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shogsman:
My little sister is 26 years old,this is a very articulate, beautiful,eloquent masters degree holder who was born and raised up in naija at least for the most part.for the sake of privacy I aiint going to get into too much details, just enough to show why I am suspecting her.
I watched this girl grow up in a normal typical yoruba household with 3 Male siblings and to my best of knowledge she's always got boys at her heels yearning for her attention as early as 17years of age which was about the time she was preparing to go to college.
What I've always known about her relationship is that she was never really committed to them,it was always a matter of convenience for her,but I just thought she was just different and biding her time.
This is a girl that has never seen any man as attractive no matter how much we or I pry,but like I said we never thought anything of it.
She went to Shreveport,USA for her bsc and ultimately her msc for almost 8years.
Like a responsible big brother I look her up time to time to check up on her and try to see what is going on with her life,because we happen to be the closest in the family, what I notice is that there is always a particular caucasian girl in the background whenever I Skype her which was once in a month at least .
At first I thought it was just a friend crashing at her place because I know she doesn't have a roommate she doesn't live in a frat house or even in school ,but this two seems particularly close cos they post pictures and pretty much everything together.
To burst the bubble, a couple of weeks ago she came back here for a wellness check or an holiday so we really connected, I haven't seen her in like 2 years so we had a lot to talk about which most definitely include relationship talks.but of course she just got back and I have to let her breathe first because my sister loves her space, she's not really the talkative kind.
A couple of days went by she came to my house to spend the night,she wanted to pay for a delivery online, poor girl thought her accounts will work here seamlessly but unfortunately the payment didn't go through so I took her phone to find a way around it.
Curiosity had me so I strolled into her gallery to find pictures of a sexy tall blonde replicating all over the phone, this pictures were personal pictures if I might add,I felt guilty for denying them their privacy but I was curious still so i checked messages, emails etc and yeah my suspicions were true.
This particular girl calls her like 3 times a day,they pretty much talk all the time really, it was during one of this calls I asked my sister who she was, she answered that it's just someone close to her back in the states, I slipped up and told her about the pictures so she got angry and left which was understandable.
What I deduced from their chats and all is that they've been dating for 5 years now and their relationship is pretty much open because my sister is in contact with both of the girl's parent.
Eventually I reached out to my sister again and apologized for going through her emails and I pretty much pressed her until she confirmed everything.
I was taken back a bit so I said to her,it is just a fling right,to which she replied ''big bro i don't do flings I am going to marry her''.
The problem now is that our parents are traditional especially our mother there is no way they will accept she is gay,and I know for a fact that this will definitely not stop my sister because she is a very resolute girl and she and the girl appears to be madly in love with each other ,the girl even had her name tattooed visibly on her neck.
I don't know what my next course of action should be now because I want to try and avoid creating any rift between her and our parents.

Your sister needs me...I specialise in converting lesbians to straight mudafuckers.

Misleading heading...

Your sister is gay...

Yes your sister is a gay. Pls do your best to tell her the truth I think God want u to do that that is why u you found out early enough before she marry another confuse homosexual like her.
Homo is an abominable act and I will never support it.
All you have gotta do is tell her the truth. Do your part so it will be written before God that you warn her about such abominable immoral practice

Gentlemen in da house...
Lets all observe a minute silence for another pussy lost and taken from us.

Hey bro, your sister made her choice against any cultural judgement, she was quite aware you're going to castigate her over her choice of lesbianism, she has been hiding this because she might be articulated about the phase of reaction she might get from your parents and the rest of her family....

I won't judge her and you shouldn't,neither your siblings, her emotions is overclocking, you can only pray she resisit the urge to ordain this before your parent gets aware......


Her foreign education jorney curated this into her, it's her joy, her form of happiness and mostly her way of redeeming herself from a seclusive childhood.

shogsman:
My little sister is 26 years old,this is a very articulate, beautiful,eloquent masters degree holder who was born and raised up in naija at least for the most part.for the sake of privacy I aiint going to get into too much details, just enough to show why I am suspecting her.
I watched this girl grow up in a normal typical yoruba household with 3 Male siblings and to my best of knowledge she's always got boys at her heels yearning for her attention as early as 17years of age which was about the time she was preparing to go to college.
What I've always known about her relationship is that she was never really committed to them,it was always a matter of convenience for her,but I just thought she was just different and biding her time.
This is a girl that has never seen any man as attractive no matter how much we or I pry,but like I said we never thought anything of it.
She went to Shreveport,USA for her bsc and ultimately her msc for almost 8years.
Like a responsible big brother I look her up time to time to check up on her and try to see what is going on with her life,because we happen to be the closest in the family, what I notice is that there is always a particular caucasian girl in the background whenever I Skype her which was once in a month at least .
At first I thought it was just a friend crashing at her place because I know she doesn't have a roommate she doesn't live in a frat house or even in school ,but this two seems particularly close cos they post pictures and pretty much everything together.
To burst the bubble, a couple of weeks ago she came back here for a wellness check or an holiday so we really connected, I haven't seen her in like 2 years so we had a lot to talk about which most definitely include relationship talks.but of course she just got back and I have to let her breathe first because my sister loves her space, she's not really the talkative kind.
A couple of days went by she came to my house to spend the night,she wanted to pay for a delivery online, poor girl thought her accounts will work here seamlessly but unfortunately the payment didn't go through so I took her phone to find a way around it.
Curiosity had me so I strolled into her gallery to find pictures of a sexy tall blonde replicating all over the phone, this pictures were personal pictures if I might add,I felt guilty for denying them their privacy but I was curious still so i checked messages, emails etc and yeah my suspicions were true.
This particular girl calls her like 3 times a day,they pretty much talk all the time really, it was during one of this calls I asked my sister who she was, she answered that it's just someone close to her back in the states, I slipped up and told her about the pictures so she got angry and left which was understandable.
What I deduced from their chats and all is that they've been dating for 5 years now and their relationship is pretty much open because my sister is in contact with both of the girl's parent.
Eventually I reached out to my sister again and apologized for going through her emails and I pretty much pressed her until she confirmed everything.
I was taken back a bit so I said to her,it is just a fling right,to which she replied ''big bro i don't do flings I am going to marry her''.
The problem now is that our parents are traditional especially our mother there is no way they will accept she is gay,and I know for a fact that this will definitely not stop my sister because she is a very resolute girl and she and the girl appears to be madly in love with each other ,the girl even had her name tattooed visibly on her neck.
I don't know what my next course of action should be now because I want to try and avoid creating any rift between her and our parents.

Lazycyndy:
If you know the number of lesbian women that are married to men and the number of gay men that are married to women, you go shock.

We should stop telling ourselves lies, getting attracted to the same sex is completely natural and the earlier we accept that the better.

Rubbish!
Speak for yourself because not everyone is involved in that madness.
Same sex?

Calm down if truly your parents are traditionalist, ti eru ba kan oke to kan le oni ibi ti ama gbe si.I promise you if she see the girl she would nearly kill her.aja tu ka ni to agbari

Lazycyndy:
If you know the number of lesbian women that are married to men and the number of gay men that are married to women, you go shock.

We should stop telling ourselves lies, getting attracted to the same sex is completely natural and the earlier we accept that the better.

God forbid bad thing

shogsman:
My little sister is 26 years old,this is a very articulate, beautiful,eloquent masters degree holder who was born and raised up in naija at least for the most part.for the sake of privacy I aiint going to get into too much details, just enough to show why I am suspecting her.
I watched this girl grow up in a normal typical yoruba household with 3 Male siblings and to my best of knowledge she's always got boys at her heels yearning for her attention as early as 17years of age which was about the time she was preparing to go to college.
What I've always known about her relationship is that she was never really committed to them,it was always a matter of convenience for her,but I just thought she was just different and biding her time.
This is a girl that has never seen any man as attractive no matter how much we or I pry,but like I said we never thought anything of it.
She went to Shreveport,USA for her bsc and ultimately her msc for almost 8years.
Like a responsible big brother I look her up time to time to check up on her and try to see what is going on with her life,because we happen to be the closest in the family, what I notice is that there is always a particular caucasian girl in the background whenever I Skype her which was once in a month at least .
At first I thought it was just a friend crashing at her place because I know she doesn't have a roommate she doesn't live in a frat house or even in school ,but this two seems particularly close cos they post pictures and pretty much everything together.
To burst the bubble, a couple of weeks ago she came back here for a wellness check or an holiday so we really connected, I haven't seen her in like 2 years so we had a lot to talk about which most definitely include relationship talks.but of course she just got back and I have to let her breathe first because my sister loves her space, she's not really the talkative kind.
A couple of days went by she came to my house to spend the night,she wanted to pay for a delivery online, poor girl thought her accounts will work here seamlessly but unfortunately the payment didn't go through so I took her phone to find a way around it.
Curiosity had me so I strolled into her gallery to find pictures of a sexy tall blonde replicating all over the phone, this pictures were personal pictures if I might add,I felt guilty for denying them their privacy but I was curious still so i checked messages, emails etc and yeah my suspicions were true.
This particular girl calls her like 3 times a day,they pretty much talk all the time really, it was during one of this calls I asked my sister who she was, she answered that it's just someone close to her back in the states, I slipped up and told her about the pictures so she got angry and left which was understandable.
What I deduced from their chats and all is that they've been dating for 5 years now and their relationship is pretty much open because my sister is in contact with both of the girl's parent.
Eventually I reached out to my sister again and apologized for going through her emails and I pretty much pressed her until she confirmed everything.
I was taken back a bit so I said to her,it is just a fling right,to which she replied ''big bro i don't do flings I am going to marry her''.
The problem now is that our parents are traditional especially our mother there is no way they will accept she is gay,and I know for a fact that this will definitely not stop my sister because she is a very resolute girl and she and the girl appears to be madly in love with each other ,the girl even had her name tattooed visibly on her neck.
I don't know what my next course of action should be now because I want to try and avoid creating any rift between her and our parents.

Shreveport, Louisiana of all places!? Few states are as controversial as the Bayou state in USA. May God have mercy on her..

McStoic:
Shreveport, Louisiana of all places!? Few states are as controversial as the Bayou state in USA. May God have mercy on her..

I know right,it could be worse though, it could be new Orleans, point is I'm not sure if it was the location that made her gay