to b a staff of the institution, the last time I saw that guy was in Jss3, so came the normal tradition of greeting a long time pal, exchanging pleasantries in happiness. Unfortunately the Principal who happens to be d owner of the school came out and met us discussing, what then transpired, no one will want such as an experience I'll still share it anyway...
The principal looking very angered came at us, pointed at me, asking who I was, that am discussing with her staff inside the school while he was on duty. (Pls...not that school have resumed o).

She then threw a lot of questions at me, after I told her my motive there. Like where and how I knew my class mate that am sharing the same hair cut which she's always against and have warned him about( my hair cut is a low afro-style,cut, not the long type). she asked abt my type of qualification if its HND or BSC, I replied BSC which according to her still gave me opportunity to borrow more time in d premise. She then demanded she look into my CV. after glancing thru, that's how my interview started, she then requested a Geography question templates from her office.

If they actually told me interview was the day, to be honest, I would av disobliged, thinking am not ready. But at that point I was consumed with anger, I wanted proving to her that though hunger is real in this administration, but it doesn't take away brains. To the best of my knowledge I replied correctly like 95% of her questions, all thanks to their mediocre kind of Geography questions, except the ones I even had to correct them about.

The most annoying thing here is her manner and tone of communication, very disgusting, disrespectful and filled with hate. As if I came to beg. The last straw was, after defeating her question she then brough a map work, and refused giving me a common material like ruler. It was then I told her its not possible.

As I expected she'll fix a date for it so I can come with my tools, for God's sake I came just to submit my application. It was then she started saying a whole lot, that pple like me,just like most of her staffs can't and won't last with her for 2months. Why should I discuss in official hour, (when school haven't resumed, no teaching whatsoever going on). So I demanded she gave me back my file which had my Application letter, CV and photocopied documents in it and left.

My question are these: Employers pls... why do you advertise for workers when actually u]you are sure you don't want to employ.

Why do u think its a favour u do to pple when employing

Did u not start somewhere b4 ur present status.

I must confess, this is an establishment i've loved, still loves and will love to work with if given opporunity, even after the mishap, bt Its a pity I had to witness such, I don't know if to call it ill-luck, BT the scenario have risen the hate in me towards serving sm1, to see, the best in self development in d midst of mediocre/no jobs. I am sad.
This is not common with all employers, it is most common with Nigerian female employers and in fact black female employers in general.


I am an employer myself and I give utmost respect to even the cleaner because I believe tomorrow is bigger than anybody. IBB wouldn't have believed that many years later, Terrorist Buhari will become President while he is bed ridden.



OBJ couldn't have believed same.


It is mostly female bosses that show the worst form of attitude to their subordinates and staffs, especially black women, and more rampant among Nigerian women.



This does not absolve Nigerian male employers of being rude to employees, but it is more common among female bosses, when they manage to succeed in life, they become too proud and wicked in heart, the reason for this I don't know.

The worst person to work for in life is a black female boss, you will experience hell on earth. Very wicked creatures.


Sometimes when I observe how my admin officer relates with the rest of the staffs below her, I just shake my head and wonder why Nigerian women are naturally wicked once they feel they are better than others.

Same applies to Nigerian ladies that manage to marry rich men.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by lolu2019: 2:17pm On Sep 07, 2021
mikedanza:
The corporate environment is cut-throat at best. You must be ready at all times when job hunting. And don't get angry too fast by collecting your cv back, while her attitude was not appealing yours wasn't perfect either



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Lf3WhsByAk

https://youtube.com/shorts/7nO0SISgL0Q?feature=share
yeah,he shouldn't have.just make another photocopies.shikena.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Web2020: 2:20pm On Sep 07, 2021
chii8:
Most times, private school owners feels they are doing you a favour, they want you to worship them and freeze at any time they appear.Mind you, you may even be more qualified than them.The country have no known association that appears to fight for the rights of private school teachers.....
Go and work and stop complaining. Better still, open your own organisation and others examples. Come back here and tell us your experience with Nigeria workers with your Mr Nice.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by pixey(m): 2:44pm On Sep 07, 2021
lomaxx:
She was probably testing how you’d respond under pressure. You have to learn how to take control of employer-employee conversations. It’s an art. She was already with your file. You didn’t need to ask for it back. It could as well have been banter around your subject matter (which you admittedly outperformed).

And even if she hates you, she doesnt hate your competence. Which is why she still retained your application until you asked for it back.

I know say country rough, but you have to be level headed and learn not to take things personally
How would you know that? See talk ! He came there to work and not to asslick his employer.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Classickj(m): 2:47pm On Sep 07, 2021
I hate Proprietress


I prefer Woking with proprietor than Proprietress


I find it very difficult working with female boss, they are so bossy
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by UyaiIncomparabl(f):
descarado:
I wouldn't employ you if I'm the owner.
You are too proud and arrogant.

Wonder how you will be in real life if you write with so much pride and arrogance.


And yes, there is no set rule for conducting interview. Unscheduled interview is always the best.
What do you have to say about the employer too? No comments? Is she faultless? You don't realise how people can be pushed to be nasty. In as much as the guy acted a bit out of courtesy and was too hasty, the employer isn't exempted.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Xscape1993(m): 3:09pm On Sep 07, 2021
valETA1:
What a principal did to me in her school.
It was all rainy, as I stepped out to submit my long postponed application at a school I've always wanted to work for, if I should ever decide to go teach.

Undoubtedly one of the best secondary schools in my city of residence, from structures to school facilities and staff remuneration, I'll be very careful not to mention name. I made sure I stepped out like a responsible person, in character and in learning. On reaching the school premises, I met a staff who directed me to where I can do the submission and subsequently write my name in the register.

As I was about leaving, I saw a long time class mate, who happened to b a staff of the institution, the last time I saw that guy was in Jss3, so came the normal tradition of greeting a long time pal, exchanging pleasantries in happiness. Unfortunately the Principal who happens to be d owner of the school came out and met us discussing, what then transpired, no one will want such as an experience I'll still share it anyway...
The principal looking very angered came at us, pointed at me, asking who I was, that am discussing with her staff inside the school while he was on duty. (Pls...not that school have resumed o).

She then threw a lot of questions at me, after I told her my motive there. Like where and how I knew my class mate that am sharing the same hair cut which she's always against and have warned him about( my hair cut is a low afro-style,cut, not the long type). she asked abt my type of qualification if its HND or BSC, I replied BSC which according to her still gave me opportunity to borrow more time in d premise. She then demanded she look into my CV. after glancing thru, that's how my interview started, she then requested a Geography question templates from her office.

If they actually told me interview was the day, to be honest, I would av disobliged, thinking am not ready. But at that point I was consumed with anger, I wanted proving to her that though hunger is real in this administration, but it doesn't take away brains. To the best of my knowledge I replied correctly like 95% of her questions, all thanks to their mediocre kind of Geography questions, except the ones I even had to correct them about.

The most annoying thing here is her manner and tone of communication, very disgusting, disrespectful and filled with hate. As if I came to beg. The last straw was, after defeating her question she then brough a map work, and refused giving me a common material like ruler. It was then I told her its not possible.

As I expected she'll fix a date for it so I can come with my tools, for God's sake I came just to submit my application. It was then she started saying a whole lot, that pple like me,just like most of her staffs can't and won't last with her for 2months. Why should I discuss in official hour, (when school haven't resumed, no teaching whatsoever going on). So I demanded she gave me back my file which had my Application letter, CV and photocopied documents in it and left.

My question are these: Employers pls... why do you advertise for workers when actually u]you are sure you don't want to employ.

Why do u think its a favour u do to pple when employing

Did u not start somewhere b4 ur present status.

I must confess, this is an establishment i've loved, still loves and will love to work with if given opporunity, even after the mishap, bt Its a pity I had to witness such, I don't know if to call it ill-luck, BT the scenario have risen the hate in me towards serving sm1, to see, the best in self development in d midst of mediocre/no jobs. I am sad.
Keep pushing bro. Let nothing stops you from getting to the top. Greatness is in every man.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Babaheekmat: 3:12pm On Sep 07, 2021
Bosses are different.

No matter what the institution it is
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Nobody: 3:21pm On Sep 07, 2021
lomaxx:
She was probably testing how you’d respond under pressure. You have to learn how to take control of employer-employee conversations. It’s an art. She was already with your file. You didn’t need to ask for it back. It could as well have been banter around your subject matter (which you admittedly outperformed).

And even if she hates you, she doesnt hate your competence. Which is why she still retained your application until you asked for it back.

I know say country rough, but you have to be level headed and learn not to take things personally
It's people like you who have allowed such culture to remain.

Stooges that society have rebranded as being "humble".
If people like you continue to exist, all our rights will eventually be thinned away
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Nobody: 3:22pm On Sep 07, 2021
descarado:
I wouldn't employ you if I'm the owner.
You are too proud and arrogant.

Wonder how you will be in real life if you write with so much pride and arrogance.


And yes, there is no set rule for conducting interview. Unscheduled interview is always the best.
Myopic thinking.
Men, your reasoning disgusts me.

You are singlehandedly drawing the entire society back. I greet you o
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by VTJN(m): 3:58pm On Sep 07, 2021
ipobarethieves:
sad sad She's the owner of the school,no wonder.That's how they behave.Even Ur friend that supposed introduced u proper to the mama nah Dunc* aka Sule sad..The mama prefer dumb teacher she go control/press like remote.If u dey Lagos pm me make I take u go chrisland college, Lekki/ the Ambassadors,OTA.
Do you mind linking me up with the Ambassador Ota sir?

I'd be grateful if you can sir. Thanks
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Bngf: 3:58pm On Sep 07, 2021
What
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by chii8(f): 4:42pm On Sep 07, 2021
Web2020:
Go and work and stop complaining. Better still, open your own organisation and others examples. Come back here and tell us your experience with Nigeria workers with your Mr Nice.
My dear,you mustn't agree with my assertion, just move on.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by leketon: 4:47pm On Sep 07, 2021
valETA1:
What a principal did to me in her school.
It was all rainy, as I stepped out to submit my long postponed application at a school I've always wanted to work for, if I should ever decide to go teach.

Undoubtedly one of the best secondary schools in my city of residence, from structures to school facilities and staff remuneration, I'll be very careful not to mention name. I made sure I stepped out like a responsible person, in character and in learning. On reaching the school premises, I met a staff who directed me to where I can do the submission and subsequently write my name in the register.

As I was about leaving, I saw a long time class mate, who happened to b a staff of the institution, the last time I saw that guy was in Jss3, so came the normal tradition of greeting a long time pal, exchanging pleasantries in happiness. Unfortunately the Principal who happens to be d owner of the school came out and met us discussing, what then transpired, no one will want such as an experience I'll still share it anyway...
The principal looking very angered came at us, pointed at me, asking who I was, that am discussing with her staff inside the school while he was on duty. (Pls...not that school have resumed o).

She then threw a lot of questions at me, after I told her my motive there. Like where and how I knew my class mate that am sharing the same hair cut which she's always against and have warned him about( my hair cut is a low afro-style,cut, not the long type). she asked abt my type of qualification if its HND or BSC, I replied BSC which according to her still gave me opportunity to borrow more time in d premise. She then demanded she look into my CV. after glancing thru, that's how my interview started, she then requested a Geography question templates from her office.

If they actually told me interview was the day, to be honest, I would av disobliged, thinking am not ready. But at that point I was consumed with anger, I wanted proving to her that though hunger is real in this administration, but it doesn't take away brains. To the best of my knowledge I replied correctly like 95% of her questions, all thanks to their mediocre kind of Geography questions, except the ones I even had to correct them about.

The most annoying thing here is her manner and tone of communication, very disgusting, disrespectful and filled with hate. As if I came to beg. The last straw was, after defeating her question she then brough a map work, and refused giving me a common material like ruler. It was then I told her its not possible.

As I expected she'll fix a date for it so I can come with my tools, for God's sake I came just to submit my application. It was then she started saying a whole lot, that pple like me,just like most of her staffs can't and won't last with her for 2months. Why should I discuss in official hour, (when school haven't resumed, no teaching whatsoever going on). So I demanded she gave me back my file which had my Application letter, CV and photocopied documents in it and left.

My question are these: Employers pls... why do you advertise for workers when actually u]you are sure you don't want to employ.

Why do u think its a favour u do to pple when employing

Did u not start somewhere b4 ur present status.

I must confess, this is an establishment i've loved, still loves and will love to work with if given opporunity, even after the mishap, bt Its a pity I had to witness such, I don't know if to call it ill-luck, BT the scenario have risen the hate in me towards serving sm1, to see, the best in self development in d midst of mediocre/no jobs. I am sad.
God shall take you to where He prepared for you. Don't be dismayed...
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by emonis88: 4:49pm On Sep 07, 2021
Well from ur description , the person is a female, I m always weary when doing anything with a female, especially if she holds all d cards, n u r a male. U go hear am.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Psoul(m): 5:13pm On Sep 07, 2021
5ThChild:
Op valETA1 space your content into 3 or 4 sentences per paragraph. This will aid people willing to read the article no matter how long it is.
Do you know that there are rules that paragraphing must obey.

So, he will have to break those rule because there are lazy ppl that are too lazy to read?
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by aysnoopy(m): 5:47pm On Sep 07, 2021
fykes:
My brother its not every employer...early this year i turned down an opportunity with a firm in Lagos lekki.
It was painful to turn it down cos it was a perfect project mgt job for me...Lagos, Ghana, CV...engineering servicing firm, however the pain was that I wasn't going to work with the woman that reached out to me...she was so humane and I knew at once I will grow and develop working with such person. An operations manager....a times I still think of how different her approach was to interview and negotiations from all the other managers I ever met...

Alas today, I'm an employer and her influence though short, taught me a big lesson. Then I just started my firm, so I chose to grow it rather than seek employment again. Today I'm working on expansion but that lady...I saved her number and follow her on linkdein
What is your organisation all about? Are you an engr? I need job that's why I'm asking
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by yemi1504: 5:51pm On Sep 07, 2021
Tokskob2008:
Meeting indeed!! He was owing all staffs over 2months salary all in the name of the school building has to be completed and look beautifully well to his taste and the gathering was to remind us about that. The call of the one who spent her time and money right from baby even still up to that particular moment should have waited while the I give my undisturbed attention to an idiot who plays god over his staffshuh NO! NO! NO!
You are even replying to these d0lts? All these their shakara na because jobs no dey! Shikena!
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by tosinhtml: 5:58pm On Sep 07, 2021
world123:
Most organisations do not want to employ someone who already has a an existing relationship with a staff. So next time, when see somebody you know at a place you intend to work, please look away. Don't even behave like you know them if you really want the job.
Spot on, I went to an Interview where I surprisingly saw my former lecturer at Technical School as one of my Interviewers . He and other seniors interviewed me, I just looked away as if I have never seen him before. Answered all his questions with straight face and seriousness.

I called his phone later greeting him & we laughed, he told me "Boy you are wise" grin
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by 5ThChild: 6:14pm On Sep 07, 2021
Psoul:
Do you know that there are rules that paragraphing must obey.

So, he will have to break those rule because there are lazy ppl that are too lazy to read?
You are a baby. What do you know about copywriting
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Blackfriday: 6:19pm On Sep 07, 2021
CelestineNelson:
Humble your self and go back there...
Why?
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by placeofallure(f): 6:19pm On Sep 07, 2021
OP, sorry about this. Everything good will come.

This is nothing about the situation of the country. This particular woman is just plain ill-mannered, arrogant and bossy. There's nothing you'll ever do to satisfy such people. They're just difficult by nature.

I work in a private school, I earn 6 figures: it may seem much considering our mentality but you will earn the money. The school is not owned by one person, it's owned by a group of people so no one person can exactly victimise you. The School director, an employee herself, is a grand witch from Oz but I showed her craze. I know my onions, I'm good at what I do, I am thorough and dutiful, highly resourceful. I can't be all of that then you will still witch-hunt me on top. She doesn't like you to look good. That's my offence. She even said it to my face, that here no be bank, imagine! But as soon as I know that she couldn't single handedly sack me, Oh!!!! Even my immediate boss, I dey hold him to ransom anytime he misbehaves.

I like the fact that you collected your documents. Don't ever take shit from anyone. Once you take it, the cycle never breaks. A better opportunity will come.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Blackfriday: 6:24pm On Sep 07, 2021
derbykol:
All private establishments.
Not all private establishment....am proud to say I work with an organization that has one of the best people culture.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by alexola20(m): 6:33pm On Sep 07, 2021
Many people will still treat other people below them,maybe worse than this when they get to the top,most especiallythe Africans.
mignone:
Anyway, I'll say it's a life lesson to you. Remember this when tables turn cos many of such people were once in your shoes.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by AmuRubber(m): 6:42pm On Sep 07, 2021
VTJN:
Do you mind linking me up with the Ambassador Ota sir?

I'd be grateful if you can sir. Thanks
Kindly direct your request to the owner of Nairaland, his father owns the said school.
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by Goldiness: 7:05pm On Sep 07, 2021
Oktane:
Very immodest statement here.
I think in order to understand the real problem here you need to procure a full length mirror. It will deal with this matter once and for all.
What is this mumu talking about abeg
Re: Why Do Employers Do This. What Happened To Me With A Principal by VTJN(m): 7:07pm On Sep 07, 2021
AmuRubber:
Kindly direct your request to the owner of Nairaland, his father owns the said school.
Thank you for your input
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