I was sauntering through Twitter some days ago. Although the recalcitrant Nigeria government had place a ban on it. I still had my way to make use of it through VPN.

A Nigeria woman was narrating how she lost her potential relationship of a year and 4 month friendship she had with her husband to be to this smart woman.

That was the very word she used to describe the smart woman who stole her fiance.

The relationship started so well in a solid foundation, they had mutual understanding within themselves. From her lengthy discourse and explantation on Twitter. She sound obviously very intelligent, I was marvel with her excellent grammatical construction. But that wasn't enough to save her relationship.

They both made an agreement from the very start of the relationship that they wouldn't be any form of sexual intimacy till they're officially married, but how long will such an idea stand in a modern days like this where sex has been the ordeal of every relationship.

I made a quick laugh while reading the interesting epistle, already making a conclusion in my mind that one of them wouldn't be able to keep up with such an agreement and my guess were actually correct

The Man couldn't control his sexual urged any longer after maintaining their relationship terms for roughly 9 month. He started demanded for sex and she kept on declining. Perhaps they were still able to kiss and maybe get a romance together lol. But no penetration.

It got to a point where he couldn't take it any longer and he order for the dissolution of the relationship. Two months after they parted way. She heard he has been engaged to another woman and she knows too well, the both of 'em must have been sleeping together.

She cried bitterly and blame herself for acting foolishly, for my mind. I was just saying that the guy was even calm with her. Thank God he didn't rape her after all the cuddling and kissing but no fucking. Wtf.

She was even advicing other woman to do everything to save their relationship even if it'd lead to sexual intercourse.

What are your take on this?
Did she do the right thing by abstaining...?

When you have principles, stick with the principles and wait for the right person who will agree with your principles and even have such.
Such man wasn't the best for her.

Yes, she did the right thing.
In this generation, sex is overrated. I wonder how the next generation go be.

Well, some may say she did right thing....
But where has her right led her to?

But personally,t can't buy suya from any aboki without collecting "testing". If aboki no wor give me the testing,I no go buy suya from am.... Sometimes self,the testing itself dey sweet pass the main suya

Oga even try self,cus what's the essence of travelling to jerusalem without entering the city?

So I think madam has used her own hands to scatter her own relationship Simply because of the same kpekus wey she go still later on give to those small small tramadol boys

If you want no sex before marriage stick to it. Kissing and romancing shouldn't be done ..

lilvicky68:
If you want no sex before marriage stick to it. Kissing and romancing shouldn't be done ..

How's that one possible not even ordinary kiss. Na wa o

Sluacoast:

How's that one possible not even ordinary kiss. Na wa o

If it's what they agreed they should stick to it..
Kissing and romancing will always bring sexual thoughts..